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*izz.Simone
writes:MY friend has a question,and doens't have an acconnt, soo she is using mine:So i like a Guy, He's everything that i've always wanted in a guy, hes Sweet, Funny, Outgoing,fun, and just someone to talk to, hes my One of my bestfriends. we've came Very close, since the summmer Break. andd noww we tell eachother everything!But. Just about 3 weeks ago, i started to get a big crush on him. Hes everything I WANT! and, it hurts because, he has a girlfriend, who he loves so much.and just seeing them together, makes me so jealous.and i don't know what to do....My Crush loves his G/f soo much, like she means the world to him. but he deserves Soo muchh better. not because i want him for myself. but she Bossys him around, gets totally Jealous when Girls are around him, and she pretends to get upset soo she'll get attention from himm. Everyone that i've told, about my crush for him, has told me he Deserves better. and that, Me and him would be soo cute together, and i Belive thatt too, and all i think about is himm. andd its just hard Seeing him with his gf. Do you think i should just move on, and forget about himm, even though, Hes someone i look for in a BOyfriend. or should, i Just leave it and look for more guys?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2007): Well, this boy sounds like a guy that i haad a crush on when i yas younger, I think that you should tell him what you feel, and mabye he feels the same for you but doesnt want to hurt you if you break up.. Just go for it. there is nothing to loose and this girl that he is goin out with sound like a bitch.. well i hope this helps
Take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2007): i was in the same situation tell him he deserves better and telling him you like him could risk your friendship but it could turn out good it is kinda something you have to figure out on your own i was glad me and my bff never dated cause now i'm like ewww!! but i could still see myself marrying him
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2007): aaaahh..
i'vee beeenn thoughh thiss.
weell
i thinnkk you shouldn;t forr get about himm..
i meann iff you like himm soo mucchh
and you think you deservee a chancee then you should take thatt Channce..
butt Breakking themm upp is not a Opinionn.
mayybee waitt forr himm, untill himm and hes gf, descidee there not right for eachotherr, andd hee might justt look youur wayy, but don;t waste your life waiting for thiiss perfect guy.. theres moree fishh in thee seaa.
ii hoppee for the besstt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2007): aaaahh..
i'vee beeenn thoughh thiss.
weell
i thinnkk you shouldn;t forr get about himm..
i meann iff you like himm soo mucchh
and you think you deservee a chancee then you should take thatt Channce..
butt Breakking themm upp is not a Opinionn.
mayybee waitt forr himm, untill himm and hes gf, descidee there not right for eachotherr, andd hee might justt look youur wayy, but don;t waste your life waiting for thiiss perfect guy.. theres moree fishh in thee seaa.
ii hoppee for the besstt.
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reader, xxbaybeegal  +, writes (28 October 2007):
 maybe you should leave the guy alone, if he loves the girl so much why try to break them up if they are a perfect couple. It is a tough question but you have to get it into your head that he already has a gf who he loves, adores and cherishes. imagine how you would feel if you had a bf and somebody wanted him for themselfs!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2007): Maybe his GF isn't pretending to be upset. I bet you don't even know her, and you're passing judgement on her.
Leave this guy well alone. Just because you want to be happy with him, doesn't mean you have the right to pass judgement on the girl he loves very much. He loves her, and they're happy together.
I know this may seem harsh, but get over it and move on. If you break them up, because you SAY you think he deserves better, even though he loves her, you're actually hurting him. Face it hun, you're not who he wants. Find someone else to crush on.
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (28 October 2007):
 hi Mizz Simone.
I agree with my other two friends, you will be getting yourself into a world of pain if you come between this couple, they must be happy with each other or they would not be together, the pain you will cause will never leave you and they will not thank you for coming between them, there is no indication that he wants to be with you, so the best thing for you to do is find yourself another bf, you will be happier doing that.
hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2007): Why hang around when he clearly isnt yours??
take care
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2007): I would leave him well alone. He obviously loves and wants to be with the girl he has chosen, and although it hurts you, you just have to accept it. You say that the girl bosses him around, gets jealous and pretends to be upset so she gets something. That sounds pretty normal behaviour to me in a relationship! Have you every thought that perhaps he likes to have a girl who is a little bit high maintenance. Alot of boys do like to go out with girls they have to work a little bit harder for you know. That challenge makes them interesting, he probably has great fun coping with her. I suggest that you move on and try to keep a good distance between you both. It can't go anywhere right now and you are the only one hurting because of the sitation. You need to put yourself first - you don't want someone who is in a relationship do you? You are worth more than having to chase after a guy, so distance yourself and meet someone who will love you just as much as you will love them. You'll have great fun getting there x
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reader, elliebellie +, writes (28 October 2007):
ok this is one of those really tough things that come up in life. yes its hard seeing that guy you really like going around with someone who he really doesnt deserve. i think theres only one thing you can do at the moment and thats be there for him as a friend. this will make him realise that maybe his best friend is actually nicer to him than his gf. in time he will move on and probably compare you to his gf. i think for the moment just be there for him as a friend and he will appreciate that. hope this helps
ellie
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