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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and i have bn together for a yr n 4months i love him to death and i no he loves me too.lately tho it seems that all we do nemore is fight. he used to call me all the time c wat i was doing, but that doesnt happen nemore, i have to call him. basically the only time he calls is wen he wants help on hw.he was my 1st and only. n it seems that the only time we get along is wen were having sex, n i dont want that bc it feels like im being used.but then things started to get better, he was tickling n talkin to me.but then i made a comment about this one girl that hes bn talkin to n i asked him to plz stop bc it made me uncomfortable, he got all pissed off. im at a loss right now. everything i do is not right. i want him to love me like he used to, tickle me not his cuzin. i want me to be the one he talks to n think about not this other girl that lives 2 hrs away. and to top it all off they've only hung out once n its his ex's cuzin.idk wat to do nemore. netime i get upset i cant eat or drink nething, unless forced bc i feel as tho im gonna throw up. we rarely hang out nemore. n it kinda seems like he tries to find reasons to break up with me, but then later we're fine n he acts like nothing happend. he never wants to talk things out, i always let things go but its starting to bother me now. i feel insecure n like i NEED him, n i hate that feeling. i also feel jealous n i have never bn that way before. i dont want to lose him, but i deff need some advice. he gets pissed off real easy too. n he tries too much to b like his older brothers. i just want the boyfriend that loved me n cared about me back. the one who didnt care wat his friends thot. who wuld sit by me if i was sitting alone, who wuld whipser sweet little things in my ear. the person who wanted to hold me every chance he got without worrying about gettin in trouble. the one who creeped me out wen he kept straing at me in class. i love him but i want him to want me like he used to. is there a way that culd happen? is he the one for me, bc i feel as tho he is. its hard to explain but i cant leave him. that boys my life. i just want him to respect me n love me like before. what shuld i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2007): I really don't know what you should do. But it seems like he lost respect in you. And you won't gain his respect back running after him all needy. You'll suffer a lot honey if you don't understand you have to love yourself first. You have to learn how to spot a guy who's only looking for sex from the ones that really are interested in you as a person. I think this guy is a jerk and he has his eyes on someone else already. He is not your life and YOU CAN live without him. You were someone before he came into your life Isn't it? Stop suffering and call him and give him a piece of your mind. When a guy is avoiding and neglecting you like this and looking for stupid reasons to argue with you it means the relationship is about to end. I understand completely why he is so special for you and believe me I know how hard is to give up your first but sometimes it has to happen.
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reader, elitzabeth +, writes (27 October 2007):
 Honey, I really think you should reorganize your questions 'cause it is not clear. Did your bf had anything to do with this girl? Are they seeing each other? I mean I don't understand, but I do get the part that you want attention from your bf. Re write the question clearly or you wont have an straight answer to your question.. good luck
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