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41-50,
*hwoesme
writes:Friend's tell me I should try to get out and have fun but god at my age I don't really know where to go..Thinking about just taking more classes this semester. I mean I work in a bar and am in college, I find when I am home,I clean and worry about thing's..and study. I don't remember the last time I came home and just felt content. Should I force myself to enjoy my own company" or should I go out and find company. I mean I am a bartender, I am sure I would have no trouble finding company but it's just my family remind's me that I am getting no younger and am still alone . Should that worry me?..It is... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007): Belive me you are not alone, and I am sure that there is plenty of guys out there for you. Just don't look in a bar, I don't think is a good place to meet good available guys to have a relationship. Take your time, like they all said, the one is on his way. I am on the same boat, same age, no kids and no marry, so I am really concern.
I am on a relationship but it gives me a lots of headaches; and don't think he is the type of guy that baby duck had described on her reply (which makes me wonder???).
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reader, dapone 1  +, writes (26 October 2007):
 hi.
I hate to say this but at your age,30 plus your still young, good grief woman, most woman from 30 onwards are in the prime of there lives, I think even thou you already have an active life, you should put some time a side get out there, enjoy yourself, smell the roses babe, dont just take some one home because your family are telling you this rubbish, you dont have to believe them, what do they know, good grief,get out there find yourself a great bloke who want to love you to bits,i am sure there plenty of them in the US just waiting for you to walk in to their lives, come on pull yourself together promise yourself at least you will have a go, dont sit at home worrying that will get you no ware, enjoy life is for living, so get out there OK, best of luck
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reader, tux +, writes (26 October 2007):
 Take it from me.. It's better to be alone, than to be in a relationship that is completely sour. And I know how you feel about your family not making it easier. I'm the last in my family who is not married with kids. All my siblings (natural and by marriage) are married and have kids. Then you have me in the corner on family gatherings left out because I have nothing to say in regards to the married or parental life, but you have to give what life gives you and be patient at times. You may not find company right away, but it still abounds out there. I thought I found someone only to be beat upon, cheated on and lied to. But I wouldnt worry toomuch if ytou have good friends and a good life. Everything will fall into place on its own accord. But one way to speed it up is to join clubs that interest you and enjoy spending time there without worrying about finding anyone. You are problaly bound to find someone, but it shouldn't take presidence in enjoying life.
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