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writes:there is a boy in my year (year 10) at my school who i really like, but he likes me as a best mate, not a crush. the problem is, he is the most popular and well known-kid in the school and some people have never heard of me. what do i do? do you think he will like me if i, somehow, become more popular? how can i become more popular? please help me!
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reader, kenny +, writes (31 October 2007):
 Never ever change to please someone else, the most important thing is that you are yourself. If this boy does not like you because you are not popular enough then i don't think he is worth it anyway. But who know's he may have his eye on you, the only way to find out is to ask.
Good luck x
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reader, Msblessed  +, writes (31 October 2007):
 dont change yourself for a guy if you become more popular you might change if he doesnt like you for who you are now then forget about him
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii +, writes (31 October 2007):
 dont become more popular to please a boy love...it may not work and if he cant see you for the person that you are then he is the one with the issue not you. just get to know him better and let him know how you feel.
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2007): You can only be yourself. Nothing more, nothing less. If people can't accept you for yourself they're not worth bothering with. What does it matter if a few people haven't heard of you? I'll tell you - it doesn't matter at all.
If you want this boy to be more than a best mate you have to tell him that. He might be thinking the same about you, you never know!
Phil
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