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Archived questions from: May, 2006 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

I fancy my flat mate but I think I have blown it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6778 days ago

31 May 2006 (F) - I have been friends with a guy who is my housemate. i have had feelings for him for a while but i am not sure how he feels about me. last night i drank too much and ended up phoning him and saying that i wanted to talk to him about something, making ...

I thought she was a lesbian, shes says she isnt, I really fancy her and want it to be more than friends..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6778 days ago

31 May 2006 (F) - I really like this girl that i know, unfortunately we are both girls. I heard these rumours that she was a lesbian and got my hopes up that she might wanna b with me, but then she said she wasn't. Recently she's been makin jokes, sayin that i was a ...

I believe someone lying to me.....how can I get over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

31 May 2006 (F) - ok my current bf (17)(and i am 16) thought i was going to dump him so he went to my best friend and told her he had feelings for her then when she told him she had feelings for him too he said he was staying with me. but that is only the beginning ...

I like this girl and would like to be with her again, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6780 days ago

30 May 2006 (M) - do you think i may be in love??? a few years ago i went out with this girl at my school for 6 months but we broke up due to harrasment from other people. her friend asked me if i still liked her. i lied by saying no because ever since i have gone ...

We were texting, but I asked to meet up and haven't heard from her...HELP!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6780 days ago

30 May 2006 (M) - I don't know what to think so please help. I was texting this girl last night and it was going great. I have only seen her twice before but anyway we said we would be best friends (even though i have only really started talking to her) and i asked ...

My friend went through the 'Mummy Test' and I might have overreacted

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6766 days ago

30 May 2006 (M) - Fellow agony aunts, I have a friend who has been seeing a guy for about a month. Her guy wants a wife and kids - he is at the stage of life where these things should have happened by now. My friend is a few months away from starting her doctorate ...

Im interested in my friend, how do i tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6781 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - Finally going to tell the man of my dreams that I have feelings for him. I have known him for nearly five years and in that time we have been friends. Both of us are single and have been spending more and more time together and I have decided...

What are the guidelines for me and my new best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6781 days ago

29 May 2006 (M) - Last night for the first time me and this girl were talking on a personal level and we really got close to each other, so we decided to be best friends. But my question is this... if we are best friends I will need to see her more. She lives pretty ...

Should I call first or should I wait for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6782 days ago

29 May 2006 (F) - There is this guy and we have only just met but i like him but i don't know if he feels the same or what he wants. We have hung out a bit and i don't know if i should be waiting for him to call or message me? I want to message him, but i feel as ...

Stuck in love triangle... What should I do??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6781 days ago

28 May 2006 (M) - Hiya, this may sound silly to some people but I convinced myself I loved this girl for the last two years of my life and she never did anything for me, I was willing to do anything for her, but two weeks ago I met one of my close m8s friends and I ...

We had a weekend plan, but then she decided to go see her friends....am I feeling right about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6784 days ago

26 May 2006 (M) - Hiya, I've been with my girlfriend for about 14 months now and we're both sixteen years old. This is gonna sound like a really petty problem and like I'm being stupid but I was wondering if its normal. Basically, me and my girlfriend spend a lot of...

Any tips on making friends... and keeping them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6785 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - Why am i so a lone. I try to make friends but nothing happens. Or they will be friends with me for a little while then one day they act like they don't no me. I NEED HELP!!!! What do i do...

The girl at school don't believe me, but her friends do! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6785 days ago

25 May 2006 (M) - erm this ones a bit complicated, Basically the girl I fancy at school is really annoyed at me, she says I've been telling her secrets to people because people know about them now, I haven't told anyone anything but she doesn't believe me. This girls ...

I've been texting my friend's ex......I can't even tell her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6785 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - Um where do i start? well.... my friends ex boyfriend and I have become really good friends and i really fancy him. The reason they both broke up in the first place was because she realised she didn't fancy him - there relationship only lasted 4 ...

Really want the girl to know how I feel before uni breaks up. Should I tell her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6785 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - I have only a few days left until I leave uni for the summer, and I have had major feelings for someone throughout the year. We are good friends and she knows how I felt about her but considering this, we are still close and flirty. I don't kn...

I want it to be her or me, but I'm afraid he'll choose her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6785 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a few months his best friend is a girl. They dated in the past for a while, but it didn't work out. He doesn't like her that way, but she is madly in love with him and obsessive, never going to leave him ...

Why can't I get over the "bad boy" I haven't seen for six months?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6485 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - I liked this guy for so so long. He has loads of different girls. I slept with him twice cos I naively thought that he would like me back. He txt me saying 'I've always liked you. I want you to take me seriously and I want us to have fun together...

Split from my girlfriend, and lost all my mates! What now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6786 days ago

24 May 2006 (M) - I've just split from my gf and now realise that I ditched all my mates for her. I called them but they've all got new lives and don't want to know. I'm 18 and have no mates or social life. I'm no good at making new friends either! What shud I do, Cu...

Am I stuck in the dreaded "Friendship Zone" or do I have a chance with this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6785 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - Not sure where I am with this guy who I’ve been close friends with for 5 months. I’d say I’m too cautious with men, and in some ways would like to overcome it. However, I want to know if this guy is a player, is confused, or being a gentleman. H...

I have a crush on my best friend but he already has a girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6781 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - I have a crush on my best friend. We just started becoming close and we both like eachother- its obvious. He does subtle things to be around me and never passes up an oppertunity to touch me in someway (innocent, of course!). We are always ...

Could my friend's fiance have gone from gay to straight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6786 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - Just a question. Is it possible for a gay man to ever truly fall in love with a woman? My friend has been dating a man with a homosexual past--she says he has at times been attracted to women but not strongly. They are talking marriage now. Do ...

All my friends boyfriends seem to like me...what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6784 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - heya i have a love problem, atm i like 5 guys which sounds bad but i would never dream of two timing so thats nnot the issue. The problem is that my friends think i am a boyfriend steeler!!??!! this hurts when people say that coz it aint my fault...

My friend is with this guy that others would like and she likes someone else also, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6787 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - Hiya I've really liked this guy for ages, and the other day my friend asked him to rate me. He gave me an alright mark, and all of my friends were saying that I should ask him out. But my friend then also told me that he said that he wouldn't...

Am I ugly or too fat? Is that why my friend isn't interested in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6787 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - I am on my friend's computer, so I have to cut this kind of short... I just turned 15 this year, I am 5' 5" with mid back length curly hair, fairly clear skin... that all sounds good but I am 200lbs. My mom has a condition called PCOS which makes...

Best friend moved in on the guy I loved from afar!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6787 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - My Best friend has asked out the guy I have loved for over 11 years. She's rubbing it in my face by kissing and hugging him in front of me and she keeps telling me all the details of their nights out. It's making me feel so upset becuase I have ...

She's in her 30's and still copies what I wear!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6733 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - I have a friend who regularly copies things I buy or wear. Or tings I buy for my child or house. She picks up on things I say then a day later she tells people my story as if it happened to her. I wouldn't mind, but we are both in our thirties...

I miss this girl in school, should I ask her out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6789 days ago

21 May 2006 (M) - Please help me! im 16 and im desperate to see this girl who is a year younger than me who was my best friend because i haven't seen her in 3 months and i personally don't know why. I want to see her because i really do miss her and i deeply care for ...

Should I worry that a married, flirting friend now wants to get at job at my company?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6789 days ago

21 May 2006 (F) - Background Male acquaintance who is married, And attracted to. I've known him about 18 months. Started off flirting and teasing me. Didn't know he was married to begin with, but when I found out, stopped the flirting, just acted friendly. Couldn...

My girlfriends and boyfriend hate each other! How do I get some balance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6790 days ago

21 May 2006 (F) - My boyfriend have been going through a really tough time lately. He says that I always blow him off for my friends, and that I treat him terribly. How can I have fun with my friends, but show him that I care at the same time?...The worst part of ...

In love with my friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6783 days ago

20 May 2006 (F) - hi i have a problem there is this guy who is my friend. recently i have been feeling towards him deeper feelings.he is in and out of a going no where relationship. he likes the girl but she doesnt really care and has other relationships. he even ...

Love my man, but his friends are arranging our whole social lives, all of us together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6791 days ago

20 May 2006 (M) - Hi everyone I've been in a relationship now for 8 great months, and I mean great. We get on well. Never had a cross word and basically I have never been in a relationship like it before, when I've been made to feel so wanted. But now, over the pa...

What's the difference between his flirting and teasing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6791 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - One of my colleague always teasing me but means no harm, I suppose. Anyway,I don't exactly know what's difference between tease and flirt sometimes from his behavior? Besides, we are very good company and have some the same interests. He looks char...

My partners ex is being awkward

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6791 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - i have lived with my partner for several years. I have had problems with an ex of my partner who wanted to be friends with him but not with me. this was sorted and my partner cut all ties with her which has resolved this. now she is moving nearer to ...

Falling for him hard but not sure i want to risk friendship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6791 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - I have a relationship problem. I am 18 years old and me and this guy from school became really good friends. He always wanted to go out with me but I liked this other guy and would get into relationships with other people but they didn't last...

He's 52, I'm 17...how to get to know him..so we can be better mates?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6784 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - I'm 17, he's 52. We get on well and we've known each other for over 5 years. He calls me a mate which is great but we don't know much bout each other. We've always speak whenever we see each other and i trust him but i still don't know much bout ...

Should i ask her friend to give me the number?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6792 days ago

18 May 2006 (M) - Would it be advised for me to ask the my crush's friend for her number? Her friend and I seem to get on very well and always talk. A few years ago my crush and i went out for 6 months and enjoyed each others company but we broke up due to harr...

My best friend's boyfriend is a harmless flirt, help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6792 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - My best friend's bf is a harmless flirt, but i know it really pisses her off that he doesn't treat her that way. She tells me she gets really jealous and often says she 'hates' these girls. He just happens to have a lot of close friends who are ...

How to go pubilic about my new relationship after the break up of my marriage.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6792 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - Hi, First i must say that i have always found your column very helpful and i can relate to some of the advice given. Well here is my problem, six months ago i came out of a marriage that i was more a convenience than a wife, i had looked up to m...

Sex with an ex but just friends sex....is it normal?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6792 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - My ex bf and I started talking again, now everything is so great and we're friends - well....more than friends I think. A week or two ago I told him I was still in love with him but since then my feelings have changed (i think). Now he just feels ...

How do I stay friends with my ex

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6781 days ago

18 May 2006 (M) - I dated a girl for just over 2 months and it was the best relationship ever. Not only were we a good couple, but we were the best of friends too. At the beginning of the 3rd month she asked me if we could just remain friends as other factors in...

I haven't had a boyfriend yet, but my friends have.....what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6792 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - help me....im 16 an have never had a bf. i feel so left out when all me mates start talkin bout theres coz i aint got one. is it coz i aint pretty enough or coz i aint got a great personality. i have loads of mates, sum of whom are boys, but no one ...

Really like this girl.. How do I ask her out??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6793 days ago

17 May 2006 (M) - this girl shows me pictures of her pet horse and wont let anone else see the pictures. she glances at me at often smiles when she sees me. i get on well with hre friends and they appear to like me. at the end of the school year last year we played ...

Have I any hope with friendly crush??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6793 days ago

17 May 2006 (F) - I've liked this guy for 9 months now, he knows I like him and about three months ago he messaged me and told me that he thinks it would be best if we just stayed friends. Ever since he said that, we haven't spoken to each other, and every time I get ...

Do I just stay friends or make a move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6793 days ago

16 May 2006 (F) - There's this boy and I known him for 4 years and I consider him my bestfriend. Well I like him more than a friend. He found out I do and I was told that he liked me more than a friend too. I kind of love this kid but how do I know if he really likes ...

I like her but does she like me? am i reading the signs wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6795 days ago

15 May 2006 (F) - am i reading signs all wrong, but i think there is this girl who likes me. our hands touch and our legs touch but she is not a girly touchy girl at all and i have strong feelings towards her, i see her looking at me aswell and i can just feel ...

How To Stop Unwanted Affection

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6794 days ago

15 May 2006 (F) - I work with loads a women but only a few guys. One of the guys is single and so am I. We get on really well, I spend ages chatting to him and we have a lot of fun because we're a laugh together. Trouble is some people from work have been saying that ...

He said he was going to be breaking up with his girlfriend, but now he isn't paying that much attention to me....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6795 days ago

15 May 2006 (F) - A few weeks ago I met a boy at the library. At first we would just give each other a smile but eventually we started to talk-I found out he had a girlfriend and was a little shocked when I did find out because he told me he thought I was really cute ...

We kissed and now I need to know his true feelings!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6795 days ago

15 May 2006 (F) - me and one of my mates kissed last weekend and when my friends asked him he said i made the first move and he doesn't like me in that way.. but when i see him now he either turns the other way or goes embarassed....help what should i do to find out ...

Does my ex-girlfriend still care about me and want me back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6791 days ago

15 May 2006 (M) - So my ex and I were getting along fairly well as friends even though I still love her. The semester just ended (we go to the same college), and I went out to drink and celebrate. When I got back, I IM'd her and we were talking lightly, joking, ...

Seems like my boyfriend fancies my friends more than me... Or am I just imagining it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6796 days ago

15 May 2006 (F) - I am currently living with my boyfriend and since we've started dating, it's with me and my girls and him. They use to come over to his house when I was there to visit all the time. I used to catch him taking a glimpse at my friends when they wou...