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writes: One of my colleague always teasing me but means no harm, I suppose. Anyway,I don't exactly know what's difference between tease and flirt sometimes from his behavior?Besides, we are very good company and have some the same interests. He looks charming when he is smiling.I couldn't stop thinking about him.I felt that there is somthing between us but no one seems want to go further first. But i'm afraid that's my imagination, he perhaps doesn't like me at all or just being nice. So, can anybody help me answer above question and tell me what should I do?
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reader, bonym +, writes (20 May 2006):
To me flirting is when you are definately giving someone the come on and you are trying to tell them "look I want you and I want you to know it! whereas to me, teasing is where the person may be playing some sort of mind game, i.e. they are trying to get your attention but they dont want to make it so obvious so it becomes like a sort of "game" if you like. I like whst Shania said, I would do just that!! See how it goes. xXx
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (19 May 2006):
He probably likes you as he wouldn't waste his time flirting/ teasing if you were not on his mind. Think about little boys at school in the playground...I think they are always horrible to the girls they like the best, and some little boys never quite manage to grow up! My husband is ALWAYS teasing me in a harmless way, and he did when we were dating...nothing too nasty though, just silly stuff. You should probably ask him if he wants to continue the war of words in the pub. If he refuses, at least you could say you were only teasing him!
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reader, shania +, writes (19 May 2006):
I would just ask him out for a drink,just the two of you and see what he says.If he likes you alot then he should say yes,straight away.If he makes excuses up on why he cant see you...then its safe to say that he probably see's you as just a friend.Just ask....otherwise you will be forever wondering....good luck.
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