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writes: There is this guy and we have only just met but i like him but i don't know if he feels the same or what he wants. We have hung out a bit and i don't know if i should be waiting for him to call or message me? I want to message him, but i feel as though i'm pressuring him. But i don't know. Is it right for me to be doing this or should i wait and see what he wants? Reply to this Question
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reader, Smiler +, writes (29 May 2006):
 Hey there
Honestly if i were you and i wanted to test the water before jumping in i would just send him a general text asking how he's doin and if he wanted to meet up for coffee or something a general chat... if he reponds straight away you will know he's a keen as mustard if he takes a while maybe he's not so keen or just shy if no response you will know how he feels to ok...
I hope my advise helped you a little sweetie. Good luck
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reader, Smiler +, writes (29 May 2006):
Hey there
Honestly if i were you and i wanted to test the water before jumping in i would just send him a general text asking how he's doin and if he wanted to meet up for coffee or something a general chat... if he reponds straight away you will know he's a keen as mustard if he takes a while maybe he's not so keen or just shy if no response you will know how he feels to ok...
I hope my advise helped you a little sweetie. Good luck
You Take Care X
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (29 May 2006):
 Give it one friendly contact, then wait to see how he responds. If it were me, I'd send one text, or make one call, or voice mail, saying how much I'd enjoyed talking to him before and letting him know that you'd be pleased to hear from him any time.
After that, wait for him to make the next move. That way, you know that you're not pressuring him.
Good luck with it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2006): I was in the sam position as you when i met my current partner 2 years ago. i didnt think that he was intrested in me at all and he seemed to ignore me sometimes so i left it even though i really liked him i played it cool and within 3 days he was ringing and texting me and we have been together since i would personally leave it for him to contact you if he really likes you and donsnt hear from you am sure he will be in contact if not then maybe text him in a week or so to see how he is doin.
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