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writes: I have been friends with a guy who is my housemate. i have had feelings for him for a while but i am not sure how he feels about me. last night i drank too much and ended up phoning him and saying that i wanted to talk to him about something, making it obvious that i had more than friendly feelings. i wont see him for a while now probably about 3 months as i am moving into another house in september. i txt him appologising however he hasnt replied. i am worried now that it will ruin our friendship. Reply to this Question
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (1 June 2006):
 Maybe he was shocked and needs to work through if he has relationship feelings for you or just friendship.
Give him time but not too long and text him again saying that you realise you came on strong but felt you had to tell him, having done that you would like some feedback even if it is that you remain friends.
Ball in his court so to speak.
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reader, camille +, writes (1 June 2006):
 Try not to worry. Boys don't always answer texts as quick as girls and in that time you can drive yourself mad with imagining what they're thinking. Just wait and see what he says the next time you speak, text or see each other. Maybe the 3 months will help things? It sounds like you did a good thing waiting rather than while you were living together as it will be less awkward should he not feel the same. I know 2 friends (1 male, 1 female) and they are still best friends despite the fact she has told him several times that she likes him more than that and they had a difficult conversation but are still the best of friends. It may not be end the end of your freindship, it may not be the start of a relationship but it WILL be ok. Just give him time and try not to stress.
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