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writes: erm this ones a bit complicated, Basically the girl I fancy at school is really annoyed at me, she says I've been telling her secrets to people because people know about them now, I haven't told anyone anything but she doesn't believe me. This girls friends all believe me I just don't see why she doesn't believe me does anyone know why, and also I've tryed everything to get her to beleve me so also has anyone got any ideas of how ro prove to her that I haven't told anyone as well as why she doesn't believe me?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok I will thanks for the help I'll keep you posted
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reader, electra  +, writes (25 May 2006):
 hey therewell to be honest with you its really hard school can be a tough enough time without any extra probs i will try my best to advise you ok. well i understand what your sayin that you have not betrayed this girls trust by telling others her secrets but as for why she won't believe you well maybe she is a little ionsecure herself trying to keep all these secrets quiet just keep reassuring her that you have not broken her trust explain that its hard to keep things bottled up and that is probably why she is so paranoid but try not to get angry or annoyed try to remember she must be finding things hard to keep things bottled up ok. and if all else fails tell her how you actually feel about her that you are attracted to her so you would never betary her trust in that way ok i hope my advice helps you out take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2006): well she might be liking all the attention u r giving her by going up 2 her all the time to explain ur not guilty!just leave her - its her loss if she doesnt believe u shes lost ur friendship and once she has realised u have given up trying to persuade her she may well come bk and start talkiing to u again.let me know what happens by writing to me on this page!hope it all goes well.luv anonymouse
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