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writes: I work with loads a women but only a few guys. One of the guys is single and so am I. We get on really well, I spend ages chatting to him and we have a lot of fun because we're a laugh together. Trouble is some people from work have been saying that I spend too much time talking to him and suggesting we like each other. This guy ends up turning up were I am, at times outside work but I like as a friend nothing more. I orginally thought he was gay and wasn't the only one in this thinking but the other day I spent about 45 minutes chatting to him and got to know the type of girl he goes for. Now they think there is something going on. How do I put a stop to it??? Reply to this Question
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reader, Angel ron +, writes (16 May 2006):
 How you can stop unwated affection is to tell him to leave you alone.
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reader, Violet_Angel +, writes (15 May 2006):
People who gossip will do such, no matter what. At this point, have you thought about discussing matters with him outside of work, and maybe keeping the friendship outside of work. You really should not care what others say, but you sound uncomfortable and a really nice friend to him.
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