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Archived questions from: October, 2007 (see latest in Forbidden love category)

Forbidden love: Help and advice

My boss is flirting with me, he's married, I am flattered but I know its wrong , how do I get rid of these feelings for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6230 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - I started a new job about 8 weeks ago. I noticed my boss giving me eye contact. He then gently touched arms with me a few times and I was flattered by the attention. My job involves being out at night in a club together and one night he was ...

I've slept with this guy a couple of times,I really like him, but I think he only wants to be friends, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6230 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - i slept with my 28year old friend twice,i`m 19, i think i`m getting to like him but i think he`s has no liking in that way towards me, well he acts like we are only friends and i act so also. I hardly talk bout my boyfriend to him but he talks ...

I'm 15, he's 26, we really click, should I consult my parents?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - Dear Agony Aunt, do you think that age matters? i mean in our world which we live in, these days, you hear stories about 60 year olds having babies and 8 yer old's smoking, so is it such a bad thing for 15 year old and a twenty six year old to f...

I'm in love with a married friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6230 days ago

30 October 2007 (M) - I have been close friends and work colleague with a woman for many years but my love for her has now become a problem because I think of little else these days. We spend time at work together and meet socially as friends. To make matters more...

I'm 17 , he's 20 , my family say he is too old for me, I don't agree, who's right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6232 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - for the record, The names of the people in this story have been changed for their well being. :] ok, I never do this. My brother(20) and my sister(21) FINALLY invited me to one of the numerous parties my brother throws at his house. It was a ...

I'm moving in with my long distance boyfriend, but now my ex is back, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6232 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - I have been in a long distant relationship with my current boyfriend for 2 years. I am preparing to move to Florida with him within the next couple of months to begin our new life together. I broke up with my ex-boyfriend from 15 years ago, because ...

Now that roommate and I live separately, time to try a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6232 days ago

28 October 2007 (M) - I'm having a difficult time interpreting a friends' actions. She and I lived together for some time and before I moved out for law school we had become particularly close/flirtatious. I had never thought it was a good idea to pursue anything ...

Our only obstacle is that she doesn't want to hurt her parents with an intercaste marriage. What to do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6233 days ago

28 October 2007 (M) - hi i m 27 male and belong to an orthodox indian family and i m madly in love with a girl of different caste who is 21 n studying. we are in this relationship for the past 1 year and she loves me truely as well . but we got seperated almost 5 times ...

I can't get divorced because of religious/ culteral reasons.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6233 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - I have been married for 21 years. I have 2 children, both teenagers.My husband is a workaholic, we rarely spend time with each other. Since the birth of our last child in 1993 our sex life has dwindle to almost nothing. If we do have sex, i usually ...

My best friends mum

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5898 days ago

26 October 2007 (M) - i live in glasgow,scotland and i am 31, i want to shag my best freinds mum but i dont know how to go about it she has great big tits. my freind lives away from home so it's just her living herself, one time i was at my freinds own house at ...

I broke up with my boyfriend who cheated on me, Is it bad for me to have feelings for his best friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6236 days ago

26 October 2007 (F) - I just broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years!!! uhh i know, I am now 25. I come to find that he continously chaeted on me throughout the entire relationship. I moved to fla with him so he could go to school and all. I had absolutly no idea. He ...

I feel like I'm only in his life because he doesn't want to be alone after his wife died, am I wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6236 days ago

26 October 2007 (F) - Okay, here goes. MY sisters best friend died four months ago. Her husband left to care for four children on his home spent many a night drinkin and getting high. One night he invited me round and after that night he texted me often and I'd ...

I'm 16 and involved with 2 guys and a girl and still feel the need for more!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6229 days ago

25 October 2007 (F) - hey you guys...I am in serious trouble. I am a 16 year old girl and I am currently involved with 2 guys and a girl. I have a problem where I am always looking for more heat and I will go to any measures to get it. One of the men is 47 and happens to ...

I have a strange habit where my mother is concerned

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

25 October 2007 (M) - I am a 20 year old student who left home for uni recently. But before I left I did something really horrible. I got drunk the night before I left in the house and went and hid in the linen closet in our bathroom. I waited for my mother to come home ...

The sex is great but he's married

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6207 days ago

25 October 2007 (F) - I have been seeing this guy that is 26 years older then me, he is married and has 3 kids 17,16,13. He does not like his wife and they dont sleep together or even speak. We have the BEST sex ever. I am so in love with him what should i do?...

Does my teacher like me a little too much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6233 days ago

24 October 2007 (F) - hi, im 18 years old and im in highschool, for the past 3 years ive been really close to my previous teacher, and i look up to him as a father figure. but ive always had this thought in my mind thats hes had differnt intentions.For example hes alwa...

I fantasize about having sex with my mother

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

24 October 2007 (M) - I have asked this question before but am still curious as what to do. I am now 17, my mum is 43. 6 years ago, i was living with my mum, i was in the need of the drink, so went into the kitchen to get one, only my mum was in the way on the worktop ...

No comfort for losing secret love

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - Had been having ... hate to use the word affair.. a REALLY close friendship with a married man.. it had been going on for 9 years.. recently I had insisted on complete platonic (two years of platonic) relationship due to a new relationship that i ...

Lesbian sisters?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - hi. i am 18 and i am a lesbian. my younger sister is 13 and we are close. i have started to get horny around her and want to know if this is wrong. should i not spend as much time with her?...

I was told to 'go back to africa' by my boyfriend - am I over reacting by breaking it off?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 6235 days ago

22 October 2007 (F) - Till recently i was in an interracial relationship (black and white). My boyfriend and I got into a political discussion and he told me to go back to Africa and I broke it off. Some of my friends say it was just a slip of the tongue and it's no big ...

My life is in turmoil, I have found that my fiance is a liar and potential cheat - Chat rooms, rude pictures, womens numbers. How can I ever trust him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

22 October 2007 (F) - Me and my fiance have been together now for 5 years, we met online and lived 135 miles apart for the first year, i trusted him completely but when we moved in together i started noticing things weren't right, he had loads of rude pictures on his pc ...

I'm in love with my cousin in law, Help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6239 days ago

22 October 2007 (M) - Im 14 and shes 23. We are not related in any way. She is married to my cousin, and they have two kids. We have been talking a lot and spending a lot of time together and I think i fell in love with her. I know I should accept that this love isnt ...

He's got a girl, but wants to chill with me. Should I let him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

19 October 2007 (F) - I met this boy at this party named peter.....ever since then weve been wanting to hang out.At this time he didnt have a gf.....now hes back wit the same girl.....Hes a really sexual person and his girl gives him everything he wants ...he knows im ...

Am I reading too much into this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6232 days ago

19 October 2007 (F) - Hey. I'm just wondering if any of these signs lead to one of the teachers in my school fancying me...? He's about 8/9 years older than I am. It's just confusing me a little. Like everytime hes talking to another teacher and I'm walking down ...

I gave my stepfather a BJ. Did he take advantage of me or was it my fault? I don't want to hurt my mum

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

19 October 2007 (F) - I'm really confused about my relationship with my step father. He's 27 and I'm 16. My Mom Married him 3 years ago, even though she's 12 years older then him, and everyone was against it. But anyway, a few weeks ago when i came home from school, ...

Professor crush.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

19 October 2007 (F) - I believe I have fallen in love with a professor. I have been attending community college for almost 2 years now and everytime I see this professor ... I just get really goofy..I saw him this morning when I was going to make up and exam..he alway's ...

I can't see that it's over

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6243 days ago

18 October 2007 (F) - have been having an affair with a man who i taught was my soul mate.. we meet on friday night, booked into a hotel and had an amazing loving night.. i have txt him twice since and he has not replied.. should i just move on? its very hard to be like ...

Can love survive religious conflict?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6243 days ago

18 October 2007 (F) - im a hindu and my boyfriend is a muslim we have been with each other 4 2months and 3weeks. we have come to the stage in our relationship wer he has startin to realise that when our parents find out his family may not accept me but he aint shore ...

I'm falling for my teacher

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

18 October 2007 (F) - Okay I have a real problem that could get bigger if I don't know how to stop it. I think I am falling for my teacher. When I first started his class I didn't really feel anything but as the days went on I found my thoughts wandering to him. I still ...

He says we won't work b/c of his parents - but I still want to know how he feels about me! How can I find out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6243 days ago

17 October 2007 (F) - Actually I am stuck up in a problem, which I expect that u may b able to solve. See. I had met a guy in delhi. He worked in a shop and we didn't know each other. When I returned back to bombay, I was not able to forget him as HE also looked at me in...

I am not coping with this break up well

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6236 days ago

17 October 2007 (F) - Help me please, because I really don't think I am capable of dealing with this situation. I really love this guy and he loves me. We broke up 4 weeks ago. The reason for the breakup was basically, his alcoholism. We've been together for mor...

Help me-i love my female teacher!

This question has 40 answers - newest was posted 4938 days ago

14 October 2007 (F) - hi i'm 15. a new teacher came to my school. i fell absoloutley madly in love with her, i can never stop thinking about her. it's killing me. i love her more than i've loved anybody. i don't know whether to keep it to myself, or tell her. if i tel...

Help! His parents are bigots!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6244 days ago

14 October 2007 (F) - I am a white british woman with 3 young children from a previous relationship. I am in a relationship with a black african man. We are very much in love and wish to marry,my family and friends accept our relationship as do my partners siblings and ...

Do you think my teacher likes me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6185 days ago

14 October 2007 (F) - I'm a senior in high school and my psych teacher is proably about 25. He's so cute! The first day of school I had to sign a aper and the bell had already rang. When I was leavig he went out of his way to ask "hey, you all set" . The next day wehn I ...

How do I ask my cousin to have sex with me?

This question has 84 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

14 October 2007 (M) - Hi, I've been wanting to have sex with my cousin and I want to ask her, but I'm not sure if she feels the same way. I feel she does sometimes and then I feel it hard to ask her. How do I know she wants to? How do I ask her? Thanks for a...

He says I'm too young, but...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6244 days ago

14 October 2007 (F) - So I like this guy who just turned 20. I am 16. The day before my 16th birthday, I went to his house (I am really great friends with his sister, and whole family, thats how we met). We don't usually talk a lot when I'm over there, because I am over ...

Can I convince her to stay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6248 days ago

13 October 2007 (F) - Bare with me i'm so confused and hurt that i just don't know what to do.What if i think my partner of almost 20 years is making a huge mistake by giving up our whole life together to be with her first love who is also maried? Can i do or say ...

How to tell him I want more than secret text love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6248 days ago

13 October 2007 (F) - this is realy complicated so i am going to try my best to explain.... i live in a pub and get along realy well with a certain customer who is nine years older than me, about two month ago we were talking over the computer and he told me that he ...

Is my teacher flirting with me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

11 October 2007 (F) - Hello this may seem like a pointless question but i am just wanting to know what little treasure means? coz my teacher always calls me his little treasure and today he walked in the class when i was alone and said hello Becky hows my little treasure...

Her parents found out we were having sex, and didn't take it well.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6248 days ago

9 October 2007 (M) - About one month ago, my gf's parents found out we were having sex. They went ballistic! I think they overreacted and made things overly complicated instead of just dealing with it. I am not a college kid trying to get laid! I have been with my girl ...

Do I tell my teacher how I feel?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6210 days ago

9 October 2007 (F) - I'm a legal adult now. I really like him and want to buy him presents or do something else nice for him *blush*. Unfortunately there's still a large age gap between my teacher and myself (He's actually around my dad's age *ugh*). I was ...

How can I restore a friendship with my teacher that very nearly became 'off-limits'?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6232 days ago

8 October 2007 (F) - alright. i have searched my general topic and am aware there are HUNDREDS of people asking related questions and getting answers..but before you pass this off as being another student teacher relationship question...hear me out! it's a bit of a read ...

Is there a future for us? - we have fallen in love

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6254 days ago

7 October 2007 (F) - recently been involved in an affair with someone from the past,both of us have fallen in love .He does not love his wife and has told her he wants to leave many times even before i even come back into his life but always ends up staying for the 3 ...

I want sex but I'm scared. Please help!

This question has 49 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

6 October 2007 (F) - I need help big time. I'm 12 yrs old and my bf is 13. We both want the same thing - sex. But i'm to scared. I feel ready but dont no if i should. He is so understanding n never rushes me he says if i dont want to than he'll wait. We've bee...

Am I a lesbian?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

6 October 2007 (F) - I'm just 15.. Not in a serious relationship.. But urgghh.. I have this confusing and hurting obsession towards my teacher, who happens to be a woman. She's aged 40, married..there's no sexual attraction duh..however, I love her so much, like my ...

How socially acceptable is a 6 year age difference?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6219 days ago

6 October 2007 (F) - I recently went to help on a school trip (yr 7s) for a couple of days and whilst I was there I met a guy who was 22 and has just finished his teacher training and maths degree. Although we didn't get to talk much because of being on separate acti...

Will this man ever leave his wife for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

6 October 2007 (F) - I too am married and dating a married man for more than 2 years. It all started with small conversations which grew into daily conversations. Eventually, our spouses found out (now they have become friends) however, we can't leave each other ...

How do I deal with my feelings for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

6 October 2007 (F) - I am a widow and I have fallen in love with my late husband's best friend who is married. I had no intention to reveal my feelings to him and had wanted us to continue being very good friends. However, he took the first move and we ended up ...

I have a huge crush on my 58 year old vice pricipal

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6245 days ago

4 October 2007 (F) - I am 17 and I have a huge crush on my vice principal and he is 58. He is always saying that I look stylish he is always placing his hand in my hair when I talk to my other teacher. Is he jealous? When I am with my friends he only says "hi, how are ...

I have a sexual relation with my... half brother. Is it wrong, since it doesn't hurt anybody, or should I stop it right away? It's pure lust and we both pursue other relations...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

4 October 2007 (F) - Somebody please help me, I have a big problem and there is nobody else I can talk to about it. Im very embarrased talking about and i know i will probably be judged.i guess i wouldnt blame anyone for judging me. Anyway, its a long story so here ...