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Do you think my teacher likes me?

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Question - (14 October 2007) 7 Answers - (Newest, 16 December 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm a senior in high school and my psych teacher is proably about 25. He's so cute! The first day of school I had to sign a aper and the bell had already rang. When I was leavig he went out of his way to ask "hey, you all set" . The next day wehn I went to go into the clas he tried to get out and we both kind of stumbled, until he let me go. We almost make eye contact and its weird cuz he soooo shy and he doesnt really make eye contact with anyone else. Yeterday I noticed that we look at eachother other more and more. We stare until one of us looks away ad then once we look away we look right back at eachother to see if we are looking. And he always is! Everytime we get into groups he comes over to mine and talks to us. Yesterday we were in partners and me and my partner were worknig and he took the chair in frot of me and pulled it to my desk. He leaned over my desk and was pointing to my paper but he looked into my eyes the whole time... AHHHH do you know think he likes me? Its just so weird and touh cuz hes so young and very good looking.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2007):

Well i think he likes you of course, because a similiar thing like that happens with me when i use to go to school and in grade 7 this female teacher use who use to teach me use to love staring at me in class, she even let me sit in the front seat right beside her desk, and she use to love smile with me and she even always look out for me at school and wait for me before she starts her class in the morning and i like that, but i was all ways shy towards her and she know that but sometimes it looks like it piss her off, because she knows that i know that she likes me but i was just too shy to say something to her. Plus whenenever its time for us (students) to go to the food and nutrition class she always look kinda sad and stare at me because she knows that she wasnt going to see me again in her class for the day, but the food and nutrition class is downstairs her class so because she knows that sometimes we always go outside to catch water for the food and nutrition class to do practical she always stands at her class doorway and look outside to see if i was going to go outside and she saw me and she was enlighted when she saw me and she was teasing me like saying i cant wash and she was smiling with me and all i can do was to smile too i was a very shy person in her class i dont think she even heard me talk in the class before only when she ask me something,because i was washing a sewing cloth because the class let us do sewing too sometimes its a home and economic class too, and when i leave from grade 7 to grade 8 she comes in grade 8 too to teach me. But i didnt go into grade 9 i left that school to go to a secondary school but she didnt know that i was going to go to that school and she did seems disappointed when she saw me one day downtown going to school she looks at me and smile and all i can do was to smile back i even look back behind me to look at her when our two eyes make four because she look behind her too to look at me while we walk away from each other lol and i did feel bad because i pass her and i did say anything to her, she is a beautiful woman and up to this day she still likes me and i like her too but i dont show it and i hit myself for that, but when she sees my nowadays she call me by my name and i dont say one word more than to smile alone, and i regret that because i know it makes her think that i am shy still all when i want to say something to her when i see her i cant i feel afraid to do that still. But she is a nice person and she did use to pay good attention to me at class.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2007):

Probably, he has a crush on you... Ive experienced that.., i am also a high school student now and my teacher and I have a relationship.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2007):

hey ... same situation here.. I really don't know what to tell you. I really don't know what to tell myself. Grade 12.. been liking this teacher since grade 9 when I had him for geog, didn't have him till this year bio. we used to talk. He stares at me in class, and I will look up, and he wont look away. He's 27, im 17. Everyone tells me its wrong. I try to refrain from telling people cause they think its weird. I guess it is, but hey, im weird. It's also kinda sad. I know a lot about him, probably more than anyone in the school,well obviously his first name...where he lives..car he drives..phone number... And it's not like I'm stalking him, well... im not trying to. I sound like a freak. I go up and ask him questions even when I get it. I will take long on my tests so I stay a bit longer after school, same with labs. We've had some laughs together, and I cry over him daily. He's my obsession, but its not a scary obsession. we kinda have history in grade 9, well just like we got along really well. Im just as confused as you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2007):

We can't tell you if he likes you, hun. No one can. But I am seeing a young teen girl interpreting his every move as possible desire for her. You are in that dreamy, "I'm in love' state, that millions of teen girls experience for their teachers, every day. Heck..I remember having a big crush on my history teacher in grade 10. Two weeks later, when I began dating my bf..the teacher was out and this cute guy, was in. Do you see what I am trying to say? When we are in the middle of adolecence, the hormones go wild. We have crushes that last a week, a month, a year. But we mature and eventually move on. Everyone works it out in their own time. But here is the reality. He can't date you and I think you know that, don't you. So fantasize away, dream about him but realize he has to adhere to a code of ethics that all teacher's do-they don't become involved romantically with their students. If he treats you with respect then someday, when you do date a guy...use this teacher's good character as a model for what you want in a dating partner. But understand...it is ethically wrong for this teacher to date you. If he did, he would put his career at great risk..and I think he is not willing to do that. And remember, it's highly likely that many other young females like him as well. So just enjoy him as a teacher and a friend, but keep it all in perspective.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2007):

Be careful!!! You can't do anything PERIOD while he's your teacher or he'll be in big trouble. Also, it sounds like you really fancy him, but he may(I'm not sure)may only trying to be nice. Sometimes people like to see things that aren't really there (trust me, I do it all the time, but again, I can't know for sure). Just be careful, and after you graduate try and talk to him. Maybe then something can happen. Good luck!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2007):

Well another case of does my Teacher like me? Search it there lots of good anwers.

Hey might just have a soft spot for you or favor you like Tommy sed enjoy the attension but be wise!

Good Luck! Cheesy A. XoX

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (14 October 2007):

Enjoy the attention, but be smart and don't meet up with him outside of school.

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