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writes:I believe I have fallen in love with a professor. I have been attending community college for almost 2 years now and everytime I see this professor ... I just get really goofy..I saw him this morning when I was going to make up and exam..he alway's happen's to be around when I pop into the campus off schedule..to sign up for classes...he is married...beautiful smart daughter..my age..I worked at the campus for a short time buy had to go back to bartending..survival money wise and I am single with no support..so his daughter also worked there..she was an english professor..very nice..and I am sure he has a beautiful wife and family..my god I am such a geek..how can a 32 year old woman fall for someone twice her age..i need to get over it..but secretly I want to sign up for his classes because I looovvee to hear him talk..he is an attorney..teacher..I dont think this is a question but..he prob think's I am nutz..every time I see him I loose my "composure" and can't carry myself..he think's I am nutz...
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reader, ConfusedandCreepedOut +, writes (28 May 2010):
i'm in the same boat...except i'm 25 and he's 60..and not married but does have two kids a boy and girl
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-really-really-like-my--60-year.html
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2008): Okay, look....
It's not all that uncommon for a student to crush on their professor, teacher, or other authority figure. What you have to accept here is that, especially since this guy is MARRIED, you're going to have to back off. Before you walk into his classes, or when you do see him, take a deep breath. Play with your hands under your desk while he's talking.... ANYTHING to keep yourself under control. My crush, whose a year older, has a girlfriend....
Well, I am INSANELY jealous, but I don't show it, and I don't ever show anything more than friendship when I'm around him. Pure and simple.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2008): Hi, well I have a similar story. Except that we both are married. He is very attarctive and is twice my age. I don't know if he likes me. I am trying to ignore him but I don't know what to do. He gives me a lot of attention. When i go up to ask him a question he smiles and gets touchy with me. He smiles at me alot and gives me that look, when he is lecturing (a stare). I am ignoring him. I can see him looking at me from the corner of my eyes when my head is down. When he knows i am looking at him he ignores me. what is up with him.
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reader, ohwoesme +, writes (28 October 2007):
ohwoesme is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMy God.. I saw him they other day and he asked me if I was still getting straight A's...lol...when I saw him it was like crazy because I was making up an exam that I had missed and it was like 7am..so here I am thinking..oh god I was all concerned about making up this exam and I got a fraking D on it...all to crazy that, that same day he asked me if I was still getting straight A's...I should have said no. In any case, I went over they exam with my professor..for that class and I think I know what I did wrong..not enough detail..she sais I am listing and not writing...the full answere..she also teaches research and writing skill's so maybe instead of being pissed off that I got a D on they exam, I should be happy that she actually is telling me .. hey your a shitty writer dear..work on it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2007): I think I understand how you feel; I am also a non-trad college student (31) wrapping up my junior year at a state university. For the first time this semester, I enrolled in a class taught by a VERY attractive mid-30s recently minted PhD that instructs in the very sub-discipline of a certain science in which I want to specialize in grad school. I try to avoid talking to him at all costs (I am hopelessly transparent), although I find myself checking him out when he's writing stuff on the board...;)
Attraction for those we admire is 100% natural; try to put all that pent-up energy to productive use. I'm using mine to ace Dr. ??'s course!
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reader, ladysuzanna  +, writes (20 October 2007):
 well that can happen but i stay far away unless you want to be cause of broken marriage good luck
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