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writes:im a hindu and my boyfriend is a muslim we have been with each other 4 2months and 3weeks. we have come to the stage in our relationship wer he has startin to realise that when our parents find out his family may not accept me but he aint shore about that. but 4 mine it would take time he wants to end it but i dont wana because i know that he dont want because he said to me he love me 2 much what should i do ? i can do anything 4 him even convert if so
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reader, babyblue4020  +, writes (18 October 2007):
 I would wait until you really knew if you loved him and you were serious about each other first. I would maybe mention it to him and tell him you want to be with him and to not worry about that right now. If you truly love someone then you will always find a way to be with them and you won't let obsticles block the love you have. Make sure you really want to be with him first before you make any rash decisions that will surely change your life. You have not really been together that long yet.
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reader, sexi  +, writes (18 October 2007):
 Hi
I think that you should think about conerting. The truth is that girls do normally convert and follow their husbands religion.If you are okay with converting then his parents shouldnt have a big problem. What about your parents? Would they be ok if you converted? Would they accept your bf seeing that he is muslim and not a hindu? Swty, remember that love doenst have a colour and that as long as you are happy then things would work out. I am tamil and my bf is christian, i know ( and so do my parents) that if i marry him then i would be a christian. I already go to church with my bf and i dont do any prayers at home. I fast with my parents (only because im stayting with them) At the end of the day it os what makes you happy. Speak to your bf and tell him that you love him and the extent you are willing to go to (to change your religion) and tell him that you should stick together. Believe me if you wanna get throught this you have to do it together. I have been to Sh*t with my bf and we battled it out together. We are still together. Of you 2 are determined then you would get throught this.Love conquers all!
Regards, mail me if you wanna speak about anything. I can let you know about lots coz ive been in a similar position as you.
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