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anonymous
writes:i slept with my 28year old friend twice,i`m 19, i think i`m getting to like him but i think he`s has no liking in that way towards me, well he acts like we are only friends and i act so also. I hardly talk bout my boyfriend to him but he talks about his girlfriend.I have my child`s father also, we both know about each other but sex is getting me too close, should i tell him we have to stop from letting it happen a third time and just be friends only or just tell him i`m getting feelings for him. what to do please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, dapone 1  +, writes (31 October 2007):
 Hello.
Sorry about this but i have read your letter and i am a bit confused myself,if i get this wrong please do not shout at me, OK.
If the 28year old guy is having sex with you, and talking about his girlfriend, not a good sign, you are getting feeling for him but he does not want to have feeling for you, he only wants to have sex with you, please do not tell him you are getting feelings for him or he will run a mile, which would not be a bad thing, as you have said you do not want sex with him any more but want to keep him as a friend, thats a really good idea, except you wont be able to do that because you are attracted to him and getting feelings for him, so maybe you should tell him that you can no longer continue to be his friend because it is hurting your feeling, and your boyfriend does not like it, think it time to give him up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2007): well child what you should do it stop sleeping with him because that is going to make the situation worse and u don't want that, the next thing u should do is let you boyfriend know was up. tell him that u are very sorry and let it go from there, then u let his girlfriend know it might sound crazy but u can't hide it from her the rage will start to grow in u more and more but insted tell her and clear the air nothing is better then that and i hope that i helped out a little!
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