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He's got a girl, but wants to chill with me. Should I let him?

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Question - (19 October 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 20 October 2007)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I met this boy at this party named peter.....ever since then weve been wanting to hang out.At this time he didnt have a gf.....now hes back wit the same girl.....Hes a really sexual person and his girl gives him everything he wants ...he knows im not like that im practically a virgin...hes been wanting to cill with me for 2 months...... chance i really like him tho.should i give him a chance

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A female reader, isolated United Kingdom +, writes (20 October 2007):

I have been in the position that his girlfriend and i'v gotta say this guy is scum, do you really want to know someone who treats women like that. It sounds like his intentions are to have you on the side and still keep his unknowing girlfriend. Imagine yourself in her position and think of what you would hope another girl would do in your position. The right thing to do is not to 'chill' with him at all. Hes quite obviously a playa

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2007):

You definitely shouldnt chill with him. I've had this problem b4, trust me u dont wanna chill with him. Talking from my experience he probably wants 2 chill so he can get in your pants real quick without his gurl knowing to be honest, him being very sexual should give u a hint. This is a situation u may want to avoid mostly because he has a girlfriend, he may try 2 make a move on u and his girlfriend won't b very happy with that if she finds out about, it will b bad 4 her and u. If u do decide 2 chill with him though I strongly advise that u keep wut I have said in mind, it may come in handy

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A male reader, dapone 1 United Kingdom +, writes (20 October 2007):

dapone 1 agony aunthi

sorry not a good idea the very last thing you want to do is get between a bf and gf, you have got to consider the feeling of his gf if you were in her shoes would you like it if he went out with some-one else,even thou his girl friend gives him everything, he still wants to be with you, maybe because you are a virgin that is why he is after you, so he can have his wicked way with you,some men like to boast that they have been with a virgin,and if that did happen then he would leave you and go back to his gf, and on top of that would not have anything to do with you again, it is a very risky thing to do getting mixed up with a boy who has a gf,you will have nothing but trouble if you keep contact with this boy.

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