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Archived questions from: February, 2016 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

I've been intimate with my widowed aunt and now she wants me to live with her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3218 days ago

28 February 2016 (M) - Hello guys I am 30 yrs married now n I am from India where relationships matter a lot. My question is about the physical relationship with my maternal uncle's wife( aunt) This goes around 6 yrs ago due to my uncles death my aunt got disturbe...

He says I lack spontaneity. I hate lies. He lied to his family. Was my reaction right or wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3218 days ago

28 February 2016 (F) - Dear friends, I've just had a stupid argument with my husband. We made up, but I would still like to hear your opinions as I strongly believe that I am right. Here's what happened. I hate lying. But, I agreed to support him with this particul...

Have I rushed into dumping him ? How can I ask him for another chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3219 days ago

28 February 2016 (F) - I dont know if ive made a mistake , I dumped my boyfriend yesterday because i came last in his life. I know work and family come first. I wouldnt expect to come before them, but he couldnt give me the time i wanted. I'm not demanding. I'd be ha...

To parents of children or people who are childfree by choice. Do you regret your decision?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3218 days ago

28 February 2016 (F) - I'd like to hear from people who have children and those who don't. Do you regret your decision or are you sincerely happy with your choice to become a parent or childfree? I have terrible mental illness genetics in my family line so I'm leaning ...

Any ideas on what to do about my Bf who stares at women too often and for too long?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3218 days ago

28 February 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years we have a baby girl together. The problem is everywhere we go he stares at other women and it makes me feel so unattractive and unwanted, as he never shows me any affection nor love. Nor tells ...

Should I continue a relationship with someone who doesn't want children?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3216 days ago

27 February 2016 (F) - I am currently at crossroads in my life. I found a guy I truly love and loves me for who I am. We seem to be made for each other. In fact, I feel that we are soul mates if not for one terrible flaw in him. He hates children! I have seen the wa...

A is a long term good friend. How can I convince my mum to let A spend the night?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3220 days ago

26 February 2016 (F) - So, here's the deal. I have a good friend, let's call him A. Anyway, ever since I was little, I've always preferred hanging out with boys. But now that I'm older, I can't have a sleepover or anything. I wouldn't want to do anything sexual, and ...

How do I manage this family dynamic and new stress in our lives?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3222 days ago

25 February 2016 (M) - You probably don't get too many letters from a guy my age. I am writing about my kids. My oldest, my daughter-age 27- meets this British guy at party.He works for a multinational U.K. company and is trying to deal with problems in one of their of...

Facing sibling rivalry and family disinterest in my wedding. Should I delete them from my life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3197 days ago

25 February 2016 (F) - Its not that I'm an attention seeker I'm the opposite but I'm starting to feel a damper on my wedding and its affecting me a lot lately. Had I known my family would not care about the wedding I would have eloped if i know how much it affects ...

How can I stop my family from questioning everything my husband and I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3222 days ago

24 February 2016 (F) - Hiya Just a little question for you all..I am 35 years old, married, own a beautiful home and have a good job. All which I achieved. When I was a teenager, I had some fun like every other teenager, went travelling etc. I tried university but d...

Is there a way I can help my jealous ex husband move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3224 days ago

23 February 2016 (F) - My ex husband and I seperated over 5 years ago. We have two children in Junior High School. He tries to stay in their lives by coming by our house every morning to drive the children to school. I met a man in another State about a year ago and thro...

Was it reasonable for him to get that worked up because I looked so upset by how bad I looked on a photo?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3224 days ago

22 February 2016 (F) - I had an argument with my boyfriend yesterday and I'm wondering if people agree he did it as an excuse not to see me today. We took my daughter out for her birthday yesterday and he ended up taking photos of me when I wasn't looking, he took...

Should I leave home because of my mom? She expects me to clean and help with bills and I think she needs to be told off

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3226 days ago

21 February 2016 (F) - I need some help dealing with my mum. I moved back home a couple of years ago and she makes me contribute financially and she complains when I make noise and wake her up but I am nearly 30 so I need to be able to come and go as I please and I don't ...

Should I believe my intuition and ask my husband not to go on a business trip?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3222 days ago

21 February 2016 (F) - I feel very uncomfortable talking about this even with my close friends. A couple of times in my life I had a very strong intuitive feelings about people whom I love (friends and family). Since I am a rational person, I've tried suppressing them...

What suggestions can help me in my situation ? Pregnant and with an abusive husband

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3226 days ago

21 February 2016 (F) - I am 29 years old and married since two years. Also I am 6 months pregnant with our first kid. My husband Ill treats me. He used to do so before my pregnancy and many a times I had thought of leaving him. But now after I got pregnant he had ...

How should one deal with a narcissist in the family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3226 days ago

21 February 2016 (F) - My husband grew up with a narcissistic mother and father (should he start playing lottery ? ;). Father is out of the picture. He was a liar and a thief. I've seen him steal in a shop and deny that later. We live far away so his mother does not rep...

My 27 year old girlfriend shares a bed with her 29 year old brother. Is it a cultural thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3225 days ago

21 February 2016 (M) - So my girlfriend told me that her parents won't allow us to sleep in the same room. I understood and agreed to sleep on the couch downstairs. They live in a 3 bedroom family home, so when her brother arrived that night I assumed they would sleep in ...

I lost my baby and family disagreements and making me feeling sad and disturbed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3225 days ago

20 February 2016 (F) - I just lost my baby and now I feel very sad,aside from that I've been haveing very disturbing dreams and I feel so scared of losing my boyfriend. Now, family's are involved and my boyfriend and I are having disagreement between a argument that ...

My husband chose this other woman over our daughter and me and now wants a divorce

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3228 days ago

20 February 2016 (F) - Hi everyone hope you can help me out today. Well I'll start off by saying I'm recently separated and in the process of divorce. I was married for the last 8 years to a man who I really thought was the love of my life and everything I've ...

My fiance's overbearing brother wants us over every weekend and its exhausting for us. How do we draw the line?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3225 days ago

20 February 2016 (F) - Hi- My fiancé and I have been together for almost four years. We dated for two years. We stayed at his parents a lot during this time because there was more space opposed to my parents. His brother and wife would stop by his parents here and...

What have I done to these women? How should I respond if a similar situation arises?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3228 days ago

18 February 2016 (F) - Does anyone else struggle in social settings? I'm a young mum and my 3 year old was invited to her friends Birthday party. We went along and I seen none of the Mums I speak to from the Nursery were there, and I was the youngest Mum. I tried b...

My future MIL thinks we should get checked out because after 3 years together we still haven't gotten pregnant

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3228 days ago

18 February 2016 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together 5 years now we are getting married this year... We have had unprotected sex for at least 3 years. If we get pregnant that great if we don’t that is still okay as we are 25 and 26 so there’s time. But his ...

I feel like his mom always comes first!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3229 days ago

17 February 2016 (F) - Please can I have advice on how to deal with my husband and his mother, she has always been very reliant on him but in the last few months since he became a house husband, he spends all his time on the phone to her and going round to her (she lives ...

How can I deal with my demanding mother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3228 days ago

17 February 2016 (F) - My mum is sometimes difficult and has found her children leaving home and major life events quite hard work due to a difficult marriage and childhood that has effected us all (violent and absent husband - our father). I have done my very best to ...

I feel ignored and I don't know what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3230 days ago

17 February 2016 (F) - How would you feel if you had a husband who constantly was on viber to some of his family members and friends and when I say constantly I mean sometimes a two hour convo to one friend and then to another; and two hour convos to his mother on a daily ...

He wants children now and I want to be married first

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3229 days ago

16 February 2016 (F) - Hello I've been with my boyfriend over a year and I love him. We plan a future together and we both want children. The problem is he wants to have children now and I want to get married first. I'm ready to get married but when I bring it up he ...

After 7 years of only seeing his son once, my ex now wants in his life. What shall I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3231 days ago

15 February 2016 (F) - Hi everyone my son is 7 years old my ex has never seen him apart from once when he was 2 weeks old I had to involve the police as he kept threatening me and even threatened to make me have a miscarriage I was willing for him to see his son but he ...

How can I get my father's daughter and my boyfriend to grow up and stop trying to annoy one another?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3232 days ago

15 February 2016 (F) - My ex and I have share custody of my 5 year old daughter. We get along great and we do many things together as a "family". I have been dating my current boyfriend for a year and he is perfect. I've never had a guy treat me the way he does, he's ...

Starting to mistrust these excuses

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3230 days ago

15 February 2016 (F) - I was in a failed marriage for 10 years when i started dating a colleague who is 3 years younger. He was quite confident of our future at that time so i went ahead and filed for divorce with my husband. Now the guy I am dating feels that I am rush...

Can I stop friends hitting on my mom.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3232 days ago

15 February 2016 (F) - its about my mom, i think she is acting insane. I am 26, my mom is 46. My parents know each other since they were 14. They got married early and had me when they were 20. lately they are though friendly with each other, live their separate ...

He has anxiety and OCD and I have anxiety. I'm not sure that this relationship is working out!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3232 days ago

14 February 2016 (F) - I just moved 2 weeks ago with my bf. We have been together for 6 months. He is a good guy and he has always been patient with me and my issues. But, he can be so difficult at times. Right now, I am unemployed, and he is paying the rent and my ...

Find myself with no one after break up with fiance

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3232 days ago

13 February 2016 (F) - My fiancé ended our relationship kind of out of nowhere and told me he didn't want to get married and was no longer in love with me. This was obviously hard on me because I was in love with him and had my heart set on marriage with him, and ev...

How do people cope and get through the loss of a loved one ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3233 days ago

13 February 2016 (F) - Article How do people get through the loss of a loved one? Recently a friend of mine lost her husband to lung cancer. She has really been struggling. I suspect that she is not alone. She said that some remarks I made were a great comfort to her...

I'd like to get to know my biological father but I know it will upset my mom and possibly him and his family too

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3235 days ago

12 February 2016 (F) - this is sort of the confusing story but I will do the best I can.I had a baby 2 years ago by a boyfriend I had been dating for 2 years before that. my mom my adopted father liked him ok, but they really didn't like me having a boyfriend because my ...

Is it a bad sign that he originally wanted to spend time with his parents, not me, for his 21st?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3232 days ago

12 February 2016 (F) - So this weekend is my boyfriend's 21st birthday. I told him I would take off the day of his birthday and after. The plan was we would get drinks together or I would DD. Well tonight I ask him if we were still on and I get a text saying "sorry I have ...

I am interested in a friend of the family's daughter who is 10 years younger than me. Should I not go there?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3212 days ago

11 February 2016 (M) - Please don't be upset with me as I know how it looks and seems but I'm really confused. I'm a 31 year old male (Jan.) and I've been single since the summer of last year. Just recently during the holidays I have been spending a lot of time with my ...

My mom doesn't want me to sleep with my boyfriend yet but I've already done it 5 times!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3232 days ago

11 February 2016 (F) - But if a weird question here, just looking for advice. I've been going out with my boyfriend for 4 months now (we're both 17) and we started sleeping together after 2 months but only when I've gone to his house and I'm not allowed to stay over at ...

Do I love him enough to look past the fact he already has 3 children by 2 different mothers?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3229 days ago

11 February 2016 (F) - I have been in a new very loving and very strong connection type relationship for about 5months now. We both feel like we have never felt with anyone before. Here is the problem. He had a previous fiancé 2 years ago but also has 2 children with ...

Is he waiting for someone better? If he knows he is not going to marry me then why so much effort expended?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3236 days ago

11 February 2016 (F) - My boyfriend told me he sees a future with me, but he is scarred of marriage and is still sorting out things in his life and does not want to get married when things are not where he wants it to be. Now he called to tell me he is going to buy gif...

Would I be better off on my own?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3236 days ago

10 February 2016 (F) - My partner and I have been together for 6 years and have two small kids a baby and a 2 year old, lately it seems like we just talk bout the kids or house, I feel like I do everything with the kids on my own he works long hours but would never help ...

Wouldn't most parents be thrilled to have a kid like me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3235 days ago

10 February 2016 (M) - My mom and I are having problems right now and I don't know why. I will probably graduate at the top of my class in May. No drugs, gangs, or anything I like that. I am managing money for my dad and his partners and collecting nice management fees. I ...

Why is he so attentive to his ex and not to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3237 days ago

10 February 2016 (F) - My BF and I have been in a LDR for almost three years. We're moving together this year. I have always been very nice to all of his family members (he has a huge family compared to mine). I will get presents for every little neice and nephew and cous...

Older sister is turning family wedding into kids talent show as a surprise for the bride!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3238 days ago

8 February 2016 (F) - I'm in a really awkward situation with my sisters at the moment and I don't know what to do without upsetting one of them. My twin sister, Natalie, is getting married this year and my older sister, Joanne, thought it would be a nice idea if her...

I am happy and don't want negativity from family to ruin it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3237 days ago

8 February 2016 (F) - I am 28 years old women with no children. Well established in my career. My parents recently divorced so I moved back home to help my mother maintain bills. My love life hadn’t been much of anything because past relationships just didn’t work out. ...

I worry he may still be wanting his ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3237 days ago

8 February 2016 (F) - Dear cupid, i feel hurt and confused sometimes, it's the first i fall inlove with a guy i like we were friends untill he asked me to be he's girlfriend ,he is everything i ever wanted ,we agreed on honesty so he wanted to tell me what happend with ...

Can't trust my boyfriend's motives

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3239 days ago

8 February 2016 (F) - Hi! Been with my boyfriend six months and have been very happy. I'm supposed to meet his parents this summer. I was kinda hurt that he didn't wanna spend time with my family (they had asked if he'd wanna come bowling). But he said it wasn't his ...

This boy used to like my cousin, but now he likes me, and I don't know what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3239 days ago

8 February 2016 (F) - I need help well see my cousin and I are very close she is like a sister to me well this boy that used to like her doesn't like her no more because he doesn't want to keep opening up how he feels about her if she doesn't feel the same way and one ...

I've changed my mind about children .....

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3239 days ago

6 February 2016 (F) - I made a deal with my husband before we got married in 2011. Back then I was young and immature. We considered each other soul mates. We both liked the care free lifestyle. Like playing video games, travelling and partying. We work in the gam...

I've fallen out of love with boyfrind and am looking elsewhere

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3241 days ago

6 February 2016 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost three years and recently I've started to feel different. Last year he broke the trust in our relationship but I stayed with him (stupid I know). He used to not really give much interest in our relationship ...

Feeling stressed and pregnant. How should I handle this discovery about my husband?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3241 days ago

5 February 2016 (F) - Ok so I'm 6/7 weeks pregnant and I've been very very emotional and irrational the last few days. I went looking for a link in the history of my laptops Internet (my other half had obviously just been using it before me) and saw that he looked u...