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writes:its about my mom, i think she is acting insane.I am 26, my mom is 46. My parents know each other since they were 14. They got married early and had me when they were 20.lately they are though friendly with each other, live their separate lives. I live in a different state, work and we see each other 4 times a year. II am very close with my mom, and because she is so young we share a lot.The last year, my mom is acting crazy. I think she is having affairs.Not only that, these guys are young. They are like a bit older than me. I saw pictures on her phone. My mom is an attractive woman, not only that, she is also very friendly and compassionate, and easy to talk to.The last episode was just... ridiculous. She came to visit me, and one of my friends who is 32 was head over heals with her. It was so obvious that everyone started noticing, and laughing about it.My mom did not act flirty even slightly. I have to give her that. She talked to my friend a lot, but because he wanted to.Then she left home, and my friend was non-stop talking about her and how awesome she is.I did not know that anything is going on until I found out that my friend went to the town when my parents live over weekend. When I confronted him, he said, he wanted a break from cold and went to a resort. It had nothing to do with my mom.When i asked my mom, she said, they had lunch together one day and that was it.I said, why would you have lunch with my friend? She said, he called me and said he was in town and I do not think it was wrong of me to have lunch with one of your friends. I said, it would not have been wrong if he did not like you like that. Anyway, i think it was the most inapropriate of her to agree to lunch with him knowing that he liked her in a sexual way.What do you think? Am I wrong?
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (15 February 2016):
 How did she know he liked her in a sexual way?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (15 February 2016):
 Your mum is old enough to make her own choices in life. You need to respect that. Yes it is hard that your friend was hitting on her, but again your friend is also an adult, its there business what they do.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (15 February 2016):
 I know it might make you feel creeped out, but you CAN NOT control what other people do, think or feel.
So no, you can't stop your make friends from wanting to get to know your mom. Or stop your mom from having lunch with the guy.
Your mom is 46, not dead. Maybe she felt flattered. Maybe she felt it was harmless to have lunch with the guy.
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