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writes:I need help well see my cousin and I are very close she is like a sister to me well this boy that used to like her doesn't like her no more because he doesn't want to keep opening up how he feels about her if she doesn't feel the same way and one day the boy texted me and said hello and I've been texting him and he told me that he likes me and I told him I like him ttoo but I don't know what to do. ..
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2016): Well my cousin found out on his snapchat story saying my name but that wasn't me that was his sister that he was talking about and she is calling me a fucking hoe on her snapchat story and I'm not talking to her so I don't know what to do because I don't have nothing to be sorry about. ..
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (8 February 2016):
 When someone "jump" from one person to another, it's always good to be weary. I think this boy isn't entirely sure what he wants, first it was your cousin, now it's you... next month? Who knows.
IF you are close with your cousin, I'd talk to her. Because if you don't and she finds out (and she will) it will cause strife and drama - which I'm sure you don't want. NOT over a boy.
And remember while it's all very exciting to be texting, there is a big difference from knowing someone is person to knowing someone online/over text. It's EASY to get caught up in the "lovey dovey" fantasy with the "words" texted, but an ACTUAL relationship takes more than just texting. And knowing the persona over texting can be VASTLY different in person. Some are super fun over text/online and in person a lot more closed off/shy.
And mind your safety as well. No selfies without clothes on or with "little" clothes on. Specially if you are a minor.
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (8 February 2016):
 It's great to have an admirer isn't it. Your instinct is right to be a cautious about this boy's turn of affection towards you. But hey! Take it slow and go out on a SAFE date if you want to.
You can tell your cousin if it makes you feel better. She didn't want him, so the field is open to you isn't it? You might find she suddenly decides she does want him after all when she knows there is a competitor in the ring - you. Boyfriends can break up friendships sometimes if both parties fancy him. If it looks like that is going to happen you will have a choice to make - cousin or boyfriend.
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