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Archived questions from: August, 2010 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

I don't think I want to be cooped up with my parents on vacation for a week!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - i am 26 years old and decided to take my parents somewhere..a nice city..somewhere not too far but we still have to take a plane. I think my problem is the fact i feel more angry being with them knowing i don't have a b/f or even dating anyone an...

My kids don't want me to date but to get back with their dad

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - my ex left me and the kids about a year and a half ago after i found out he cheated on me and i kicked him out.He has been with that girl ever since. I hate her. I miss him the kids miss him and we all want him home. I see a counselor but I cant ...

I'm struggling to love him! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - hi i cud do with some advice ive been with my partner 15 yr have 3 gorgous boys hes a lovely guy 13 yr age gap never bothered us the problem is i love him cos hes the dad to my boys and that will never change the thing is im not in love with him any ...

My husband's family hates me but he can't see it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - I have a very disturbing dilemma in my marriage.I feel,it might ruins it eventually. Hard to describe, but I try. My husbands family is giving me cold treatment. I mean,they dont swear at me or tell me what they think, but from all the comments, and ...

How do I get close to him physically?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5194 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - I’ll start this problem/question with a little background history! My best friend, let’s call her Beth, has a strange family. Strange, but amazing, and I love them all - and in turn they love me. I’ve had my own bed in their house before, be...

Disappointing family members who take you for granted...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) - So here's my story, my sister is a bit difficult. She's popular, pretty and very confident if a bit on the dim side (mean but true). My problem with her is increasingly over the years her looks have meant people are bending over backwards to do ...

I had sex with my brother's 31 year old friend. My brother will kill us!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - okay this is gonna sound well bad but here goes i went to my brother's friend's wedding this sunday just gone, and my brothers other friend who i have just recently fancied was there, i got really drunk like really drunk and randomly he started ...

Be kicked out or have a happy girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) - Hi, i met my gf when I was 19 n she was 16, for the first year I wasn't aloud in the upstairs part of her house let alone in her room and i wasn't aloud to stay past midnight.. When we had been going out for a year her mum let me go upstairs but i ...

Living with my husband and in his deceased wifes shadow.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - Hello I am in my late 30's and am married to a man in his early 40's. My husband lost his beloved wife from breast cancer in 2007 after 15 years of marriage. He has two young children from his first marriage who I adore and have formed a very st...

Family won't accept b/f because of religion

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

31 August 2010 (?) - My mum told me that she will never accept my boyfriend if he is non muslim an less he convert to islam because i am muslim as well as my family. my boyfriend has alwayz been there for me whenever i needed him and now he kept on asking me if i o...

My parents found out about my boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - He's been my secret boyfriend for a while now and I just tell my parents that he's my best friend. Today I wasn't so lucky because I was at the mall with him and so was my dad. He saw me and my boyfriend holding hands and kissing. My dad told my mom ...

I have an uneasy feeling about her. Should I end this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) - TO STAY OR LET GO I have been in a relationship with my partner for nearly 4 years. She has two children, daughter 19 and son 13. They live with their father, why, because they choose to as their mother left father for me and he is good to them....

What does everyone thinks about women choosing men who are similar to their fathers as husbands?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - Hi Everyone, I am adopted but was raised in what I would consider a fairly dysfinctional family unit where my mother is dominant and my father is very submissive. I am, however, very traditional in my views and believe that in a marriage a wom...

My little sister wants to have sex in the church! what can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - this question is for my little sister she is 16 and she really wants to have sex with her boyfriend she thinks she will be with him forever i dont know what to tell her his parents are total assholes and the only place they can have sex is church ...

Pregnant and resentful of boyfriends other children

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - I am pregnant with my boyfriends 4th child and I'm becoming increasingly resentful of his other children. It's gotten so bad that I can't even bear to hear him mention their names and I dread them staying over on weekends. He doesn't seem to show as ...

Why did I put up with this for so long?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I've been in a relationship for 6 years. For the first 2 years my partner's ex-wife and son lived abroad but have been living in the same county for the last 4. Just before they returned we moved to a different part of the country for better jobs ...

Question about dating my third cousin

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - Ok I'm dating my third cousin. Now I look things up and found out by time it your third cousin it like if you had it with anyone else now here my problem her grandpa and grandma were cousin and since my mom was the 9th child of my grandma her bro is ...

A love that's wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - I wanted to share my story with somebody as I'm in a situation that is eating away at me, causing me sleepless nights and affecting me in a way I never thought anything would. The cause of my problem is that I am deeply in love with my wife's s...

My mom doesn't like my boyfriend

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30 August 2010 (F) - I need help - my mum doesn't like my boyfriend. I love my mum, but she's been hurt badly by men throughout her life and on top of that, she's now overly protective of me after I was stuck in an abusive relationship a couple of years ago. She also ...

Does not sleeping at the same place while on vacation mean that he is sneaking out and about?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - My bf and I visit our parents once in a couple of months.. The thing is that every time we come down to visit our parents we go apart. Right now we came for 10 days and I am staying at my parents and he is staying at his parents. My bf says that ...

I have fallen in love with my ex wife's cousin

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5196 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - I am stuck between a rock and a hard place. I am a divorced man 38 yrs old with 2 great kids. I have been divorced for 10 yrs. I have recently fallin in love with my xwifes cousin. I feel My xwife has turned my kids against me. We stopped seeing ...

I don't want my husband's sister at our house 24/7!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5196 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - i have been with my husband seens i was 16 now im 22. we have a great wounderful 3 year old boy that we love so mush. everything for me was geating good. we are renting an apartment with some one else also there is a lot of poeple in the house hold ...

When your dream turns into a nightmare

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - A while back I posted a message stating that I was looking forward to immigrate with my son to start a new life in the caribbean where my mother now lives. I had intended to pursue a business but I can tell you it has certainly turned out to ...

He is 23, and I am nearly 16, how do I tell my dad?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is 23 (24 at the end of october) and i will be 16 in less than a month. I just recently told my mom about the slightly large age gap and she was not really impressed. I have no idea how im going to tell my dad cause i know he will ...

I'm crazy about this boy, but my cousins keep trying to steal him from me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5144 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - Ok so there's this guy I'm crazy for and I'm not sure if he likes me back and my cousins keep trying to 'steal' I'm from me . And me and him are going to the movies to see the last exercism which should be great. But everybody is fight for him and ...

I cheated on my boyfriend with my cousin!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - So a few weeks ago, I went to visit my cousin who lives in another country. I haven't seen him in 2 years and we are really good friends even though we haven't had much facetime (we've lived in different countries our whole lives). During my visit, ...

I am so insecure I beleive no matter what I do I am going to fail

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5197 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - WARNING: long post! How should I begin? I'm a very insecure person. I lack self-confidence, I'm suspicious about things (almost paranoid), I feel ugly (even if people around me tells me I'm cute or hot), I feel clumsy, I feel like no matter wh...

Is there some solution that won't rip apart lives and destroy families?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

29 August 2010 (M) - This question requires a lot of backstory...I think I'm honestly mostly just asking it for the benefit of having written it all down somewhere, but I'm asking it none the less. I tend to be verbose when I write…I hope this isn't too long. I'm ...

Love won't let me leave!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - I have been in a relationship with the man I absolutely love and adore for 2 1/2 years. When we met he was married with 2 children. His wife he claimed he was never in love with. They married young and he said he really only married her because ...

How can I get rid of karen's influence without being the "you can't see her" guy...?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

29 August 2010 (M) - Hey everyone, I recently met a wonderful woman about two months ago. We clicked from the very start finishing each others quotes, love the same music and movies, sports teams etc. etc. My family has met her and my mom is head over heels for her. I ...

How can I deal with my family falling apart?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - Uhhh hey, I'm sorry if this is the wrong site but it's kinda a relationship problem, with family? Anyway, my family is on the edge of completely falling apart. I moved away from my parents house when I just turned 16, to look after my grandpa...

Our baby is 6 months old and my girlfriend wants another

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

29 August 2010 (M) - hi my GF is wanting another baby but i dont know what to do as. 1. neither of us have jobs 2. she has realy bad PND 3. finds it hard to cope with our son 4. i think she also had PTS 5. doesnt do much with our son now 6. our son is currently 6 m...

I wonder if there is a future for me with this man

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - i've been in an relationship since October 2009. I'm white, and my boyfriend is from Bangladesh. I love him deeply, he's the most amazing person I have ever met, he always makes me laugh,he's so sweet and kind it's almost unbelievable. but i have ...

I am in love with my deceased Uncle's wife! Is this wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

29 August 2010 (M) - hi everyone. i have previously posted my question but i would like to hear more advice from people so i am reposting it. thank you very much! i am in love with my aunt. im 21 and shes 34. my uncle passed away 3 years ago and shes been single sin...

How do I tell my 3 year old..that my husband isn't her biological father?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - hi! I'm 22 years old and married to an amazing man! We have two children together but one is only biologically his! What i want to know is how do i tell my 3 yr old daughter that she has another father, while still making it clear that my husband ...

The older I get the less I want a partner and kids - is there something wrong with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - I'm 25 years old, with a good steady job and a small close network of friends. I have been single for well over a 3 years now - I have tried online dating since this and Ive meet up with a few people but just lately im just not impressed with what i ...

I feel as if he just used me... help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

28 August 2010 (?) - Hi there i am so glad i found this site as i need advice regarding my stupid affair... we met 3 months ago after a row with my partner (we have two children) i was feeling unappreciated and not been shown much affection for a while, i just kinda ...

In love with my aunt..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

28 August 2010 (M) - hi. i am in love with my aunt. im 21 and shes 34. my uncle passed away 3 years ago and shes been single since. it happen one night when we drank and kissed. we both realise it might not be acceptable by somebody, but i dont feel any guilt out of it. ...

I'm afraid I'm going to lose my kids again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - I'm just praying someone will be able to give me some advice.. This is very complicated so please bear with me. First off I'm a 22yr old mother of 3, my two sons 6yrs and 3months live with me while my daughter who is 3yrs lives with her father. ...

My parents control me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

27 August 2010 (F) - My I am a 19yr old girl and my parents control me the funny thing is they act as though they are not doin it.My dad alwats says that i could have a boyfriend but not right now and that i dont need a bf right now.My mom is racial and does not like ...

We like each other in a non cousin way

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

27 August 2010 (F) - I am 31 years old and I have recently made contact and have been communicating with my male cousin on face book after not seeing him for 23 years. He is 34 now. As kids we were very close and shared a close bond. I have vaque memories of us kissing ...

Our parents don't want us to be together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5199 days ago

27 August 2010 (F) - So I have been dating my bf for almost 3 years now and he's my high school sweetheart. We have been thru some really rough times but we always manage to solve our problems. The problem is that now we want to get serious but our parents don't let us ...

Please help!!! Depression hurting me physically and mentally!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

27 August 2010 (F) - [Mod Note - OP's own title] I'm 13 years old and going into 8th grade. And I want to know why I don't feel pretty??? I get compliments from my friends and they say that I'm beautiful, but I don't get why they think that. They are pretty that I am. ...

Father was jailed and now back to his old ways

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27 August 2010 (F) - my father was in jail for 16 years and just got out a few months ago and is back to his old ways again. I'm scared to lose him again. we just started reconnecting after i stopped talking to him. He does not realize why I'm so upset with him. i told ...

My mother doesn't like my husband!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - I am a 31 year old, married, mom of two. My problem is that my mother has never liked my husband. Case and point. She is visiting and my husband is helping me in the kitchen. I don't know about everyone else, but for us, "help in the kitchen" ...

How do I protect my daughter?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

26 August 2010 (M) - I’m busy divorcing my wife at the moment and it’s been an emotional rollercoaster ride from hell – my soon to be ex-wife (38) is a very intelligent, attractive and well qualified individual (two post grad degrees and currently studying towards a ...

I really like this guy but my brother is going to flip when he finds out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - I have an older half brother. Our relationship is kinda love/hate. One minute we get along, the next I want to push him in front of a moving bus. Anyway, his friends are always trying to get with me. But I never bite. But this summer a new friend ...

Man wants to steal my cousin's child. What can we do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

26 August 2010 (M) - My cousin put another mans name on the birth certificate, now this man is tryin to steal her child. He refuses to give her baby back. My cousin is 17 and this man is 24 and he knows he is not the child. The child is in his possesion right now and ...

I want this baby, But I am in love with another woman!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

26 August 2010 (M) - My wife of three years, and I, have been having a rocky marriage. We were trying to have a baby, but it wasn't working due to the stress and arguing. I have a dear friend of 10 years, whom I've never dated, that I know I am in love with. We'v...

Is it wrong to feel this way about my cousin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

26 August 2010 (M) - I'm 15 and for a while now ive been attracted to my cousin and at first I though it was a phase but after a long time the feels didn't go away they've just grown and now i like her even more, she is about 21. Is it wrong to feel this way about m...