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I wonder if there is a future for me with this man

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Question - (29 August 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 August 2010)
A female United Kingdom age , anonymous writes:

i've been in an relationship since October 2009. I'm white, and my boyfriend is from Bangladesh. I love him deeply, he's the most amazing person I have ever met, he always makes me laugh,he's so sweet and kind it's almost unbelievable. but i have some underline issues one is he told me not to tell his uncle and his uncle wife about us even though im very friendly with them and go to there house quite a lot (i say that but have my suspicion they no something) !! he lives with them to. He been over here since 1984 he works in his uncle restaurant so i only manage to get to seem once a week on his day off as he work day and night. he brought me a costume ring for Christmas and some perfume for valentine day. i even went around there on eid murbarak and they brought me some of there clothes to wear.

its now Aug 2010 and things have developed which is a good sign his auntie child said to me the other day you love J**** i was shocked she came out with that so guess they have been talking about me also when J*** come in from been out the youngest girl goes running to the door and says T**** here there been aload of other hints dropped to ??

he asked me a couple of months ago as he awaiting his work permit to come. as i asked him what he going to do and he finally got around to say i can always move in with you and i said i would love that but not mentioned it anymore is it because he waiting for his work permit to come im confused on this and have not asked him any more on this but should i or was he testing the water ????

i only see him once or twice a week for a few hours as i guess its because it not allowed to have a girlfriend in there eyes and especially at the moment during Fasting !!! i am very close to this auntie and uncle and there children and im always around there helping out with one thing or another which is good my birthday was in July they brought necklace/purfume/and some over bit and made me two birthday cakes as !!!!

His uncle asked me to when was the last time i had sex i said 3 years ago, i suspect he got a idea what we been up to as i know its not allowed in there eyes i said to him there more to life then sex.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2010):

thankyou so much you cheered me up

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A male reader, kevin3007 United States +, writes (29 August 2010):

kevin3007 agony auntyou have a futur with this man just be patient .....good luck

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