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We like each other in a non cousin way

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Question - (27 August 2010) 7 Answers - (Newest, 7 September 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, *ot ting writes:

I am 31 years old and I have recently made contact and have been communicating with my male cousin on face book after not seeing him for 23 years. He is 34 now. As kids we were very close and shared a close bond. I have vaque memories of us kissing and remember him toucning me and liking it. Once connected on facebook I had a butchers through his photos and I have come to realise that he is HOT stuff now in his older years! He has left a few comments on certain provocative pictures on my profile that had made me think hmmmmmmmm I get the impression that you might like me in a non-cousin way. We talk evey night and he soothes me in a way that a boyfriend should. He has confessed that he rememebers our intimate moments as kids and we have kinda confessed that now as adults there is an attraction.

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A female reader, hot ting United Kingdom +, writes (7 September 2010):

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hot ting agony auntMany thanks girlies and gent!!! for ya honesy and ya answers. We have finally met up now and we are on FIRE!!!!!! When we met up last week he asked me whether it is possible for cousins to love eachother, I said yes they will prob love eachother more because they love eachother all ready. He said that he loves me and i know that I love him. This relationship is more intense than any other relationship I have ever had. More natural more sensual more loving. RESPECT!! He doesnt stop kissing my forehead telling me how beautiful i am. The pecking doesnt stop. I thoght it would be abowt mad passionate sex and it is far from that. It is all abowt closeness and cuddling and just being with eachother. XX

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A female reader, hot ting United Kingdom +, writes (7 September 2010):

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hot ting agony auntMany thanks girlies for ya honesy and ya answers. We have finally met up now and we are on FIRE!!!!!! XX

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A male reader, Boombadaboom Belgium +, writes (27 August 2010):

Boombadaboom agony auntI see no problem here! just do what you think is good and see how it goes :)

what kind of advice did you exactly want? because it seems you were so happy about it that you forgot to ask for it :P

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A female reader, Sunshinee':) United Kingdom +, writes (27 August 2010):

Sunshinee':) agony auntYou two sound like you really like each other. Maybe meet up and go and see a film or have dinner or something...or both :) I don't think it matters that you're cousins. It's not illegal and you sound like you have a genuine attraction to each other so I think you should go for it. But you have to be prepared for people to be complete bastards about you being together. To be honest, it doesn't matter what they think, but their opinions can still hurt. You just have to make sure that the feelings you have for each other are stronger than the insults. Good luck :) x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2010):

Go for it if you feel like it is the right thing to do but remember it might cause problems down the road for your family! If its frowned upon where you live that is!

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A female reader, Alittlebroken United Kingdom +, writes (27 August 2010):

Alittlebroken agony auntI think go for it! Did you know that in England cousins are allowed to marry each other anyway? As long as your family would have no issues with this I see nothing wrong in pursuing this further. If you are both attracted to each other you might as well enjoy it, you're not hurting anyone!

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A female reader, _Katy_Did_ United States +, writes (27 August 2010):

_Katy_Did_ agony auntWell, I won't judge you. Even though I kind of am. But I'll trying really hard not to. I'd say it could be the 23 years apart that makes you two see each other as "non-cousins". But then again, cousins have been known to date and get married before. What ever floats your boat I suppose. But keep in mind, the family might think it a little strange...And just think of family reunions haha:). Also, keep in mind, and I'm being serious, if you guys ever got married(not to say you'd take it that far)and had kids, the kids really could have some inbred issues. Not to be rude, it's just true. So anyway, yeah. If that's what you want, go for it.

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