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Archived questions from: April, 2010 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

Help! My husband is a workaholic!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - Is there any solution to this tricky situation? My husband is a workaholic. I know, it is so much better than a guy who does not pay the bills. But if you have one if these husbands, you know what I'm talking about. Because of his work, he totally ...

I'm desperate to get away from his family and the drama!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - So, I'm finally graduating college, I'm engaged to a wonderful guy, but his mother is causing major problems. He has been living back at home these last few months. When I visit my house and he stays with us, his mother goes nuts, screaming and ...

My ex's parents don't care..should I let them see their granddaughter?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - just wandering what peoples views are on my situation Me and my boyfriend of 2 years have broken up, we lived together and have a child.. His mother was the guarentor for our house, when we broke up she phoned the letting agent and withdrew h...

Not in love with wife and never have been, very depressed

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

30 April 2010 (M) - I became an alcoholic and drug addict when I was 15 years old. I met my wife when I was 17, she was 14. I am now almost 33 years old. When we met, I was drunk and high everyday, and the relationship was for me simply a sexual relationship but she ...

I'm involved with one girl but in love with another and can't have her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

30 April 2010 (M) - Hello there, my story is a bit weird and idiotic... I was in to a relation from 17, which i think was too early for me to jump in to it because after a year or so i started to like another girl from my family and just couldnot get out of her thoug...

How can I build a relationship with my mother?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - Okay, here it goes.. I've offten wondered.. am I wrong?.. IS all of this my fault?.. Am I bringing all this on myself?..Am I just emotional?.. I keep doubting myself.. and now I wonder..am I broken?.. I've had just the worst relationship with my ...

Talking my mom into leting me having a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - im 15 and home schooled , im a larger girl (as a little chubby) i keep thinking to my self i want someone in my life to love and hold me , but being out of school i cant really find a boyfriend , my mom dosent even want me to get a boyfriend till...

I don't want to lose my family, and I also don't want to lose my boyfriend! How can I make everyone happy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have only recently moved back in together after we split up for a while in september last year after he threw me out of our home after a series of arguments. Things have improved dramatically since then. I lived on my own for a ...

I've tried everything to make my wife happy but she hates me, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

30 April 2010 (M) - Hi every one, I'm a 45 year old man. I'm extremely sad and depressed since last 4 years, when I lost my job, I sold out all my properties to meet the life expenses. but the most tragic incident happened to me was that my wife got changed, she ...

Should I sacrifice my own dream wedding for my family?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - I have a Big Problem and its very Complicated I was born a man and I dress like a woman I act like a woman I do everything like a woman but I don't like men I have a girlfriend but she dressess like a man and acts like a man so basically she's the ...

How can I convince my mother to accept my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5319 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - I'm in an amazing relationship with my boyfriend of 5 months. He and I met in school once before, but lost touch until last December. My family is a traditional Southeast Asian family. I'm first generation Asian-American in our family. I'm very ...

Should I take this job with my half-brother despite our history?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - I need some serious help my older Brother moved in with us when I was 16 we have the same father but not the same mother... but he needed a place to go and my mom let him stay with us he was 17 at the time ...I've seen him a couple of times when we ...

My violent drug-using ex is threatening me and my family!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - Hi everyone.I have a trouble with my ex boyfriend.OK! I'm gonna start tell u how we met.I working at 7eleven. I am cashier.He was my regular customer.Last Christmas we're start talking and make the long story short.We were dating after christmas.On ...

Divorced and alone, how can I make my life more fulfilling?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - Ok Here we go I will try this .I am a 43 yr old woman who has been married for 28 yrs Always with my husband until he ask for a divorce in feb. of 2008 and then he moved out on his own.I missed him badly but come to realize he wasnt coming back ...

Boyfriend says he could never marry me because I hate my own mother.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - My mother does not support me in anything. I'm in my 3rd semester in college working on a crimal justice bachelors degree. Shouldn't I parent be proud? I guess they should but she isn't. She calls me "worthless" and worst things. So I have tried to ...

My family hasn't even met my g/f and already they don't like her!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

28 April 2010 (?) - Ok. Basic story I had a great relationship of 7 1/2 years but there was always something missing, I always wondered if there was someone else out there. Well that someone came along, I really started to like this person because I work with her. It ...

We are madly in love, but due to his Mother hating me, he has not contacted me for days

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - I have asked this question a few times on here, but as the situation keeps updating, I feel the need to re-issue it. To cut a long story short, I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years. His mother hates me, but refuses to explain ...

He says he'll come back if I kick my brother and his girlfriend out!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - me and my ex partner got back together five months ago, after seperating two years before when our son was born. the relationship endend badly last time as he cheated on me time and time again and as much as i wanted to be with him i couldnt take it ...

How can one be so cruel?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - I have been going over and over this situation if you can call it that in my head for 3 days now and my head is hurting as much as my heart/feelings. I was dating a 40yr old guy with 2 grown up sons for a month. He made a big point of waiting...

How do I deal with his emotional blackmail without being found out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - Hi all, i am from a reserved and conservative family . i tried a lot to get work just for my confidence and ended up with getting placed in a bpo. I had relationship with a guy for 6 months in the work place . when v started he was behaving like ...

I want to move to a better life, but I don't want to lose everyone I know

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - **for the last several months my sister and i have been planning to move to north carolina, the plan was she was leaving in july with her husband and kids and i was going in december. i was very excited to leave and start a new life, away from all ...

I want to make this relationship work, but he admitted to molesting his sister

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - My boyfriend just recently told me he had a dark secret. It took me hours to convince him to tell me. After I broke through to him he told me he molested his sister when he was about 11 or 12 and she was 8. He paid her money to give him blowjobs and ...

I want to be on the pill to regulate my periods, but I know my mom will flip!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - I'm 14, soon to be 15, and my mom loves to act like I'm still five. I want to be put on birth control, not because I'm having sex but to regulate aunt flow. But I know If I ask my mom will automaticly skip to conclusions, and start yelling at me for ...

Is their brother-sister relationship abnormal?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4246 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - Brother- Sister situation My boyfriend (27 years old)and his sister (24 years) have a relation that makes me very uncomfortable because- 1. They don't mind walking in to each other when one of them is actually using the bathroom like in the tub...

Should I have done it another way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - I have been married for 21 years and in a relationship with him for 28. Almost once a year my husband will will basically say that he is the one who sacrifices for the family. I stayed home with all of our boys and our last one is now in Jr. year ...

My older sister is trying to ruin my life.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - My older sister is trying to ruin my life. She was engaged to this one guy who was a pretty nice guy I thought but he caught her cheating on him. He actually caught them in a sex act. Not intending to be so graphic but my sister is a real ...

He kept on talking to his baby-mama, his other son by another woman is a brat, and I just don't trust him. It breaks my heart!I

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - When I married my husband, it was after he cheated on me and I knew the girl was pregnant. But I listened to his apology and believed he was sincere and loved him regardless and was ready to take on the challenge. After we got married, I found out ...

I feel like I have lost everything! Can anyone offer any words of advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - This isn't really about love, and it's not really a question but any words would be great. I think I'm cracking up. I lost my job and my fiance in the same month, last year, and am about to lose my apartment cause I have no money. The bills are mo...

Please Help, Father has nothing to do with our son!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - Me and the ex were together 1 year and half, we were living together and everything was great. Then I found out I was pregnant in feb 2008. Things were still fine he was super excited about the baby but as soon as our son was born in October 2008 ...

Little sister gets away with everything

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5322 days ago

27 April 2010 (M) - My friend is having issues with his little sister and I don't know what to tell him. He's 17 and his little sister is 9. She is getting away with a lot of stuff and he's been attempting to correct her but then he just get's yelled at by his mother...

Boyfriend, marriage and family

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5321 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - MOD NOTE: 2 posts combined....Hi, I am 26 and my boyfriend is 31. We've been together 10 months now. I'm very keen to marry him and he would also like to be married. We have some issues in terms of religious and cultural differences. A m...

Girlfriend's controlling parents!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5322 days ago

26 April 2010 (M) - well I've been my girlfriend for almost 4 years. she's 21 I'm 20. We're great together and are happy with each other. but her parents are the control obsessive type to the point where they constantly call her to know where she is at all the time ...

My family may dissown me if I get back with my bf

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - Just wanted to see what everyones thoughts are on my situation... My boyfriend got violent with me a few weeks ago, he didn't hit me, just pushed me and stuff. I had him arrested that night and have not had him back to the house since then. We a...

I'm falling for my boyfriend's best friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for 7 years and we have two kids we have been falling out for 2 or 3 years. i met his friend 7 years ago to and instantly fell head over heels. then him and my boyfriend got into it and quit talking for a long time. they ...

I guess she thinks that I only want to have sex with her but I don't!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

26 April 2010 (M) - Ok I've asked this question before but I don't get many answers so I'm asking again. I'm sort of in love with this girl. She is one of my best friends and in many ways she is my best friend. I mean she is the only one that supports me when I say I'm ...

Why doesn't my brother want me to visit him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - i am 19 and my 13 year old brother has anorexia and he has been hospitalized as his heart rate is very low so he has to stay in there for 2-3 weeks. I was going to see him today but he told my mom that he didn't want me to go. I know he is unwell ...

Should I tell my family how I feel or just keep my distance from them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5322 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - Hey all im really fed up of my family and i need some advice. Im 18 and im fed up of my dad's side of my family. There bitchy, spiteful and selfish and ive basically had enough now. My dads's parents have 3 children, my auntie, my dad, and my uncl...

Will my parents kick me out of the house for being pregnant at 15 like they did with my sister?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - I am 15 and I went on holiday for 5 days with my boyfriend and his parents, we had sex once. Now 4 weeks later and I took a pregnancy test because I'd missed my period completely. The test came out positive. I am absolutly terrified about what my ...

Strong feelings for my first cousin

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

26 April 2010 (M) - ok i need some advice, you see i like my fist female cousin more then a cousin and i think she feels the same way because when were around each other we hold hands and hold each other. we also say i love you in person and over the phone. we dont ...

I can't feel love. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - I can't feel love. What should I do? My parents didn't love each other. I am the product of physical affinity and emotional malice. I remember when I was one years old, my parents got into an argument and my mom got a knife out and held it my f...

I don't want my sister to date my ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5323 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - I really need advice. My problem: My sister is constantly texting my ex-boyfriend and hanging out with him. People that don't even know them or me have come up and asked me if they are dating. It's really awkward for me. Plus, one of my friend...

I want to be as far away from my parents as possible!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

25 April 2010 (M) - My parents were fighting a lot and just not being good parents and not spend a lot of time with me when i was a kid. And i was thinking about it i just dont like them at all i got no desire talking to them or spending time with them and when i m ...

He says he loves me more than he has loved anyone but cant be with me because his mother hates me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

25 April 2010 (F) - My boyfriends mother hates me. She has no reason to, and if he asks her why, she responds by shouting at him that she doesn't want to talk about it. On wednesday last week she banned me from their family home (she did last year for 4 months)....

I woke up and found she'd left me taking the 2 kids with her...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

25 April 2010 (M) - I really dont know what to do any more, and I need help. I have 1 son with my partner and I have brought up her other son from birth as my own, cos at one point we split up and slept with someone and got pregnant but since then we sorted things out ...

My boyfriend won't move out of the house he shares with is ex because of his child! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

25 April 2010 (F) - Hi Guys, I'm new to the site and I need a bit of advice. I have been with my boyfriend for approx 6 months (doesnt sounds long I know), We were friends before and it grew into a relationship. I knew that this guy lived with his ex and 5 y...

My mom doesn't like the fact that I'm a lesbian!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

25 April 2010 (F) - Me and my girlfriend broke up last year and I took it pretty bad. My mum had an idea I was a lesbian through knowing other people I have liked but last year was my first gay relationship. My friends stopped talking to me and I had no one. My mum ...

My dad is married to someone else but my mom is sneaking around to see him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5323 days ago

25 April 2010 (F) - This situation involves my mum and estranged dad. Basically before I was born my dad was married to this woman and had a 6 year affair with my mum. He never left his wife for her and she ended up raising me herself with no contact with him apart ...

My recent behaviour is out of character for me. Is it connected to my father's death 4 months ago?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

24 April 2010 (F) - Hey :) well i would just some advice on something that has been bothering me. Basically about four months ago my dad died and ever since i have been doing things that i dont normally do like *going out into town *drinking *smoking and there...

I am 22 living at home and my mom is making my life hell!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

24 April 2010 (F) - Hi.. I am 22 living at home and my mom is making my life hell!!! I hate the fact that she is always picking on me for something even if it has nothing to do with me. If she wants something done and both me and my sister are in the house then ...

How do I stop my step dad bullying me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

24 April 2010 (M) - My step dad always says nasty and spiteful things to me. He belittles me and tells me that I'm going to fail school because I'm too stupid and he also tells me that I'm never gonna get a girlfriend because no woman would want me, my mom hears him ...