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writes:I am 15 and I went on holiday for 5 days with my boyfriend and his parents, we had sex once. Now 4 weeks later and I took a pregnancy test because I'd missed my period completely. The test came out positive. I am absolutly terrified about what my parents would say because when my sister was 17 she got pregnant and my parents kicked her out but now its me at 15... will they do the same to me? If they do I will have nowhere to go, my boyfriend is happy and his parents know too but they are not very pleased :L What am I going to do?
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reader, hjk1995 +, writes (26 April 2010):
hjk1995 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks you guys for giving me an idea of what to do x
I have told my parents, they are unhappy but have told me they will support me; which makes me think they kicked out my sister for a different reason. Next week i am going to see her and my beautiful 3 year old niece, Georgie for the first time in 3 years.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2010): your sister may not have been kicked out JUST because she was pregnant, it is possible that there were other issues building up to that point and that the pregnancy just pushed your parents over the edge so they kicked her out. I would suggest talking to your doctor, citizen's advice, boyfriend, sister and boyfriend's parents to get their input on what your options are. Do you want to keep the baby? Don't rush into an abortion because you are scared of your parent's reaction, get an abortion if you want to and NOT because you feel you have to.
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reader, rambini +, writes (26 April 2010):
 If they kicked your sister out, that gives a fairly good indication that they will do the same to you. parents generally treat their children the same. why not confide in your sister if you are close, but you need to sort this quickly while you still have options.
good luck x
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reader, greg290352 +, writes (26 April 2010):
 These things happen. You are not the first and won't be the last girl to get pregnant when young. You need to confide in a close female friend or relative. Also go to a pregnancy clinic. They are confidential. It would be a good idea to tell your sister as well if you are both close. Hard to tell how your parents might react with you - generally most come round to be supportive in the end. Good luck.
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