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writes:My parents were fighting a lot and just not being good parents and not spend a lot of time with me when i was a kid. And i was thinking about it i just dont like them at all i got no desire talking to them or spending time with them and when i m with them they are making me feel unconfortable. I just wish i don't have to see them ever again.It's not like they made me mad and now i m little spoiled kid mad at them, and writing here how i hate my parents because they took away my toy.I was thinking about it around a 3 months.I have to come back from collage and i just hate it at home although they don't fight at all now for 6 years and i m thankful for somethings they do for me but that's it. I just want be away from them as far as possible.What should i do?
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reader, bruce lee  +, writes (26 April 2010):
 You sound kind of down. Take a holiday somewhere for a few days and get away from the situation. You need time to think about it all.
But I guess you have to do what you think is right at the time. And it's a question of what you're willing to live with. And like It's all be okay said "Once you're an adult, you can do whatever you like with your life."
You don't have to take orders from anyone. I hope all that made sense. We all go through a tough time in our lives. This is what's happening for you.
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reader, It's all be okay  +, writes (26 April 2010):
Get a job when you graduate in a city far away from them and make sure you earn enough money not to have to turn to them for any money.
In my book there is nothing wrong with distancing yourself from your parents - you didn't choose them after all - and once you are an adult, you can do whatever you like with your life.
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