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Archived questions from: October, 2012 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

Should there be a spark at the start of a relationship? Or does it grow with time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4400 days ago

31 October 2012 (M) - Hi Aunts and Uncles My questiom is simple Should there be a spark at the start of a relationship? Five months in now and im just not feeling it... She tells me she loves me a lot which makes me think lots there for her.... Should i end this ...

How can I get my boyfriend back? My lies caused the break up. I lied because I knew he would not like the truth.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for over 3 years now, on and off. He has always complained about my lying but the thing is then I did it to protect him since I knew he wouldn't like the truth. I know now it was stupid of me. Everyt...

Could my hunch be right? Could he turn into a stuffy old man who doesn't know how to love life and enjoy life

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - I have a new boyfriend and I feel really comfortable with him. But something bothers me. He does not seem to have many friends. Perhaps no close friends at all. He talk about work colleagues. It's as if he arrived in this world and never made ...

Husband is away. I'm feeling horny. Should I give in and be unfaithful while my husband is away?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Am a girl of 26 married with two kids. My husband traveled out of the country a year and 5 months now I don't know when he will be coming back. The problem is that am feeling lonely and horny, many guys do comes around to have sex with me, wh...

Is this normal that my persistent 45 year old Ex is chasing after me after a month of silence?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Dear all. Your thoughts please! In brief, My bf and i have had a rather hard work relationship. We were together for 16 months. Things got worse,and he kept ignoring me for up to 3 wks at a time. In the end he said it was ok. I was like,ok. Th...

This is a very bad situation, but who do I choose ? And how do I solve this problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

29 October 2012 (M) - ok, worst situation ever. the type that makes a man not feel like a man. ill try to keep this extra short.. this all started 2 and a half years ago. at the time i had been with my girlfriend for seven years. we fought all the time. arguing. s...

Am I over reacting? Can I forgive him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I had a rough start to our relationship. We started out rocky...but we did dated and we've been together for 2 months (6 months prior online). I wasnt really honest with him, I was a virgin and we both had sex (he was a virgin...

How can I encourage a girl to love me again? Because she hates me now

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

28 October 2012 (M) - there was a girl she loved me but i broke her heart. She told me her secrets and i told only my best friend. He told her. i love her so much and she hates me now i tried to talk to her but she dont want to talk to me now i said sorry to her and...

What can I do? My love has faded. I don't know how to break up with him. And I cry just thinking about breaking up.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - I need help..I've fallen out of love with my boyfriend. Been together for six months..i thought he couldn't handle commitment, and that he only wanted sex but he seems to put more effort into the relationship and i can see that he's really changing ...

My ex is pleading for me to come back. How do I tell him I've fallen in love with another?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

26 October 2012 (F) - Ok so I broke up with my boyfriend of 7 and a half years about a month ago. I just didn't feel like I was in love anymore and I want to feel this way and be happy/not miserable for the rest of my life. We had two dogs and lived together in a fairly ...

How do I heal the relationship? Do I love too deeply?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4377 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - I have been with my bf for 21 months - nearly two years. We have a beautiful 1 year old son together. I have two kids at home with me so two toddlers. Last night though, out of nowhere he turned around and told me he fell out of love with me ove...

He blocks me out. Yet I do everything for him and his children. Is it time to stop being so giving? or break up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - I met him about 4 years ago. 2 years ago we finally got together after both being in love with each other for about a year. He is about 10 years older than me and has a few kids. At the start things were perfect. He was so in love with...

Which woman understands me best? I feel more love for this second woman. What should I do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4389 days ago

25 October 2012 (M) - i have a baby with someone and i stay with her, but the problem is i have beendating someone else, for more than a year now. The other woman and I love one another so so much. It is like my first relationship ever ,we talk ,we laugh and we understan...

Have we grown apart since we were young when we met?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - I have been with my current boyfriend for almost 4 years, and I turn 21 next month, he is already 21. Sometimes when I spend time with him I feel really happy to be with him and when he is away I miss him a lot, we have developed a strong bond (e...

I thought marriage was all about cherishing the one you love. All he does is cheat? And ignore his children and me. Should I break up with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - I have been in this relationship for 7 1/2 years and I have been married 2 1/2 years. Through the time of all these years. He has done nothing but cheated and he feels like its not a big deal at all when he gets caught in his lies or the females ...

Should be honest with her and break-up or perhaps try to reignite things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4411 days ago

24 October 2012 (M) - 1. Currently dating a girl for 14 months. 2. Dated in the past but had major bumps, those were worked out and then got back together. 3. Major bumps: her communication with her ex during our first trial and family/cultural/...

Should I leave him? I'm tired of feeling 'second class' and "not quite good enough for him".

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - My husband and I have been together now for about 14 years. We have 2 beautiful children. However, i am so sick of dealing with his selfish ways. He has cheated 3 times, the first was about 9 years into our relationship and was a full on relations...

Boyfriend is mean and pressuring me for sex. Should I break up with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - I love my boyfriend of 5 months dearly, but i'm still not ready for sex and he pressures me sometimes. We have different religious views and his parents don't want to meet me,and on top of that he can be soo mean to me. But he can also be soo sweet. ...

Can I stay close to my BF's family if we finish our affair? Life with my husband is not good. And My BF now has a new GF.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - I am married without children and i have a lover. we have been seeing each other for 4 years now and for the the first year we were only friends. I am not happy with my husband but i dont want to leave him as he is a handsome guy and it ends ther...

Why can't my ex leave the past behind? I did, why can't he?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - I have been in a relationship with this guy for many years after 04 we split for good I was dating him since 1983. Common-Law marriage I would say I finally built up enough courage to finally leave him. i made it out with his two children. N...

We've been fighting every day for months. Is it any wonder I have trust issues over her sexting etc

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years now and we've been fighting nearly everyday for the past few months. We have sat down and talked about this and the arguments stopped for about a week. Now it's the same old arguments. Heres the tricky p...

She is 'too busy for me' so I'm going to break up with her. Is there a RIGHT way to break-up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

22 October 2012 (M) - I have recently decided to break up with my girlfriend. We have been going out for about 1 year and a few months. I am breaking up with her because she is too busy for me or just doesn't feel the same about me anymore. I don't want to hurt her or d...

Can I trust her? Does not seem so. What should I do about this unacceptable situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4414 days ago

21 October 2012 (M) - My girl and I been together for 3 years. It was great until freshman yr of college wen i started having trust issues and then we became unstable. She cheated on me with a guy then told me a month later they had kissed; it took awhile to get over but...

Why does my wife of 18 years need to talk to men online? And meet them? and lie? Is this the beginning of the end of our marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

21 October 2012 (M) - My wife and I have been together for 18 years. We have 10 year old twins together. We used to share an email account (mine) but now she has 3 or 4 email accounts of her own. I only have one email account and she has the password to my account. She ...

She takes offence easily. I'm not sure if we're right for each other. Should I stay or leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

20 October 2012 (M) - So i've been with my girlfriend for just over 3 years now but im not sure if i should stay with her or move on. We're both in our early 20's. She's the first real gf i've had and the only girl i've slept with. She really is a great person and...

Is she distracted? No longer cares? She cheated on me last year. And now she's forgotten my Birthday. Will things ever go back to how they were?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

19 October 2012 (M) - Hi guys, hope you are well. I will go straight to the point, my wife forgot my birthday and I can't help but feel so sad. She remembered a few minutes to Mid-night and said happy birthday and apologised. I don't know what to do because over...

We're hopelessly incompatible. So how do I prepare myself for the break-up?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

18 October 2012 (F) - I deeply and truly love this guy and we've been in a committed relationship for the past two years. However, I have realised (he realises it too, but won't admit it) that we're hopelessly incompatible. We make each other miserable but we still st...

We've been fighting and he's texting someone late at night. Plus he says we're "on a break'. Should we stay together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

16 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I are on a break. However we are still living together, it's awkward. We have been fighting a lot, especially in the last few months, and we have only been together for 8 months, living together for 6. Tensions were high and I ...

My wife has secrets. Do I sit on this? Or tell her I know everything?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

16 October 2012 (M) - Hello everyone im back!!!! My wife and i have been together for thirteen years. I was her first for everything. The problem with my wife is she has regrets for things she missed out on. I know cause when ever she makes comments like ho...

I have major Trust issues due to past experiences. Can you give me advice to cope better at trusting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

16 October 2012 (F) - It involves my ex bf. We broke up because I was a bit closed off, guarded even. I have a hard time trusting people and I've seen friends get cheated on so many times, that I have had an issue with trusting men I date. So, we broke up and I take ful...

Broke up, it was the right thing to do. Soooo Why do I miss him so much ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4418 days ago

16 October 2012 (F) - In September I broke up with a guy who I have been on/off with for the past year and a half. I know I have done the right thing as I wasn't happy and wasn't getting what I needed from the relationship. We had recently got back together at the end ...

Marriage in trouble. But could we get back together? best advice???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

15 October 2012 (M) - Well, my world came tumbling down to earth about 5 weeks ago. I have been married for 8 years, known each other for another 7 or so years earlier, have two boys 8 and 11 with her. We had one break up before we had kids, she met someone at her w...

Do I dump him over the attention he's giving his 'back-up women?" I no longer trust him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend is around 10 years older than me and is in a rush to get married because he feels that he is of that age and his family and culture expects that of him. We're of the same culture and I definitely understand that about him but I just c...

Can I ever forgive her? How?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

14 October 2012 (M) - I am a young man aged 28 working in the government and my fiance is 24 and she does not work. My fiance loves telling lies most of the time and my friends always tells me that your fiance looks like crook. Two weeks ago on Saturday I bought a ...

Has any one else overcome this? I love him, but I think our relationship is on the rocks!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

14 October 2012 (F) - My relationship is on the rocks right now. :( I'm in a struggle where I sometimes wonder if I want to spend the rest of my life with my bf. I don't know if we can last together, and I don't know if I even truly love him. I feel like I'm startin...

How do I get through this? I'm a young Mom. BoyF left me. Despite medical assistance this situation is affecting my everyday routines.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

14 October 2012 (F) - Hi fellow Cupids, Bit of an issue on my hands. Recently (The past month or so) I have been feeling depressed like you wouldnt believe. Im currently on medication to no avail, so I'm attempting a different route and hoping you guys could offer ...

Lost my baby to SIDS in Feb. My husband is totally unsupportive to me and only wants sex. Is it time to leave and take my daughter with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

13 October 2012 (F) - hey guys i have been married since 2007 we have a 3 yr old girl. When i met him i was so in love but then came him being outside all day with the guys. We lost the relationship we had He never has interest in finding a job to support us. It'...

Anxious/preoccupied - has she lost interest already?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4422 days ago

12 October 2012 (M) - I have been with this awesome girl for six months. We share a lot of interests and especially in the beginning had a sparking, romantically and sexually intense and wonderful relationship. We basically spent every day together. Over time, she has ...

Is our relationship falling apart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4415 days ago

12 October 2012 (F) - Things have been diff with us it feels like we are moving back. We used to spend a lot of time together always would talk on the phone nd we would always hang out. Now we don't really talk we hang out we watch tv always sports bc that's what he ...

Is it possible to resign yourself to a life without love?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

12 October 2012 (M) - I just want to say this and get it off my chest really. Comment if you wish. I'm getting on for fifty, and have been married for twenty years, most of them unhappily. My wife suffered from serious post-partum depression after our children were bor...

I love my boyfriend but how do we get the spark back? I felt that spark with another guy and was tempted.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 October 2012 (F) - Hi there, I've not written anything here in a while - I've not needed to! I've been in a happy and stable relationship for two and a half years. However I've had something playing on my mind and I need to get it out. My other half went to Can...

I have never wishes to be unfaithful to her. But I think I have to leave as she's breaking my heart. I need your advice please, on what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

9 October 2012 (M) - I love my wife but I think I need to make a break as I'm worried that the way I feel could be damaging for both of us. For the past few years she has rejected me so often for sex that I stop making any moves towards her. I like to think I'm rom...

My girlfriend has been extremely moody lately and I don't know what to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4426 days ago

8 October 2012 (M) - ok so me and my gf has been dating for 2 years we have broke up a few times for space and 1 time bc i cheated. things have been great till the past 2 months, everything is comein back up. well now its like she wants to be with me, like she loves me...

My boyfriend says he wants a break so he can date other girls

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

7 October 2012 (F) - Hello, I am in a rather interesting situation. My boyfriend well currently ex boyfriend lives with me. And hes confusing and hurting me emotionally. But lets go back to the beginning 4 1/2 years. We met while I was on a field trip when I was stil...

He said he LOVED me. Now he will not reply. Do I just take it for granted that he is ok and move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

6 October 2012 (F) - Hi My ex-boyfriend AND me were together for 6 years on AND off. He wasn't a great boyfriend, he made promises he didn't keep but mostly he's a good soul. We live in different countries but the flight was cheap AND only an hour long so it didn...

Marriage problems. So should I look for my long lost friend or seek out my brother's friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

6 October 2012 (F) - so im 22 years old and married for almost 5 years and with 2 kids(girls). Back when i was in the 8th grade i had a crush on this guy who was my best friend Everyone though that we were going out, but that never happened. The last time i saw him w...

Married to a Serial Cheater. Our baby will be born in January. And your advice about what to do about this situation would be?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4430 days ago

4 October 2012 (F) - I am married to what I think is a serial cheater. We have been together 7 years married for 4 years. Once caught him on sex dating websites, with hidden email accounts and we put an end to it and communicated on what and why he did it and some of h...

My serious LDR of two years is sinking. What would be a good classy way to break it off ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4430 days ago

4 October 2012 (F) - Hello everyone. My serious LDR of two years is sinking. What happened is that he suddenly changed his FB password after adding a girl he used to have a crush on... And lately we just been extremely distant so I went through my Facebook and dele...

What to do? My ex has a girlfriend yet he keeps texting me saying 'I miss having sex with you',

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

2 October 2012 (F) - So I broke up with my ex nearly 6 months ago after a rocky 3 and a half years! We had been through a lot but it was constand arguing and sex, sometimes I was happy, but then our sex life turned really rubbish, and it was him basically saying '...

Afraid of commitment and really unsure of just about everything in my life right now

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4432 days ago

2 October 2012 (M) - This is a long post but I really want to ask a lot of deep questions from the very wise agony aunts. For those that haven't followed my previous posts, I'll give a very quick intro to my situation. I met my wife three years ago. I had just finishe...