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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:In September I broke up with a guy who I have been on/off with for the past year and a half. I know I have done the right thing as I wasn't happy and wasn't getting what I needed from the relationship. We had recently got back together at the end of July after being apart since February. He said things would be different and still had feelings for me, deep down I knew things weren't going to be the same. I decided to end the friendship and wanted to see if we could stay friends. Or if not at least be civil as we know a lot of the same people but now were not even on talking terms. My friends and family have reassured me that I have done the right thing and even though I wasn't happy with the situation I still miss him like crazy and he's always on my mind. Why? Please help, thanks.
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reader, Stayc63088  +, writes (16 October 2012):
 Yepp, it's common. It's happened to me, I made the mistake of thinking missing him= I still love him. It doesn't. It's just natural to miss someone you had feelings for and spent time with. Like the other poster said, it will fade over time and you will think of him less and less.
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