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Archived questions from: May, 2010 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

My ex seems to be using me as an ego-boost, how do I get through to him that this is not acceptable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5287 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - My ex and I have been split up for 4 months after just under a 2 year long-distance relationship. We agreed to remain friends and have done so, due to the fact we were really close and told each other everything - more than we have told our cl...

How do you break up with a "nice guy"?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - I have fallen out of love with my boyfriend. he is a wonderful person, kind, considerate I just dont love him any more. My question is how do you break up with someone who has done nothing wrong? Iv only ever been in messy breakups where i have ...

I really want to leave him... but what about my kids?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - I have married for 7 years with a 3 year old kid. My husband is a good father but not a good husband. Since the kid was born, we seldom have sex. The last time we had sex was more than a year ago. I confronted him last week. He said he treated ...

Why is he no longer attracted to me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. He is 44, I am 25. When we first met, he pursued me, trying reallyyyy hard, and I know he thought I was really hot. He still tells people about how beautiful his girlfriend is, even tells me if he could ...

Might Be Losing Sexual Interest With Boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Ok,so I am in a loveless relationship for little over a year. At times when my boyfriend wants to see me he is thinking about sex and i feel like that is the only thing that gives us an excuse to see each other. If we dont go out somewhere(which we ...

Not in love with my wife, but have a young daughter.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

28 May 2010 (M) - I'm 37 years old, married, and have a 2 1/2 year old daughter. I'm from the UK and my wife is from Hong Kong. We met in HK through a mutual friend while i was working there. Before we got together she was in another relationship and I knew both of ...

What the..? After moving in together, our sex life has died off completely..!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

28 May 2010 (M) - Hi, I moved in with my Girl-friend about 6 months ago after being together for over 2 yrs and we are having one or two problems. I am 26 and she has just turned 32 We use to spend around 3 evenings a week together, going out regually or ...

I don't have the guts to leave him but I don't want to stay either

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4705 days ago

27 May 2010 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my partner for 4 years. We have a 2 1/2 year old daughter. I was 19 when I fell pregnant and at university 3 hours drive from my parents house. I moved in with my partner and I feel that the last few years I have ...

I'm not happy with my partner, should I leave him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 May 2010 (F) - I need help I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years. I've got a 3 year old son with him, and I've just found out I'm pregnant again. I should be happy but I'm not, I don't think i love him anymore. i'm miserable all the time he hasn't done anyt...

What does love but not in love with mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

27 May 2010 (?) - When a woman in her mid 50's is married to a man who is 60 yrs. old say's she loves her husband BUT is NOT in love with him---What exactly doe's that mean?? They have two grown sons and no grandchildren. Anyway why does she stay with him if she ...

"I'm so emotionally attached to him but he wants to move on"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend been together for 3 years. He treated me like a princess in the first 1.5 year.. then he got fed up with me constantly being demanding and rude. I also threatened him a lot .. later he found me lying to him over and over again ...

I think he doesn't want me anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - Ok so I've been dating my bf for 6 months (not a long time I know but it's my longest relationship). When we first got together he was really sweet, fun and couldn't do more for me. Now it seems as though he doesn't want to be near me sometimes. ...

Caught between an ex and a rebound - help! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - i have a bit of a situation, i was with my ex for 2 and a half years, we split up near the beginning of April, we had split up a couple of times before but this time i couldn't be dealing with it anymore so decided not to plead with him to come ...

How do I go about dumping him in the nicest possible way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - I need some help! Please! I've been with this guy for almost a year now, and things are not good. Mainly not good for me, but for him, he still thinks we are perfect and there's nothing wrong with 'us'. But i just feel like i can't be with...

Is my fiance cheating, or am I paranoid? Please Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - I don't know how I can tell if my fiance is flirting and possibly seeing my best friend. He seems to be constantly tugging her hair or tickling her or something. When I talked to my best friend about him flirting with her she said she didn't think ...

We broke up, but she is still contacting me! How do I take these moves?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

25 May 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I, or ex-girlfriend rather, broke up a week and a half ago. Actually she broke up with me due to unknown reasons. She just said she's not ready for a relationship this serious and needed time and distance to think. Well... n...

How do I deal with a boyfriend who has a problem with my weight?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - Hey, thank you in advance for any answers. I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months and we were best friends for around a year before this. I've always wanted to be a bit slimmer and have been up and down with my weight and he knows this. I've...

He betrayed me then blamed ME for refusing a second connection with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - i've done everything for him like giving cookies,made pillow for his birthday,listen to his childish talk so that he'll feel better. instead of appreciation,he thinks of me as toy which he can play then abandon when he gets bored of it. later he ...

How do I regain his trust and interest in "us"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - Well i have a problem, my ex broke up w/ me a few weeks ago he has a really bad perspective of me, he cant stand me. Until today he thought we might still have a future but now he doesn't believe that anymore. He tells me he wont ever change the ...

Does he still have feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - So my ex and I broke up about 2 years ago, it was difficult at first, but we managed to maintain a pretty close friendship... But now things are a little different. The last few months, we have been hanging out alone a couple times a month, a...

Should I call him on his birthday?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - 25th of may is his birthday but I cant get the courage to call and i don't know If I should. We broke up on the 9th of may, he said he didn't love me anymore from one day to another (literally, cause the day before he grabbed my hands and looked...

I miss my ex, but there is a new guy in my life, should I give him a chance or clear things up with my ex first?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - Long story short, my ex-bf broke up with me almost 2 months ago. I miss him terribly. He wants to remain friends with me on skype and whenever he logs on and I am online tries to talk to me, but there are no other signs of him wanting me back (one ...

Is my relationship fading, or am I overthinking the situation? Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - I'm so desperate, I really need help. I have been dating my bf off and on for about 2 years. Last year we decided to make it into a relationship. But this is my problem, I'm not sure if he still wants to be with me. When I ask him, he neve...

Should I send these photos to my ex as a nice gesture now that we are talking again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5294 days ago

24 May 2010 (F) - My ex and i were with each other for almost 4 years and a year of no contact after the break up..no one cheated..i think we did really love each other..it was petty stuff that i think we can get over from just learning from mistakes etc..i know what ...

How can I get him to return affection and improve our situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

24 May 2010 (F) - I want to start out by saying that I have been with this man for over 6 years, since I have been 18. I feel he doesn't want me anymore, he shows no affection. Sex is just get in and get out, seriously lasts 15 minutes. Other than that only time he ...

I'm really in love with him, but he doesn't seem to want alone time for us

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

24 May 2010 (F) - I've been with this guy for somewhat close to 3years now. I'll tell you how I screwed up the first 6months of the relationship. I cheated on him thrice. Or actually, left him for my ex,thrice. I don't know why I did it but I did. I used to think I ...

Help I think my boyfriend is losing interest

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

23 May 2010 (F) - [Two questions merged] what would you make of a relationship like this? i think my bf is no longer interested. 1. i see him once a week only 2. he never calls me 3. there could be days with out hearing from him 4. haven't had sex in a few we...

I am attracted to two men, what am I supposed to do?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

22 May 2010 (F) - I'm a 25 year old female in an open relationship with a man ten years older than me. We've been together for nearly 6 years, but I recently took a chance and met one of my male friends from the past for the first time. This has led to some new ...

He seems less interested in me, and is only really happy when we're doing things sexually.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5295 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together just over one year now. he has cheated on me in the past but with a girl he has never met, so i let it go by and still love him. but just recently within this past month he seems like he is a bit less interested ...

Scared to get in contact with my old friends after everything that happened

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - right, this is a really long story and im in dire need of help so please bare with me =) ok, here goes. . . all through highschool i was best mates with 2 amazing girls, jade and leah. in the last two years we had a fairly huge argument and w...

He ended a four-year engangement because of paranoia

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - MY boyfriend and i have been together for 4 years and have always had the perfect relationship, we even got engaged last october.it was so hard getting engaged because our families didnt want us to be together at first so we did everything to get ...

He begrudges us for being together

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5297 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend's bestfriend is also my bestfriend. Let's call him A. Okay, so I knew A back then, before I even know my boyfriend. A and I used to liked each other but suddenly out of nowhere he got a girlfriend, so I back off. A has now broke up with ...

I feel like I've become a bitch towards men...because the treat me as if I have no feelings, help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - So, lately I've been having some problems with relationships and stuff like that in general. My first boyfriend cheated on me, and so did my second. My last boyfriend and I recently broke up because we needed a break because things weren't wor...

Complicated situation would love find its way?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

20 May 2010 (F) - I was just wondering Does everyone accept that the "if you love something set it free" principle is a universal one? Are there any examples of love finding its way through a complicated situation beyond the partie's control? Is one supposed to fight...

Does he really want to move on, or is there more to it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

20 May 2010 (F) - i dated this guy for about 8 months.. we did everything together BUT our relationship was a little complicated cos we are from different races. My family knew him but his didn't know me. He suddenly broke up with me 2 months ago but he still ca...

He broke up with me because I went crazy.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

20 May 2010 (F) - To whom it may concern One month ago, my boyfriend broke up with me, the reason why for him was: I went too crazy. He wouldn't listen to me. Before the break-up, He was very busy lately, no time for me, He tried making time for me but when we were...

I can't stand my boyfriend any more!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

20 May 2010 (F) - Hi... I live with my boyfriend. and i just cant stand him anymore. He smokes pot and he trys to force me to smoke and i hate that. Also he got mad because i didnt wanna smoke, i was watching t.v and he turned it off because he i didnt want to smoke. ...

Feel so disrespected and used but can't get out of the relationship

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i have always had problems in the bedroom and it's getting to the point where i feel very disrespected by him and as if he has unrealistic expectations of me. I feel trapped in this relationship and anxious when left alone in a ...

I hurt my boyfriend deeply before he said he could not love me , does he still have feelings for me??

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19 May 2010 (F) - To sum up my long and complicated relationship of 3 years, I hurt my once devoted and loving boyfriend many times with lies , betrayal and bad attitude. He's given me many chances and trusted me again but I still do it... It's because I'm this ...

My wife and I are going through an emotionally difficult time, how do we cope with this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

19 May 2010 (M) - Hello everyone. I have been with my wife for almost 6 years. We have been married 2 1/2. I have one step child (8) and we have 1 child together (1 1/2). Our relationship has been nothing but successful when it comes to teamwork, communication, ...

Drifting away from my wife, having an affair and utterly confused! Please help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

19 May 2010 (M) - I am a married man of 5 years. While my wife is a wonderful mom to our two children our relationship has diminished to the point where I feel were just good friends. She does not feel the same, but unfortunately our lack of time together, intimacy ...

Was that my clue to get out and find someone who will love me for me unconditionally?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5299 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - here is another question: i have been in an 10 year relationship. we have one child together. he says every year we are going to get married...never got a ring. not going to happen. he has been married before.. he says my attitude gets in the way ...

I need to know, maybe from a female perspective, if she loves me still or not and what is the best thing to do from here.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

19 May 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for about three months. A week ago she wrote me a letter telling me that she wasn't ready for a relationship and that I should move on. She explained that this was her first relationship and that she is confused ...

Long-term marriage, troubled relationship, now what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

19 May 2010 (M) - Well, here's my question. Probably not the first time this type of question has come up. I am a 50 year old male, married with two grown children (one already married with 2 children already) and one daughter in high school. My wife (1 year old...

Is there a way to get the 'spark' back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5299 days ago

19 May 2010 (M) - if i love my girlfriend and if she loves me, why arent we moving anywhere, we're both 16, we've been together 9months, and there just isnt that how you say 'a spark' anymore, but i love her is there anyway to get that back?...

She's not sure if she wants this relationship! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5300 days ago

19 May 2010 (M) - Hi all, Me and my partner have been going out for two years now and have a lovely 6 month old baby girl, we have had a rough two years together and recently we broke up because my partner was not in love with me anymore and i dont blame her...

He'd been distant, so I broke up by text. But I don't understand his reply!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - So my bf has been very distant towards me. Actually he straight up stopped talking to me after a fight we had about my jealousy issue. I understand he needed time to cool off. It was a week then he called me, but I was in the middle of something and ...

I want to leave but we're married... is it worth it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid friends, This is my second post :) I want to share with you my feelings and concerns, so you can orient me if I'm doing everything the wrong way. I'm married, since last August 2009, but I come from a long distance relationship from ...

Not sure I'm still in love with my fiance

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5302 days ago

17 May 2010 (F) - I've been with my fiance for nearly 3 yrs now, but i don't feel like i love him as much anymore. i still really care about him, i just don't think i love him. he's really clingy and tbh it's suffocating me, also it's really irritating. i have told ...

I want his love even though I don't love him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - okay so me and my current boyfriend have been dating on and off for 10 months...at one point i was inlove with him but after a awhile i fell out of love...i started cheating on him with different guys...i have commited so much infidelity its ...