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writes:i dated this guy for about 8 months.. we did everything together BUT our relationship was a little complicated cos we are from different races. My family knew him but his didn't know me.He suddenly broke up with me 2 months ago but he still calls me as much as he did wen we were together and visits me-we even sleep together sometimes.I'm still madly in love with him and i want him back. I think about him ALL the time. He says he still cares about me a lot and he still loves me. Yet he says he wants to get over me?Does he really want to get over me? What should i do??Do i maybe still stand a chance with him? :(
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reader, Amy :) +, writes (20 May 2010):
Amy :) is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey shannon :)
Thanks so0o much for the advice.. it really makes a LOT of sense!!!
He is still pretty young and trying to find himself so i think you right**
iv been trying to get over him by hooking up with this other guy but it didnt help!
But i think it'l all get better with time..
Thank you VERY VERY MUCH :)
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reader, shannon222  +, writes (20 May 2010):
 It seems that if he is calling you and telling you that he still cares, then he wants to be with you. Sometimes guys are afraid to be with someone that they really care about, expecially at a young age. It seems this may be the case if he is young also.
The best thing that I can recommend is to sit down and have a conversation with him. And if he insists that he doesn't want to be with you, then cut him off. It will be hard (I know from experience). But in my experience, it didn't take long for him to come back with his real feelings for me and telling me he wanted me back.
But if he truly wants to get over you, then he needs to stop calling and coming over. You or him will never begin to heal if you keep seeing each other. Hope this helps! XOXO
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