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*ZombiexKissesx
writes:Ok so I've been dating my bf for 6 months (not a long time I know but it's my longest relationship). When we first got together he was really sweet, fun and couldn't do more for me. Now it seems as though he doesn't want to be near me sometimes. He's always been arogant and full of himself but it seems to of gotten a little worse. He still has him momments where he can be cute and cuddly but they are rare. I try to do things for him to show him I care but he doesn't do them back. He always bitches that there's nothing to do so when I try to come up with ideas he shoots them down and gets moody with me. There is also a 6 year age gap between us, I'm 20 and he's 26 so sometimes if feels like he's looking down on me and at times I have called him out for acting like a father but he usually listens and stops. I feel like he's getting bored of being with me. Or am I reading to much into things? Last year I went through a really bad break up that lasted on and off for about 6 months and the guy broke me down completly. I'm really confussed right now and I really do love him and I really do want us to work out I'm just not sure what to think. Reply to this Question
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reader, xZombiexKissesx +, writes (26 May 2010):
xZombiexKissesx is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you you guys for your replies =] I think I will try to stand up to him more and see what happens.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (25 May 2010):
I think it's more likely that his real colours are now coming through. Some people are able to put on a great act. But they can't keep it up and soon their real personality starts to shine through, as it were. I think you'll find the sad truth is that he's not a sweet caring guy, but is in fact an arrogant man who likes to control people. This may be a big warning to you, and you need to listen to it. You need to tell him straight that you are not prepared to be talked down to or treated this way. See how he reacts. Anything other than making up to you big style, and you need to think about whether you want to be in this. The last thing you want is to end up as his doormat.
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reader, loonman4  +, writes (25 May 2010):
You will learn as you get older that the first 6 monthes in any relationship are always the most fun. After that, things tend to plateau...so don't panic and let things play out.
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