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30-35,
*hicaLatina
writes:Hi... I live with my boyfriend. and i just cant stand him anymore. He smokes pot and he trys to force me to smoke and i hate that. Also he got mad because i didnt wanna smoke, i was watching t.v and he turned it off because he i didnt want to smoke. I also think he is an unhappy person because he gets mad at everything things like traffic, people sitting next to our table when we go eat out and when he cant find his stuff he blames it on me. He also talks alot of crap about hispanic people. And iam hispanic.he makes stupid jokes that arent funny at all like calling me names. I dnt know what to do anymore. Help me please!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (20 May 2010):
 Don't be a doormat or a martyr. You won't gain anything but have more to lose if you stay in this relationship.
It will get worse and worse as he will pummel you more until you will lose your self esteem and confidence. Do not let him abuse you mentally and emotionally.
Fight for your rights or leave if he won't change.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (20 May 2010):
 Yup, sounds like a first class A-hole. I'm with everyone else, ditch him. The living situation can be tricky, so you may want to look into getting your own place, or at least moving out first. Maybe when you hit him with the fact that you're moving out, it may be a wake up call. Still, I don't think he's worth the time.
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reader, RyanS  +, writes (20 May 2010):
 Please leave this guy and find a new bf who cares for you.
Leave him soon because he is insensitive towards you.
You will feel more hurt in future if you stay with him.
Wishing you happiness.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2010): If you are fed up of him you should split up with him and if he makes fun of you you shouldnt be in that sort of relationship you desver to be with someone who apprecitaes you snd understands you
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (20 May 2010):
End it. Simple as that. He won't change, and you can do a million times better. Just dump him.
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