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Archived questions from: October, 2008 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

I miss my ex...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Last summer, I met a guy that completely stole my heart. Although at first I didn't notice him, when we started hanging out my attraction to him was undeniable. The more time I spent with him, the more I fell for him. Eventually I told him how I ...

What are signs that he 's falling out of love with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5865 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for a year now and just recently moved into a beautiful place. Everything is going great just that since moving in together we've been having less sex. We went from having sex together everyday, to only once a ...

I want to dump my boyfriend for my ex who is in the same family

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - am 18, he is 18 as well we have been dating for five and half months now but i do not love him as much as i did before. i want to dump him, but i do not know how. besides i want to leave him for the guy who is his flesh and blood family member that ...

Could his stalling mean his love has faded?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Quick question Mybfriend of a year said he wanted to move in with me (his idea) this year but now says its too soon and he has so much to sort with his house/mortgage. He is still being the same with me as before but does go distant some tim...

She seems to have lost her confidence and I don't want to lose her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5864 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - (I'VE ADDED MORE TO THIS PREVIOUS QUESTIONS AFTER BEING ASKED FOR ADDITIONAL INFORMATION) I've been getting close to a girl for the pst three months. Started off emailing and texting with the old paranoia of 'does she like me?'. then we started ...

He's lost his confidence since I cheated on him and I don't like how it has changed his personality

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Hi. I'm in a long term relationship and currently engaged to be married in the next couple of years. The thing is, things seem different between me and my partner these days. It seems that over the years our roles have changed somewhat, I used to ...

I'm going through MLC and I'm so lost and confused

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29 October 2008 (F) - I'm 33, married 7 years (but I've been with my husband for 13 years) and have 2 kids, one 14 (from a previous relationship) and one 2. I've never been single from the time I was 17. When I met my husband, I had just gotten out of a relationship. ...

Impulsive/Annoying GF Should I move on and see other people ?

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29 October 2008 (M) - I’ve been seeing my girlfriend for a year and getting to know her better, now we’re in a serious relationship of three months but it seems like things are not working, their just getting worse and worse meaning our relationship may come to an ...

I'm turning ino a stalker over this guy.....I need help fast!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - I need advice Im goin out of my mind. Ok, theres this guy who I was seeing who at the time I didnt really like. I mean I fancied him loads and even wondered if I was falling in love with him. But in the back of my mind, I knew we werent right. He ...

I think she doesn't love him but is after his money!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - hiya today ive had my ex bf on the phone crying his eyes out basically the woman he left me for is treating him like crap,she says she doesnt trust him and that she loves him but not sure if its in a friendship way or a gf/bf way, i really feel for ...

He wont contribute finacially and I am drowing in bills!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5866 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - I am having a problem with my relationship, me and my boyfriend argue all the time. He got sacked from his job 4 months ago. We have been together for nearly a year but he used to work abroad so I only seen him for weeks at a time. Anyhows after ...

I'm feeling the intensity slipping away.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5868 days ago

27 October 2008 (M) - Hi My problem is, that I've been seeing a woman for 8 months. Initially my feelings were very passionate. Up until recently I've noticed a difference in my feelings and I don't know why. Our love making is very powerful. We generally see...

Why is my boyfriend unattracted to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5868 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and I have been dating for just over a year and i have just recently found out that he no longer finds me attractive sexually. At first i was devestaed as i am already quite self concious. However he explained that he was still in live ...

How do I know if the love has gone from my marriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5869 days ago

26 October 2008 (M) - I have been married for 5 years through a recent chain of events I am unsure what I think about the marriage anymore..I say "i love you" but there is no feeling in it. My wife is upset but there is little I can do or say and I think I care enough to ...

Do you think I can fix this and get back with her later on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5841 days ago

26 October 2008 (M) - mi girlfriend(ex) of 4 months broke up with me she did it was cuz she couldnt talk to me and that i didnt understant her. she said that she had that problem b4 and she didnt want to end up hating me and thats she broke up with me. also cuz she ...

I hate being stuck in the middle?

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26 October 2008 (M) - I have a friend named Amber, who is my best friend and confides in me. She is in a relationship with another one of my friends, Adam, who also confides in me about their relationship. They have been in a relationship for about a year now and I ...

I have been married 20 years but it was never a very happy marriage. We have both cheated, and now we are living apart. Where did we go wrong ?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5843 days ago

25 October 2008 (M) - I have been married 20 years but it was never a very happy marriage. The issues releted to bad very infrequent sex. Discussed this with my wife many times but she did not change. She just did not care for me and was always more engrossed in her ...

I've been married since 1975 and I'm so tired of it all, what can I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5871 days ago

25 October 2008 (F) - im 51 he's 53 im searous hes not i am open and need to comunicate or talk he hates to he will not confront any issues that requires action. im tired and need some ways to get him to partisipate more and help with the responsibiltes of marrage. we ...

I'm seperated from my hot-headed husband and want to start fresh with someone else...help !

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5871 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - I was friends with my husband for 5 years and never fought with him. We then decided we liked each other and he proposed after a month of dating. Six months later we married. From the day we started dating, we fought off and on. Now, two years ...

How does one 'pretend' to be happy in a marriage where the love has faded?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5866 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - Looking for tools. I come to the realisation that if my husband and I hadnt got married we wouldve have parted a long time ago. We've made our bed and now have to lie in it. We used to be very passionatly in love, but love isnt enough. Is is ...

He seemed crazy about me, but now says we have no future. Huh?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - Hi, Am having some trouble understanding a situation - I have had a few bad dating experiences lately and a couple of months ago I met someone I thought I could really like. We started going out and he seemed particularly thrilled with me, I've nev...

My boyfriend says he is in love with an older woman.

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - I have a problem and I don't understand what I can do. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years and I truly believe that he is my true love. I want to marry him, and spend the rest of my life with him and I've known this every since ...

Lesbian's girlfriend's love has faded and now she seems to have feeling for a new guy.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - My girlfriend, let's call her 'W', and I have been officially a couple together for 2 years (we were friends for 7 years so our friendship foundation is very strong) but last month, she emailed her friend to tell her that she has developed some ...

What is he waiting for time to tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - We have been in love and had a wonderful loving and caring relationship and got married for over two years now and almost out of the blue couple months ago my hubby said that he does not have any feelings for me anymore and does not want to be with ...

Could his rejection just be a sign of depression? How can I help him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - Hi, About two months ago, my boyfriend went on holiday with his single friends. A few days before returning, he text me and told me he wanted to be on his own. Then he told me that 'He loves me but he is not in love with me.' I asked him how lo...

Should I stay with my son's father?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5873 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - Hello. I have a 4 almost 5 year old son who is my life. I am still with the father, though we have broken up twice since our son was born. I love him but I'm not in love with him, and I think he feels the same way, but we are staying together for ...

What is going through her head?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - my girlfriend left me one day and went to australia a week later. she has two sisters there. she never verbally told me she was going but i did get a letter stating why the break up and why she had to go to australia. two months past and i went down ...

Should I get a divorce or stick it out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - I have been considering a divorce for some time (years). My husband and I have been together for almost seven years and he has a son from a previous "one night stand" that we see often because of me. He lives on the other side of the country, but ...

I don't know how to make him appreciate me and put more effort into our relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months. He is the first guy I've ever had sex with. He told me he loved me pretty soon after we started dating. And we both sort of agree on not saying it often because we want it to be special. But the ...

Keep thinking how it would be like to date around, I'm 25, too young to feel tied down. I'm confused about my relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - I'm a little confused as to what's going on in my relationship right now. Maybe it's partly my fault but I want you to tell me what you think. Ok, my boyfriend and I have been together for four and a half years so far. I would look at it as be...

My current relationship isn't going too well, I suspect this is due in part to me being in love with someone else. What to do?

This question has 77 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

16 October 2008 (M) - Hi, I'm a guy in my early 30's and I'm in love with my business partner. I took over the business that we both worked for shortly after she joined. I didn't start having feelings for her for a year or so, but when she split up with her partn...

My hubby has had a paintful childhood is very stressed recently and very confused about our relationship, also going through a mid life crisis. Can our marriage be saved?...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - I have been married for 15 years and have a 12 year old daughter. On October 1, 2008 my husband told me that he was confused about everything, including our relationship. He asked for help to go to counseling. We started immediatly. Since (2 ...

I feel like a wonderful person when I don't see my ex but I'm used to him, I realy love this other guy, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5741 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - Hi everybody well I need some of your opinion. Well I was engage for 16 years he never ask me 2 marry I am the one who always asked him when are we going 2 get married his answer always is someday. Well we had some problems like 7 months ago so I ...

What did my husband's odd dream about me and another man...really mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - my husband is impotent, but recently I found out he was in contact by facebook and mobile with an ex girlfriend, who he says he never spoke to just texted and never met up although there was talk, did I stop him before he started an affair, also ...

Does he want me or his girlfriend? He can't have both.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - I ended things with my ex over a year ago, it was hard and hurt me, but I had to becasue he wouldn't commit to me, in the way I wanted him to. He wasn't happy, and asked if we could jsut carry on etc, etc, I couldn't do it, even though I still felt ...

He is so controlling, how do I get out of this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5880 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - Hi everybody well I have a problem and hope that any one can give me some advice. Well I was engaged with this man for 16 years and he never asked me to marry me, I have a 4 year old son with him and 2 teenage daughters from previous marrage. My ...

Is she really over me, or guilt ridden with what shes done?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5873 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - I have a girl, soon to be ex girl I guess, who Ive been with for about 5.5 years. We've had up and down romance for the entire time, I cheated on her about two years ago which she found out, and left me then took off to the other side of the ...

Not sure where we should be as a couple, whether I should be starting to think to settle down, or whether I am being unfair to both of us by continuing the relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5882 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - I am confused. I have the perfect man, willing to give me everything, and has been for the past 3 years. For some reason however, the feeling of going out and dancing, joining clubs, hanging out with friends, going to parties etc appeals so much ...

What can I do to fix our marriage, or is it time to call it quits?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - I have a big issue right now, I am married, and I am wondering if it is time to call it quits. It seems that he has changed a lot in the last 2 years, and tried to cheat 2 times, but got caught each time. I can not trust him now, and I question ...

My boyfriend hides everything from me, the computer is more entertaining then me, but he loves our daughter. Do you think we can make it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5882 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - What do you think about my relationship... Can we make it? I've been with my man for 4years we havent gotten married but we do have a two year old.... Any how where can I begin... Well it's come to a point in our relationship where I cant tak...

It's like we say "I love you' out of habit now. I don't want to hurt her - which is worse, staying in this comfortable but sparkless relationship or leaving?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - Ok so here goes. I've been in a relationship for the past 8 years with a wonderful woman. She is sweet, kind, funny, smart, all the things you could possibly want in a mate, but for some reason the spark is all but gone. I'm just not physically ...

I just started a relationship with a girl who's really happy about it but now that girl that I'm in love with wants me back? What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5882 days ago

13 October 2008 (M) - I was in a relationship with this girl since January. We fell for each other and i love her so much. We recentl broke up though in August because of a bump in the road that i thought we could work through it. But I guess she didn't think we could. ...

Our relationship is not the same as it was when we started. How do I bring back the spark?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5883 days ago

13 October 2008 (M) - Why is it so hurt so when you fall inlove with some one. I just wish my boyfriend knows how much i love him, care about him. I miss the old time we had, the fun etc..... now it is not the same and everytimes i think about it, it makes me cry and ...

How can we get out of this vicious circle of annoyingness!?!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5882 days ago

12 October 2008 (M) - Where do i begin? I love my girlfriend to bits in fact more than i have loved anyone before, and i know she feels the same. we are crazy about each other! We have been together for around a year (on and off), im british and she is dutch. I...

I like someone else but I have a boyfriend, is this a sign I'm unhappy in my present relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5883 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - please help ive been going out with my boyfriend for 5 years and he is 6 years older than me so he wants the whole settling down thing im still only young and want to enjoy myself. I really fancy this guy at work i flirt with him all the ti...

How do I tell my wife that she needs to lose weight? I love her but am having problems with her neglecting these aspects.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5851 days ago

12 October 2008 (M) - How do I tell my wife she needs to lose weight? We have been married for 8 yrs, 2nd for both of us. When we met she was much thinner ans said she worked out and stayed in shape,but over the years she has slowly gained weight and seems to have lost...

I have a boyfriend but I am attracted to my married friend, I want to forget about him but I also want to kiss him!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5884 days ago

11 October 2008 (?) - Please any advice would help me right now!! I am 21 and have been living with Boyfriend for the last few months, but i have met someone who i like more than what i should. I have always said it doesn't matter how happy you are with your p...

I have no idea what he wants...help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5884 days ago

10 October 2008 (F) - Hello, I met a bloke 3 weeks ago and we've had sex 3 times. He lives about an hour and a half away and we chat on msn and text regulary. I just don't know what he wants and it's too early to put pressure on him. I don't want to get hurt or attached ...

Do I have a right to be jealous?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5868 days ago

10 October 2008 (F) - The other day my boyfriend of a year in a half, ask me to go to the movies with him and his two new female friends. I didnt really want to go because I already felt jealous and insecure that these girls were cool with my boyfriend (i know it sounds ...

I always tell me gf where I am and what I'm doing but she never does the same I always have to ask her! Am I being unreasonable??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

10 October 2008 (M) - ok so here we go. i tell my gf wat im doing and where im going just so she doesnt have to wonder or let her imagination go crazy thinking im doing things. my gf doesnt tell me anything i always have to ask its not so much that im tryyin to be ...