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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hello, I met a bloke 3 weeks ago and we've had sex 3 times. He lives about an hour and a half away and we chat on msn and text regulary. I just don't know what he wants and it's too early to put pressure on him. I don't want to get hurt or attached to him incase he does just want sex. I dont know what to do, should I just leave it? I wouldn't even know how to go about asking him what he wants, even though I want to know so I can be in the right frame of mind. Please help! Thanks x
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2008): The problem is you are confusing sex with intimacy, simply because you have had sex three times means nothing, whilst this relationship may develop into something, it may not for sex may be only what the guy is looking for. You need to get to know this guy a little better if you want a deeper relationship
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reader, :):):) +, writes (10 October 2008):
You're absolutely right wanting to know where you stand. All too often people get the wrong idea and end up unhappy.
If you feel that this could develop into a relationship, then he is probably feeling the same.
Just ask him outright, whats the worst that can happen? Even you find it a bit nerve racking, ask him over msn or on the phone. x
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