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writes:I was in a relationship with this girl since January. We fell for each other and i love her so much. We recentl broke up though in August because of a bump in the road that i thought we could work through it. But I guess she didn't think we could. It was last weekend though that me and her were hanging out and all those feelings just came back for both of us and I thought that we would give us another chance. But after that weekend she didn't really talk the much Not that she ignored. We just really didn't comunicate so I figured she didn't want me back.Last night I decided to move on and ask this girl out that I still had feelings for her and we haven't went out since last year in November. She was really excited to be back with me n I was too but not like her. But now the girl I'm in love with wants me back and she doesn't know yet about my relationship. The thing I know that if I would be at my happiest with this girl that I love even if sometimes it hurts and now she wants to work through the problem that broke us up in the first place and if we could work through, I know our relationship will last longer. But I wouldn't even know how to brake up with the girl I'm with now because we just started going out last night and she's really happy and i don't want to hurt her and not that I would be miserable with her but I'll be so much happier with the other girl. So should I even brake up with the new girl because if I wait it out 2 see if this new relationship works and it doesn't...I might loose my chance with the one I'm in love with. So how would I tell this girl that I want to leave her if I should at all. Sorry my story's kind of long.
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reader, xelax  +, writes (13 October 2008):
To tell you the truth i wouldnt get back with the other girl...does she think she can drop you and pick you up whenever she feels like it...i would give it ago with the girl your with now, but if you do want to be with the one you're in love with then you should let this other girl know the sooner the better just tell her your situation dont lie to her i think she deserves that much. x
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reader, tammye17 +, writes (13 October 2008):
 ok...do whatever makes YOU happy.first u are making things worse being with someone u dont love, u'll be doing that girl a favor.. break up with her and explain to her in a nice way. second if u want to go back to ur ex knowing she's going to hurt u thats on you. i have been there and its hard tom let go, but if its hurting to be away from her then go ahead...after all u only learn with lessons. dont let her come and go whenever she feels like it...it's not fair for you.. good luck
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