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writes:Quick questionMybfriend of a year said he wanted to move in with me (his idea) this year but now says its too soon and he has so much to sort with his house/mortgage. He is still being the same with me as before but does go distant some times (always has had his moments) I feel really hurt. Should I give him more time? He says he still wants to be with me always. Should I worry? Has anyone been in this position before and had a happy ending? I'm worried he's changing his mind but not telling me cus he's not sure. Cant stop obsessing about itPlse help any advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, PunkyPippi  +, writes (23 January 2009):
 It depends...
are you moving into the house with the mortgage, or is he selling that or renting it or something else? If you're moving into that house, he's stalling. If not, he may just be trying to sort that out before he brings you into the situation along with your finances.
Take him at his word. You're both old enough to be honest about this type of stuff, so I would just wait and see what happens.
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