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writes:Why is it so hurt so when you fall inlove with some one. I just wish my boyfriend knows how much i love him, care about him. I miss the old time we had, the fun etc..... now it is not the same and everytimes i think about it, it makes me cry and cry. I love him and i dont want to loose him. cause for the first time in my life i never love someone like that the way i love him. Is there a way to us to have the good time and the fun we had a couple months ago back again?
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reader, pepper27  +, writes (13 October 2008):
 Hi Hunny
You could plan a suprise sweetheart this is how I keep things going all the time some are bigger suprises than others but all meaning the same "I LOVE YOU" Im always writing little notes and leaving them so my guy finds them, Get the candles out and (im presuming you cook) and cook a nice meal and have a massage evening...Sometimes we go through the days its the same old routine it gets us down we want a change something different the spark has gone the bubble seems to have burst..It doesnt only happen to one person it happens to everyone at some point we have to work at keeping it together...It can be hard with life in the fast lane all the time but its not impossible hunny, we both spent a weekend at a hotel just had some us time, He made it special for me and I did the same for him...Im always letting him no in little ways, life can get us down sometimes and we just need someone to understand maybe things have got your partner down or things are not going so right for him at this moment just try and be there and pop that spark back by suprising him with something he may need a little lift hunny, I hope this helps you love goodluck and TAKE CARE OF BOTH OF YOU WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, babomi  +, writes (13 October 2008):
 u want to get the spark and the fun back in your relationship? be organized, start with yourself
u never know what s going to happen in life, but one thing is sure: if you are negative and scared, you ll never notice the good things
love must be a source of joy and srenity, don t get sidetracked by negative emotions : u re still together, it s workable, don t let fear destroy you and your relationship
happy, confident people are a gazillion times more attractive than the moping ones too
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