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How do I know if the love has gone from my marriage?

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Question - (26 October 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 27 October 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I have been married for 5 years through a recent chain of events I am unsure what I think about the marriage anymore..I say "i love you" but there is no feeling in it. My wife is upset but there is little I can do or say and I think I care enough to say its not you but I don't know. I dated my wife for over 10 years and was my first love but I just dont know anymore. How do I know if the love has gone? I am unsure though if I really want it back..its really hard to describe this. any ideas?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2008):

I was married at one time in my life. I was going through the same thing your were. You can tell if the love has gone when the sex is not the same anymore. And if you get aggravated about everything the other person does. I hung on to marriage as long as I could. I even fell back in love several times and then back out again. If you find it hard to say I love you because you dont think you mean it then you fell out of love. You may love the person. But there is different types of love. Also, if you think about other people that you want to be with or you think is better than your husband/wife then your love has gone from your marriage. All I can say is hang in there as long as you can. And if you are out of love with the person then try loving them again. If not then you at least tried. Good luck.

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