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writes:im 51 he's 53 im searous hes not i am open and need to comunicate or talk he hates to he will not confront any issues that requires action. im tired and need some ways to get him to partisipate more and help with the responsibiltes of marrage. we have been together since 1975 help.i have no patience to baby him like telling him what to do when he needs to help out can i do anything? Reply to this Question
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reader, yourstruly  +, writes (25 October 2008):
 Hun i have also been here in your shoes and it gets a little tiring nagging all the time or thats what it feels like that we always have to nag it's so frustrating why do we have to nag our partners to get them to help why can they not see that it takes 2 and in a marrige that everything should be 50/50??? That's the thing about relatonships we buy in to the whole fifty fifty give and take bargain but speaking from my experience it's that way for the first 6months to a year of a relationship then nothing it all turns in to all take no give what is that really all about do you think it might be just human nature when be get complacent or comfortable it's always it's ok i don't have to do that my wife/husband will or it's ok we don't usually talk she'll/he'll forget about it soon... To me hun have you tried sitting down your husband telling him how you truly feel and if he is still not listening give him an altimatium your not a baby sitter your a wife but better to the point you are woman who has needs!! hope this helps in some way,yours truly .x.
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