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Archived questions from: March, 2007 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

I'm 24 and have been married 2 weeks. My husband (28) has just taken a lover who is 64!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6475 days ago

30 March 2007 (F) - I'm 24, and have just got married to my new husband who's 28. Recently he went on a business trip for a few days, or so it seemed, until a good friend (female) had told me she'd seen him with his lover. I thought that was bad enough - se...

When we're together it's wonderful then he stops contacting me for weeks/months at a time!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

30 March 2007 (F) - Ok here goes, will make as brief as possible! Met a guy on a dating website in 2005, hit it off and arranged to meet up few weeks later although that never happened (I had other plans arranged). Kept in touch via text and emails, then he went off...

I feel like I can't exist without him, I'm so confused about men.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6476 days ago

30 March 2007 (F) - we have been seeing each other for since last june he was the best looking , most laid back , kind happy person ive ever meet and i truly love him /... until xmas every thing was fine (i was paying for everything as he didnt have a job that was my ...

I really love this guy but two days ago was the first time he's ever hit me and left me a mark.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6468 days ago

30 March 2007 (F) - I am a 20 year old female that has been with a man for almost three years.In the past year we had made a family. I am so confused because i feel like he is losing interest in me and I feel like he don't love me. He's always telling me he needs ...

I found him with a prostitute! 12 Months on I still cant forgive!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

30 March 2007 (F) - hi, what do i do, i have been married for 16 years, together for 20, we have a 10 year daughter and 1 year old son, when our son was 2 months i found out my husband had visited a prostitute for oral sex whilst i was pregnant. eventually it came out...

Why does he tell me he loves me one minute then 4 days later, wants nothing more to do with me???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6106 days ago

29 March 2007 (F) - I recently split with my boyfriend of three years as he cheated on me and he begged me to take him back, i said no. He then said can we at least be friends as it would break his heart if we couldn't. Then for days later he told me he had met someone ...

What did I do to my kids that they ditched me here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6476 days ago

29 March 2007 (M) - hello An old man told me I have worked hard for my family, I have done everything for them to have a good life and now I am old, I can't do that much and I need help. Nobody helps me, the kids are busy with life and I am here lonely in eldery h...

I dont trust him, he doesnt make me feel sexy and it doesn't feel like he respects me, but he is such a nice guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6476 days ago

29 March 2007 (F) - I am currently living with my boyfriend of nearly 2 years. I love him very much but I dont feel happy in this relationship anymore. A year ago, he cheated on me, he was seeing a girl on his university course. He told me he made a mistake and asked ...

How can you stop loving someone!!?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6475 days ago

29 March 2007 (F) - How do you stop liking/loving someone? Thanks to people who reply to this question....

I slept with my husbands brother!! Now I dont know whether to tell my husband ??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

29 March 2007 (F) - About a year ago I cheated on my husband with his brother. A lot of what happened between us was emotional rather than physical, although we did sleep together on 2 occasions. I think I did it because I wanted the excitement and as a reflex reac...

Its been 4 months together and hes stopped making the effort, should I carry on dating him ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6478 days ago

29 March 2007 (F) - Ive been dating my bf for 4 months. In the begining, it was exciting and new and it really seemed like he liked me. But now I've noticed that he really doesnt treat me special at all. NO compliments, doesnt tell me he likes me, doesnt call me or ...

Whenever the phone rings-I hope it's him but it isn't. Surely if he was that interested he'd make excuses to call. Should I call him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6478 days ago

28 March 2007 (F) - hey guys, i asked for advise on 16th march "should i mix business with pleasure" id like to say thanks to everyone who repied its much appreciated. the problem i have now is that i havent seen him since he told me he couldnt get a g/f which is over ...

Just married last year and he loves me so much. But I don't think I love him! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6477 days ago

28 March 2007 (F) - Im 20 and I got married last year and I don't think I love him anymore his family is amazing and I knoe he loves me so much but I just dont love him as a husband what can I do?...

Why am I too scared to leave him, even though I know I'm not happy!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6478 days ago

28 March 2007 (F) - Say your in a bad relationship and you know that the person your with is not the one for you. All you do is argue and when it gets bad you physically fight. The thing you hate the most is not being able to communicate – little things you need to ...

How can I help her? What can I do to make her feel better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6479 days ago

27 March 2007 (M) - hi, i will really appreciate any unbiased help with this. Me and who is now my ex, met in 2004 in autralia when we were backpacking. in a few weeks we were having a live in relatioship. and we haven't looked back. i moved to canada, here ho...

Does my mum favour my brother over me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6478 days ago

27 March 2007 (F) - I am 14 year old. My mum and dad split up 5 years ago but recently my brother who is 13 went to live with him and left our family. He didn't speak to us and when he did, he was calling us, sending messages along with his dad's family. He has he a ...

My boyfriend and I are "on a break." Does that mean we're over?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6471 days ago

27 March 2007 (F) - heya. Me and my boyfriend are on *a break* or *cooling things* for a while. I'm confused to what it all means... are we over? thank you lots xx...

Things arent has romantic as they were, Will he fall back in love with me ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6479 days ago

27 March 2007 (M) - I have this strange relationship with a 34 year old man who lives in NYC(I am 22 and I live in Mexico), we see each other at least each month. At first it was all romantic, but he turned now to be distant, he is not dating with any other guys, and ...

She says I'm smothering her and needs time apart! Will time heal this relationship ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6451 days ago

27 March 2007 (M) - My relationship of 18 months has been fading for several months. I am as committed as I was in the beginning but she says that I am smothering her and needs time apart. There has been a tremendous lack of intimacy and she is unable to explain why? ...

She won't let me go home to see my parents unless she's with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6471 days ago

27 March 2007 (F) - hi I am a 21 and a lesbian. I am in one of the most unhealty realationships possible I think. My girlfriend won't as much as let me go home to see my parents unless she is there with me and I am not allowed out for drink with out her cause she ...

How can I get her to talk to me and be honest with me about what she is feeling?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6474 days ago

27 March 2007 (M) - My gf of 6 years and I have been havin a lot of problems and have split up twice now this year. We have 3 young kids together. We split up for around 2 weeks in Jan, during this time we spoke about all our problems and said that we both loved ea...

How do I gain her trust back after cheating on her 4 months ago?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6479 days ago

26 March 2007 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for over 7 months, an I have cheated on her once with someone I went to college with. I explained why I cheated on her and we got back together but now my girlfriend doesn't trust me at all, It has been 4 months no...

My husband has been seeing prostitutes behind my back!!!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

26 March 2007 (F) - Hi, Just found out after 30 years of marriage hubby has been using prostitutes for 4 years behind my back, I had no idea, none whatsoever and I feel such a fool, he is begging for me to stay and work this out but I feel it is so hard to forgive ...

We don't talk or hardly go out together! Not sure if my bf of 1 year is right for me--what do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6478 days ago

25 March 2007 (F) - ive been with my boyf for just over a year, but im not sure he is right for me we hardly go out together, and we dont seem to talk anymore, we havent made any future plans not even for a holiday together. we both have a child from previous ...

Is it possible he's just become too afraid to love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6481 days ago

25 March 2007 (F) - My husband of a year and a half has just admitted to me that he feels like he doesn't love me anymore, and hasn't for quite some time. He said he feels like he's been pretending all this time. I feel like he is rushing towards divorce much too fast, ...

I so want us to work but I can't seem to get his ex out of my head.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6479 days ago

25 March 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over 9 months now, and we had the most amazing time together. We were friends for over a year before we got together and I am so in love with him. The problem? I can't get his ex girlfriend out of my head. I don't ...

Is there a way I can help him feel more comfortable with expressing love and showing affection.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6481 days ago

25 March 2007 (F) - My problem is my partner (of 16 years, we have one child just over 1 year old) he seems to have a real problem expressing love and affection. It seems to have got worse since we had our baby. He does not tell me he loves me but thinks I should ...

I found out after turning up at her work place that she had moved on with someone else.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

25 March 2007 (M) - My ex partner of 17 years decided to leave without any explanation. I tried to get closure but didn't get any joy. I found out after turning up at her work place that she had moved on with someone else. When her new boyfriend turned up to pick her ...

I've been with him a year but haven't heard from him in 2 weeks.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6481 days ago

24 March 2007 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together more than a year now we were really happy together. Two months ago he moved away and changed jobs, he would phone me every day and text me to tell me how much he misses me and loves me. The other week he was ...

We've drifted and I heard he liked another girl..should I talk to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6483 days ago

24 March 2007 (F) - hey, I like this guy lets call him "bob" alot. and me and Bob have dated in the past but right now i love him alot. but recently we have drifted and i heard a few days ago that he likes another girl. this girl is very pretty and very nice. so...

She says she loves me, just that she wants space... What does it mean?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6471 days ago

23 March 2007 (M) - I've been in a relationship for almost a year now and everything was going really great. We don't have major differences. We are on the same page on a lot of issues of life and friends. She did ask for space almost a month ago. I've been reading a ...

If i give up on him now , without meeting him in person will i be sorry for letting a potentially good man slip out of my hands??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6480 days ago

22 March 2007 (F) - i want to know what you think of this.16 months ago, i met and fell in love (i think) with a man i have met online. i knew from the beginning that he has had a not so pleasant experience with his 2nd ex wife. he was rejected and made to feel less ...

Why does my boyfriend show no affection towards me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

20 March 2007 (F) - Why does my boyfriend show no affection towards me? It's been 9 months and we've had sex maybe a doz. times. Were both in our 50's. He says he loves me. Is this love? I don't think so. Please help....

He hasn't texted me in over a week! What's happening??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6486 days ago

20 March 2007 (F) - i've been with my boyfriend for 4 monthz now and we were really happy together but he moved away a month ago 2 leeds and he was texting and phoning me most days saying how much hes missing me and how much he loves me and stuff but i havent heard ...

I am really depressed and thinking he is making a fool out of me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6486 days ago

19 March 2007 (F) - I dont know what to do i need help im with a partner have 2 children the problem i have is when he goes out he does not come home he does not go out often i am really depressed, is he is making a fool of me?...

During the relationship our sex life broke down and our communication broke down too.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6484 days ago

19 March 2007 (M) - I have just broken up from a 4 year relationship with the woman i thought I would marry. Since we met we both have bought a house together far from where I come from and I had to move my job in the process. This girl was my first true love and ...

She was sexually molested by a male relative and now I find it gross touching her.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6208 days ago

19 March 2007 (M) - Hello Ive been dating my girlfriend for 3 years and recently she came clean about being sexually molested by a male relative when she was 8-14 and now as horrible as it sounds i find myself kind of grossed out by her. everytime i touch her i ...

He is totally ignoring me and I don't know why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

19 March 2007 (F) - right iv been seeing this boy, for 2 years now! i really love him but as he lives so far away we arnt together. anyways i dont realy know whats happend i text him about a week ago and i havnt herd from him since!! and i dont want to ring him ...

Is him looking at porn just a phase he's going through?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6486 days ago

19 March 2007 (F) - I recently found out my fiance is looking at a lot of porn. He is also chatting with them online, and I walked in on him once when he was getting off on it. He ran out of the room, embarresed, and curious I looked on the computer (suspecting it to ...

Why did he get into the relationship if he was doubting this from the beginning?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

19 March 2007 (F) - ... So many things happened...I was with some guy but things ended abruptly when he was confused about his feelings. I stayed there for him like a champ and after a while my feelings were confused as well...things are alright. My friend talked t...

Been with him 4 years and we even looked at rings! Now he is saying he not sure about our relationship. help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6487 days ago

19 March 2007 (F) - I moved in with my boyfriend past July. recently we celebrated our 4 year anniversary and even went to look at engagement rings. Now, a month later, he told me that he is not sure whether he wants to be in a relationship, period, but that he still ...

My bf of 8 years doesnt seem interested in "us" anymore,any ideas what I can do ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6487 days ago

19 March 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for about 8 years. I love him dearly but think that he is no longer interested in "us". We do not have any sexual relationship as his usual excuse is, he's tired. He does work really long hours, so u...

Out of the blue my husband of 12 years has told me hes not sure he wants to be with me!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6486 days ago

19 March 2007 (F) - M husband of 12 years has just said out of the blue that her needs some space and he does not know if he wants to be with me anymore, he says he still loves me but not in the same way. He has only had these feelings for a few weeks and yesterday he ...

I'm getting married in less than 4 weeks! I don't want to marry him yet I can't call it off! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6457 days ago

19 March 2007 (F) - I'm getting married in less than 4 weeks time and i feel sick about the whole thing. His parents are chuffed to bits. My son hates him and their family. I cannot get anyone to have my son for one night while we get to the venue, which is 50 miles ...

I haven’t misunderstood her, she definitely used to have feelings for me, I hope she still has!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6487 days ago

18 March 2007 (M) - Dear All I wonder if you could help me again please, I’m still so damn confused! lol Basically I became closer and closer with my dream girl at high school over the course of two years. I’m one who doesn’t go looking for girls so she kind of appr...

Should I move on with my life or hang around a little longer hoping he may still change?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6488 days ago

18 March 2007 (F) - I have been in a relationship with someone for 18 years. We have lived together that long. We have two children. I have always loved him, but, he has never worried about what makes me happy. I have tried in the past to talk to him about it but he ...

He keeps telling everyone he loves me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6487 days ago

18 March 2007 (F) - i am 13 and this boy keeps asking me out. ive been out with him about 4 times before. the last time was the longest and the best. about 3 weeks . the only thing was that he accused me of not spending enough time with him. thats why he dumped me. in ...

Her business is floundering and she says she needs some space. Is she just brushing me off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6487 days ago

18 March 2007 (M) - Hi, I've been with my girlfriend for 3.5 months, she's a few years older than me and she says she love me and wants a future together. I also met some of family too. Towards end of February her business started doing quite badly and as a res...

She's just broken up with me and I just feel so alone now...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6488 days ago

18 March 2007 (M) - Please help I've never been this low in my life. My partner of 13 years has just dropped the bombshell she does not love me any more. She was 17 when we met, I was 21. For about the past two years she has been going out with friends from her...

Do guys sometimes need to be single for a while to see if anyone else will feel the same?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6481 days ago

18 March 2007 (F) - I'm feeling so hurt and so sad and upset.. that after all 9 months with the guy I believed and loved with all my heart. Everything all the dreams of future is not there now.. He is dating around to see if it helps him to get over me he said he ...