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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: right iv been seeing this boy, for 2 years now! i really love him but as he lives so far away we arnt together. anyways i dont realy know whats happend i text him about a week ago and i havnt herd from him since!! and i dont want to ring him because its him thats stoped talking to me, but i dont know what to do!! he was msn other night and he didnt bother talking to me! i would normaly talk to him but as hes the 1 with the problem im not chasing him!
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reader, livi +, writes (24 March 2007):
hey,
if you have been seeing this guy for two years, then i dont recomend you throw it all away.
Perhapse he has difficulties in his life that means he needs some space at the moment,
try calling him, not to have a go at him but just to see if he is ok. It is difficult but i'm sure he loves you other wise he would of borken up with you by now.
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reader, irish_rain +, writes (20 March 2007):
Hmm. It sounds like you might have a problem here. Online, long distance relationships can definitely be a trying situation. Even though he's ignoring you, maybe you should call him at least once just to say you tried to fix the relationship. If he doesn't answer or doesn't call back, leave him be and move on. I would say just go ahead and forget about him without calling, but call for the sake of your conscious so you can leave the relationship with a clear mind and a clean slate. I would advise that even if he does call back or answer your phone call, it would probably be best to move on anyway. If he's ignoring you, there's a reason and it can't be a positive one. And you don't want to be with someone who is going to ignore you at random without opening up and telling you what the problem is.
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