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writes:Ive been dating my bf for 4 months. In the begining, it was exciting and new and it really seemed like he liked me. But now I've noticed that he really doesnt treat me special at all. NO compliments, doesnt tell me he likes me, doesnt call me or return masseges, doesnt miss me ever (even when we dont talk for a week.) I like him alot and care about him...but dont know if I should continue dating him. He has good weeks and bad weeks. What should I do??? Reply to this Question
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reader, StellaBaby83  +, writes (29 March 2007):
 Well the question is, what do YOU want from a relationship? If this isn't it, you need to tell him. Maybe he isn't aware of how he's acting and it'll be good to give him a chance to change. Otherwise, you may find yourself feeling more for him but continually feeling more unhappy. Just be honest with him, and yourself and you'll come to a resolution that suits you both. Breaking the ice can be hard but maybe thats exactly what you need to do for him to open up and talk to you about what's going on.
Hope it all works out
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reader, thor  +, writes (29 March 2007):
 you have burnt out too quick. maybe done to much in too little time. you need to relax a while then try light the candle again. 4 months has given you both time to get to know each other, you are beginning to find out what each other is really like. maybe he does like you a lot but is bottling it up. do you preasure him in to talking to you. just give him a little time he will come out of it.
take care
thor
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionP.S. He works and is a full time college student(very busy bf)...but cant he still treat me special, it doesnt take much.
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