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I so want us to work but I can't seem to get his ex out of my head.

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Question - (25 March 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 27 March 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *auz06 writes:

I have been with my boyfriend for over 9 months now, and we had the most amazing time together. We were friends for over a year before we got together and I am so in love with him. The problem? I can't get his ex girlfriend out of my head. I don't know what my problem is, she's moved on and so has he, she's now engaged but they still work together and I'm paranoid about them being that close at work. While my boyfriend was out the other day, I read some emails, and notes, etc what they had written to one another while they were together and it made me so much worse. I was just curious, thats why I read them. We have been arguing for about a month now and I want us to work but I'm scared of ruining something special. Help! xx

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A female reader, Lauz06 United Kingdom +, writes (27 March 2007):

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Lauz06 agony auntThanks for the help guys, ill bare it in mind next time, ill get there im sure xx

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A male reader, home_land Germany +, writes (26 March 2007):

home_land agony aunthello

enjoy him becouse you have hi she is only"EX"and"EX" means past and you cant bring past into present that you have to under stand and think positive if you know that he loves you.

good luck

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A male reader, nologo Ukraine +, writes (26 March 2007):

nologo agony auntPast is history, you should believe it.

Stop arguing with your boyfriend, it's not helpful.

You read some emails and notes they wrote to one another.

You were curious, and as a result you are suffering now.

Focus on positive aspects of your current relationship.

He chose you, so he can't be close at work with her.

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