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*emmaj
writes:ive been with my boyf for just over a year, but im not sure he is right for me we hardly go out together, and we dont seem to talk anymore, we havent made any future plans not even for a holiday together. we both have a child from previous relationships so we are never on our own.i find it difficult to talk about my feelings because i can not seem to get my point across or open up and this relatioship seems to be going the same way as my last 1 which broke down because of a lack of communication and also he was jealous of the bond between me and my child
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reader, gemmaj +, writes (28 March 2007):
gemmaj is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the advice but ive talked to my boyf and were gonna give it another go make more effort make some changes see how it goes and talk again soon,so i feel a bit better my only worry is i dont know if we have a future as we dont live together, neither of us wants to leave where we live
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (26 March 2007):
 Hi sweetness,
It seems to me that this relationship has fizzled out. The excitement and spark that was once there is gone... and that's okay. I think you need to seriously consider letting this relationship go because it sounds like it's run its course.
You know that communication is important in a relationship. Effort must be made, however with the right guy you should feel comfortable enough to open up without much added effort. Don't force something to work if it's just not going to.
I wish you both much luck. I just don't think you two are meant for each other from what I've read. I think you can find a guy who you want to open up with and who a relationship and future comes a little more naturally with.
Good luck, sweetness!
xxIndia
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