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female
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36-40,
*eanne_D2007
writes: Me and my boyfriend have been together more than a year now we were really happy together. Two months ago he moved away and changed jobs, he would phone me every day and text me to tell me how much he misses me and loves me. The other week he was gonna come down to see me and then phoned to say he couldnt make it but i havent heard from him since and its been two weeks, now i miss him so much. I've tried texting and calling him but no answer what should i do? i really love him to bits.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2007): I believe you posted about this last week and said you had not heard from him for a week, despite phoning and texting.
Now, he WAS going to visit you, but called to cancel and has not contacted you since, nor have you been able to reach him.
At this point you should leave it alone. You have tried enough and if he won't return your calls, he has either had a bad accident (possible but unlikely). Really, the ball is in his court. If he does not call you, you will have to consider it over - I know this would hurt and you don't want to think he no longer wishes to continue, but that may be what is going on.
REMEMBER: if he REALLY wants to be with you, he will find a way, come what may!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2007): There is obviously an explanation for his absence. Why dont you drive down there, find out what he's doing and why. 2 weeks is a long time, something strange is definitely going on...
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