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writes:hey, I like this guy lets call him "bob" alot. and me and Bob have dated in the past but right now i love him alot. but recently we have drifted and i heard a few days ago that he likes another girl. this girl is very pretty and very nice. so i'm pretty down becoz of it all. I would go talk to him about it but he has recently suffered a loss in the family so i feel he doesnt need it right now. i dont know what to do, i want him so bad but i want him to be happier much more. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you so much for the reply! your a saint!
But i dont think it is that simple.
I dont know for certain he likes this girl, but i know this girl likes him, they were seen all over each other, which sugests he does like her, but i would do anything for him, i love him so much, he's always on my mind, and i cant let him go. I dont get it, im really nice to him and the reason we broke up was (it gets complicated) becoz we both have this mate called rachel. she is like both our best mate, but she has some major issue with us dating, she says we both change, and he tells me that wen she date, we never do anything becoz i dont wanna hurt her.
Ive tried talking to her about it, sh just doesnt understand that i like him loads.
Thanks again for the reply! :D :D
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reader, cd206 +, writes (24 March 2007):
 If he likes another girl I doubt there's much you can do to change that. Yes you could tell him that you're interested in him which would confuse him and be something that he doesn't need right now, or you can accept his right to be happy. There is definitely a reason why you dated in the past and aren't still dating. When you break up it's easy tp forget that reason ever existed but chances are that if you were to get back together it would just emerge again. I'm not going to lie to you. It's possible that if you tell him how you feel he might be delighted and want to go out with you but he might also be annoyed at you for putting him in this position. My advice would be to give him some space and hope you find your way back to each other. When relationships are meant to be this always happens.
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