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writes:i am 13 and this boy keeps asking me out. ive been out with him about 4 times before. the last time was the longest and the best. about 3 weeks . the only thing was that he accused me of not spending enough time with him. thats why he dumped me. in that relation ship he kept askin my mates if i loved him and they said yes (after asking me) when my mates asked him if he loved me he said ' if i love her now, what will i feel when we're married?' i dont know if he just said this to get out of answering or what. (please let me know what you think).Another thing is that he's not the most innocent of boys. the other day i found out that he used to smoke. i dont no how long ago cuz when he came 2 school( wen i was last going out with him bout 4 months ago) with a fag whole in his jumper n i asked him if he smoked he sed noooo it was my mate. but really if his mate was smoking in his room then wouldn't he? im not sure that id be 100% ok if he did smoke or still does. but the main thing on my mind is that he could have lied to me. i wouldn't want him thinking that he couldn't tell me things wen we're goin out. also another thing was wen we were at school porn fell out of his bag and he looked guilty but then couldn't stop laughing afterwards. the worst thing is that i found out that the first time we went out he only went out with me because i had big boobs. this really hurt me. but now he's always tellin every 1 he loves me. he even rote me a note sayin that he loves me ect. I dont no weather to go out with him as hes only 13 but has the mind and body of a 16, 17 year old. lots of people say he's fit but they would never go out with him. i think i love him.please help me.milli kingx-x
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reader, agony aunt j +, writes (19 March 2007):
 i think he generally likes you but kind of enjoys having the power over you to have you whenever he wants. if you think you really like him, confront him about it for sure. if he feels the same and really does like you he'll stop messing you about. tell him to say things to you and not to your friends!
most boys have this ridiculous male thing where they have to act cool - but if he's pushing all that aside and telling people he loves you he probably does like you!
and if you like him too then there's nothing stopping you from going for it. just stay aware, dont let any boy mess you about.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2007): fankoo bby lolly you have opend my eyes i will try to trust him more now.lol. milli kingx-x
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2007): fanks 4 the advice cheeky munkie. its quite gd. da only fing is dat he finks i dont like him but i'm pretty sure he likes me. i could have asked him out any time in the last 8 months and im pretty sure he would have said yes. fankoo so much 4 replying 2 my q. please add anything you want. milli king
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reader, bby lolly +, writes (18 March 2007):
 im 14 and have been in your situation b4.
i think he does love you beacause boys dont tell there mates and every1 thats they love girls!!
dont worry about the smoking i used to smoke and i quit and never look at one now.
dont always think hes lyin you have to trust him.
all lads look at porn!!
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reader, xXxcheekiemunkiexXx +, writes (18 March 2007):
 Awwww bless you, i cant tel your pretty confused?! i think personally that this boy maybe playing you around a bit and becuase he knows that you like him, he can turn hs feelings on and off with you and then he knows that he can have you when he wants you ... not when he doesnt! the boy i like atm is doin tht :( really annoying!! if you talk to him about it to hs face then he cant really lie 2 you ... tell him that your fed up with not knowing if he does or doesnt lie you and that your fine if he doesnt [[ evn tho wel blatently b upset ... dont show him that! ]] .. good luck :D ... sorry if its a bit shitty but wel u no xXx
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