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Archived questions from: February, 2015 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Should I tell the guy I love that I love him? - long back story urgent help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3589 days ago

28 February 2015 (F) - Hey girls and guys . Heres the back story to my problem. I've been in love with the same guy (my best guy friend) since I met him 3/4 years ago. However our relationship is not what I wish it could have been. The first time I tried to tell him...

Why does my bf try to make me feel jealous? He implies that I can't do any better

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3588 days ago

28 February 2015 (F) - I've been with my bf for almost 5 years. Things have been so rocky the last month we're hardly communicating. Last night we talked for almost 3 hours, over facebook, about our issues and how we can't seem to make it work. As the conversation wen...

Is this man capable of being faithful? Should I trust him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3588 days ago

28 February 2015 (F) - I've been with a lovely man for 2 years who has been wonderful to me, including inviting my criminal son to stay with him when he was released from prison. Even when my son stole from him he didn't reject me ( but did quite rightly kick my son out)...

To what extent does scent affect attraction?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3590 days ago

28 February 2015 (F) - A question for the uncles! How much do you enjoy a female's scent? Would you pick a clean but plain smelling girl or rather one who had on an distinct added scent such as perfume, deoderant, shampoo etc.? To what extent does scent affect attractio...

Why do I keep dreaming about this man I dated in the past when I have no real interest in him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3589 days ago

28 February 2015 (F) - Sometime back last year i was dating a dutch Man 28 years of age. He was doing his internship in India and came back home and found a job but he said after living some where else,he really does not like living in Holland. The first time we met he w...

He said it's not me and not personal.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3591 days ago

28 February 2015 (F) - My 38 year old boyfriend of a year is a bit introvert and was dyslexic and I suspect slightly ADD. He gets very focused on work and projects at his house. He shows me he cares with practical things. I'm struggling to feel wanted and cherished wh...

I think anything I did while we were broken up is none of his business!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3588 days ago

28 February 2015 (F) - I broke up with my BF for 5 months. He's married by the way and we had an affair for 2 1/2 years. We have started talking again and want to pursue a relationship but only if he leaves his wife. I refuse to get back to that stressful, wrong mess. ...

He hates sex, I stopped trying to initiate, now he says I neglect him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3591 days ago

27 February 2015 (F) - MOD NOTE: Question asker is aged 60. Hi there. Any help/suggestions for my situation? My man is almost completely impotent....very affectionate, lots of pecks and hugs, but no passionate kissing, and a real fear of sex...whether he's afrai...

He called me stupid and fat.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3589 days ago

27 February 2015 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have a long distance relationship. We've been dating two years, see each other over the weekends and communicate a lot by text. Today, my boyfriend was rude to me over the phone, basically hung up on me for no reason, and then ...

This could be my last chance at having a baby but everything is all wrong!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3590 days ago

26 February 2015 (F) - I am 35 and my bf is 27. We have also only been together for 3mths. I discovered that I am pregnant. I have no kids and to be honest, at my age I had pretty much given up on the idea of it ever happening as I am prob too old now. I was on the ...

I've reconnected with the ex but he's much different now. Will there be a rainbow after the storm?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3593 days ago

26 February 2015 (F) - Hello and thanks I dated a guy 15 years ago and we reconnected. Our relationship was great back then we got along well, he was very good to me, and we loved eachother very much. He was kind, sweet and funny. WE were both young and we mutually deci...

A Beautiful Mind

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26 February 2015 (M) - While this is a phenomenal movie and one I wish to own, this is not what I'll be talking about. I always read some of the most interesting journals on multiple sites, some have a sexual nature, which is nice, don't get me wrong, but to and for m...

My boyfriend made several comments about another woman which hurt me but he said thats how guys talk

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3590 days ago

26 February 2015 (F) - I want some honest help as to whether im overreacting to something that happened this evening. I've been in a relationship for 3 years with this guy and he's helped me no end overcome some trust issues that were holding me back. I'm only his thi...

Is This Too Much For The Context Of A First Date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3593 days ago

25 February 2015 (F) - I watched a video on couples (some strangers, some long term etc) who had to look into each others eyes for 4mins. The experiment proved them to feel closer and much more connected than they did moments ago, after having experienced all of the ...

I had started to think he was the one but once he got comfortable he was disgusting

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3590 days ago

25 February 2015 (F) - I need an advice but deep in my heart, I feel that the impression is irreversible. I have met this guy through common friends. He is his mid 30s, handsome, a doctor, very smart, gentleman and generous person. 2 weeks after I met him we had sex, ...

Is it natural to get so anxious about dating? What can I do about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3594 days ago

25 February 2015 (F) - Why do I get crippled with anxiety as soon as the possibility of anything romantic rears its head? As a person I am perfectly together and happy, I have had three past relationships so it's not as if I'm completely inexperienced, and for a long ...

My boyfriend and I are going to try swinging, will it work?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3594 days ago

25 February 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have decided that are both going to try swinging, or whatever works for us. Not often, but sometimes .. maybe a few times a year if even. Anyway, we broke up last year for two months (something totally unrelated). Duri...

Week of partying while telling me he's done with it all.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3594 days ago

25 February 2015 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles ... Would anyone be ok with their 47 year old boyfriend of 3 Years going out 6 nights in one week. One night was with me, another was at a local pool hall , other nights were clubs. 2 of those nights were 6AM nights ! I ange...

I sent my BF a long sexual message and he replied in only one word. Should I be upset? Or aAm I over-reacting?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3592 days ago

25 February 2015 (F) - My boyfriend is out of town on business. He has been in touch everyday. Says he misses me, thinks about me all the time. I emailed him a very sexually charged message today, quite lengthy, telling him what I want him to do to me in explicit deta...

We were dating exclusively... then I found out he slept with someone else?????

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3593 days ago

25 February 2015 (F) - I've been dating a guy for a few months now. We said both agreed that we are seeing each other exclusively (as i don't like rushing into relationships but also liked him enough to only be interested in him) But I've just found out he slept with ...

Why does he seem interested and then go distant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3594 days ago

24 February 2015 (F) - I met this guy online last year in April, we spoke for months as he worked away in the navy. When he got back we met in person and it went great and planned to meet again. Within a week he stopped talking and cancelled our next date. I didn't hear ...

An people ever change, and if they can how do you know they have really changed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3595 days ago

24 February 2015 (F) - Can people ever change, and if they can how do you know they have really changed? I ask because for the past six years I have been on/off with my ex boyfriend. We met at school and our relationship began when we were 17. At first, everything...

He has too much baggage but I don't have the courage to break up with him!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3585 days ago

24 February 2015 (F) - Well, I'm trying to put an end to my 6 month relationship but I'm having a bit of trouble. I can't quite figure out my feelings towards him. To briefly describe my relationship, I've always had second thoughts about us, but really wanted to try to m...

A three way kiss? Do I tell my Bf? He tends to hurt me when he gets mad.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3595 days ago

24 February 2015 (?) - Ok so basically I have been with my boyfriend now for almost 3 years. We are happy enough, don't really feel butterflies that much any more but we do love each other and he cares about me dearly as I do him. We have fun together and he is my bes...

How do you know when it's the right time to move in with your partner?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3595 days ago

23 February 2015 (F) - Recently my boyfriend has mentioned me moving in with him, he wants me to and when he mentioned it I didn't think 'no it's too soon' or 'wow you're moving too fast' however I've mentioned it to a couple of friends and these were there responses. "...

How could I go about asking her out but at the same time help her feel comfortable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3596 days ago

23 February 2015 (M) - A girl who I like and want to ask out has just revealed to me today that she has Social Anxiety really badly. As much as I want to ask her out, I don't want to make anything uncomfortable for her. Over text she can talk for hours but to my face ...

The girl I am dating is going to have to move 9 hours away. How do I tell her I want to go too?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3595 days ago

23 February 2015 (M) - Dear Cupid, I have just recently started dating a long time friend (known her two years, dated about a month). I have never been in love, but I feel more for this girl than I have anyone in my whole life. I'm 25 and she's 26 by the way. The prob...

My sister wants to go out with my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3596 days ago

23 February 2015 (F) - Hey im ayden and im a 16 year old girl and Ive got a problem. My problem Is that I was with my beyfriend for a whole year and we broke up around 7 months ago.he is a year older than me and my sister is two years older than me and recently she told ...

I contacted my girlfriend 7 times last week and she's still mad about lack of contact?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3596 days ago

23 February 2015 (M) - I contacted my gf 7x last week but it wasn't good enough?? We've been together for 4 years. I'm 36 and she's 32. We usually spend our weekends together but due to work we don't see each other through the week that often so we rely on exchanging me...

Do I swallow my pride and text him first?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3596 days ago

23 February 2015 (?) - Up until last Friday I was dating a guy for nearly 2 month, I really liked him but on that friday he went on a night out with his ex , we argued and he said it was innocent they were only talking about something. But why not just speak over text or ...

What are the ground rules during separation from spouse?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3594 days ago

23 February 2015 (M) - Just curious, what are the ground rules for separating with a spouse i.e. we need some time apart? Is dating and seeing others ok? Please don't look at this as an excuse but rather a consequence of separation....

Boyfriend and I are fighting over small things but he doesn't learn from our fights

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3595 days ago

23 February 2015 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been fighting a lot lately. Ridiculous as it may sound, its over small things, like not saying goodnight, not saying I love you, forgetting to say goodmorning, not picking up when calling...frivolous reasons and some ...

My boyfriend remains friends with a girl who froze me out. I am angry that he remains her friend

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3595 days ago

23 February 2015 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now and met most of his friends, co-workers and even his bosses. One of his closest friend had a new gf who I kinda grew close with. I confided in her when things werent good between me and boyfriend, ...

I am unsure of the signals she gave after our second date

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3596 days ago

23 February 2015 (M) - Ok, so I had my 2nd date last night with a girl that I met on a dating app.. The 1st date was at a pub near her house and last night she came to mine, I put some nice cool easy listening to music on, lit candles and cooked for her. We talked from ...

Does my attitude keep men away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3596 days ago

23 February 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid,I'm single I have been single for quite sometimes by choice now that my children are grown im ready to mingle I have often been told I have a beautiful personality but my attitude is different.What could it be? I'm a beautiful person im ...

All of my boyfriends new friends are girls! Should I worry?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3596 days ago

23 February 2015 (F) - Is it normal that my boyfriend has been befriending/talking with other girls lately? I'm in a serious long term relationship with my boyfriend. We're together every weekend so I notice things here and there., For the past couple of months ...

I think I would rather date my boyfriend's brother

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3596 days ago

23 February 2015 (F) - I have been having this huge problem that just wont go away. So I have been dating this guy for about 4 months now. And I can't say that things have been going great; they haven't. The problem is, I am really into my boyfriends brother. When I am ...

Are they really only after sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3584 days ago

22 February 2015 (F) - I am a 27 year old virgin who has never had a boyfriend before. I am starting to get scared especially as I'm heading towards my 30s and I'm still single and never been in a relationship before. I have been out on dates. I went out on many date...

We've only been dating six weeks but he seldom initiates contact with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3596 days ago

22 February 2015 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 6 weeks. We have met up multiple times though it has been hard as I am a single mother to my 4 year old son. The reason I am here is because I need to know if this is normal or okay. The man I am seeing barely co...

Interested in a co-worker. Last week, she was playful and fun. This week, she's snapping and short-answered.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3597 days ago

22 February 2015 (M) - I work with this girl on a bar. She is attractive, and met her a couple weeks ago while working. There was so real playfulness between us and I thought that there could be something. Fast forward to last night. Coming off the back if a great week,...

Christians, four months dating, and 23 year age difference. He keeps talking marriage.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3596 days ago

21 February 2015 (F) - My question is about how age gap relationships work long term. I am 26 and my other half is 49, we are both Christians and enjoy spending time with each other. Weither we are dating or working for the Church he is a full time Evangelist so his life ...

Why am I seeing this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3598 days ago

21 February 2015 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years and we live together. We went from fighting all the time to hardly fighting to now we are fighting again. There's three issues that I have with him. The first one being his friends and family live about 45 ...

How can I get rid of my bad reputation in a small town? My new Gf's father said I should not be dating his daughter

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3598 days ago

20 February 2015 (M) - I'm 21 and I just started dating an amazing girl. Unfortunately I did a lot of stupid stuff in my past to make fathers not want me near their innocent daughters. She is 18, a senior in high school and lives at home. Her father liked me the fir...

How do I let him know of my needs? I do worry about him flirting with other girls. And it does upset me that he doesn't compliment me as often as I would like.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3596 days ago

20 February 2015 (F) - How do I learn to trust my boyfriend? He does go out with his friends. But I'm just worried he is out flirting with women. Its frustrating that at his age he still loves going to clubs and he drinks a lot. I love him but wish he grows more m...

Boyfriend has gone off sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3596 days ago

20 February 2015 (F) - Hi! I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, living together for over a year. I have to say I had always have more sex drive than him, I am 36 yr, he is 42. But in recent times, I have became very aware of the frequency of sex...

I fejected her friendship after she fejected me first. Did I do the right thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3597 days ago

20 February 2015 (M) - Dear cupids, your valuable opinions help me a lot in the past, so i am here again hoping to get your valuable opinions again. To make it short, a girl who have been a friend for 5 years rejected me 2 months back and i go no contact to heal myself. ...

Am I being defensive about my boyfriends remarks?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3597 days ago

20 February 2015 (F) - Hi, I can't tell if I'm over thinking stuff, and being defensive as he keeps telling me, or I'm sensing mixed signals from him recently. My boyfriend can be quite snobby. But just through insecurity rather than expertise of an area/or wealth. ...

At the very beginning, a year ago, I said I was single. But that wasn't true back then. Do I tell him, now, about this lie?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3600 days ago

19 February 2015 (F) - Hello, So I am looking for a little guidance on a problem that is eating away at me. I have been in a relationship with my significant other for a year. This relationship is by far the best one that I have ever been in and my boyfriend is trul...

So many broken promises from my Bf. After 4.5 years how do I break up with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3599 days ago

19 February 2015 (F) - Modnote: some graphic language removed from post, without changing the meaning. . . . . . . . . . . I am so sick of the rubbish that comes out of my boyfriend's mouth. I'm at my breaking point and want OUT of this relationship. I'm miserable with h...

Don't want to settle down yet. Should I be making more of an effort to find a partner and settle down?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3599 days ago

19 February 2015 (F) - I'm 21 years old and don't feel ready to settle down for ages. I've been single my whole life (had a lot of things to deal with like an abusive family) and would rather be single right now too. Superficially society might consider me most physical...