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Archived questions from: February, 2014 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

I am in a long term relationship but having lustful thoughts of another!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3925 days ago

28 February 2014 (F) - I have been with my bf for 6 years. I've been happy but over the last year I have started to have lustful feelings towards a male friend. I wouldn't want to date him and I would NEVER cheat. But what does this mean? Does it mean that I don't love my ...

Is it safe to talk about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3924 days ago

28 February 2014 (F) - To make it short there's this boy I met while in a school camp abroad and we both come from different countries.While there he told me he likes me and liked me since he first saw me and after he told me this I told him I feel the same.Then we spent ...

I am starting to get angry at his attitude!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3924 days ago

28 February 2014 (F) - I have been dating a man for 3 years. I have stupidly "overlooked" some interesting behaviors on his part including: does he like and respect women? (Example: if it's breast cancer awareness month he goes on about how come its all about women? If ...

Do men find it difficult to cope with a very independent woman? And how can an independent woman prevent a partner from being needy?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

28 February 2014 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles. I wonder if someone can help? I have a mixture of two problems in one. Firstly, do men find it difficult to cope with a very independent woman? Secondly, how can an independent woman prevent a partner from being, for want ...

What is your opinion on this? Should I give it a try with this guy or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

28 February 2014 (F) - Heya :) Okay, so I'm a socially awkward person, but I'm gradually dealing with it better thanks to this new group of friends I've started hanging around with. I think this could also be the reason I've not had a proper relationship before. The prob...

Why would she deactivate her profile after mine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

28 February 2014 (M) - Dear Cupid, I know I'm young. I know I've got my whole life ahead of me. But I was with my on/off girlfriend for a couple of years. Rumour had it she cheated. The usual stuff I guess when you're young. Anyway, things got a little messy. W...

My fab new BF ticks all my boxes but won't give oral

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3924 days ago

28 February 2014 (F) - Dear all Please advise. I ve been dating this fabulous guy for around a monthnow. He is kind, intelligent, reliable, handsome and has loads of otger great qualities. We get on very well and I could not ask for more except he doesn' t do oral whi...

Is it ok to date a separated person?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

27 February 2014 (M) - I'm divorced and met a woman through friends who's married but living separated lives with her husband for financial reasons. Long story short, she invited me out for a date. Is it wrong to date a separated woman who's husband is already out there ...

Is she not interested? Was it too soon to tell her how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3908 days ago

27 February 2014 (M) - Hello cupid Well, I am pursuing a girl for some time and dating for 3 months . Well, the other day I met her and told her how I feel about her ( i am attracted to her and why i like her) and she seemed shy for a moment and then she was very co...

Should I tell him about kissing a guy when I was 22?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3926 days ago

27 February 2014 (F) - I have been married for a little less than a year to a man I love. I could never imagine betraying our marriage ever- I am completely and happily devoted to him. Before we got married, we dated for about 10 years since I was 18- long distance. ...

Am I being unfair or irrational about his apparent lack of interest in making time for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

27 February 2014 (F) - My LT bf works long hours, every week day and then has to do work from home at the weekend. As a result, we don't spend a huge amount of time together, usually 8.30/9-10.30 (bedtime) a few days a week and then a few hours on and off at weekend. I ...

Boyfriend has said "I'm a keeper" multiple times out of no where?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

27 February 2014 (F) - So this past week my bf has said I was a keeper multiple times. Last night he tells me his boss wanted to meet me because he was telling her about me, he said "she's a keeper". Within the past 2 days he's said it 3 times. what does that really mean ...

What can I do about my Bf's extreme aversion towards contact with me when I have my period? His actions are hurtful.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3921 days ago

27 February 2014 (F) - my boyfriend is good to talk to, not a great listener, but he is very passionate when he cares, is helpful, understanding and not egotistic and is generous. but when it comes to me been on my period, it is a whole different box of cookies, i cannot...

Do I need the hurt again? He's trying to get back with me. I still care for him. But I keep on rejecting him

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3926 days ago

27 February 2014 (F) - It's so easy to say dont answer his calls or respond to his texts. I really love him and I want it to work but i know that he has to change. Someone said that he needs sex and that is why he is trying to talk to me again but i am pretty sure he w...

I need help with how to relate to my LDR, please? I don't know what to do to make things better.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3926 days ago

27 February 2014 (F) - I need urgent help. So this guy I met a year ago or a little more (in person) have recently started talking. We share a lot of things in common, we're both creative and both of us are in college although I'm in a gap year staying with my family a...

His home smells. Am I being petty. How can I solve this problem ?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3926 days ago

27 February 2014 (?) - I am in an LDR and every other weekend I see my bf. I love him very much but I hate his house. I know it sounds very shallow but it is a very very old house. The bathroom has mould growing in it and green bathtub...toilet etc. The whole house ...

How can I break this way of thinking? I don't feel like I'll ever find the kind of relationship I want

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3926 days ago

27 February 2014 (F) - The infatuation and excitement of a new relationship does not last for years and years, but a lot of people don't seem to understand that. I feel like I probably won't find someone who understands that long relationships are not rainbows and butt...

Banned at work! Romantic relationships, what to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3926 days ago

27 February 2014 (M) - I work at a place where romantic relationships between employees are banned. I know this woman there, we've both been there for many many years, been friends all this time. I know she has a romantic attraction for me and I am attracted as well. We ...

Is he a commitment phobe?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3910 days ago

26 February 2014 (F) - I've been dating a guy for over four months now and, while he pursues me and makes all of the dates (1x weekly), our relationship hasn't really progressed, and we haven't had the whole, "exclusivity" talk. He doesn't ask me about my hopes and ...

His drinking is affecting the way I see this relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3926 days ago

26 February 2014 (F) - Hi, I've been dating a guy for 6 months, but have known him for a year through a work contact. Since we have become official I have noticed when I call on week day evenings (we only meet at weekends due to distance) he isounds drunk at least 3 times ...

Do guys like being touched in the back of their neck?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3926 days ago

26 February 2014 (F) - guys do you like it when a girl runs her fingers through your hair above your neck /touch the back of your neck too? ...

He tells me he likes me, then stops talking to me?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

26 February 2014 (?) - We've known eachother for a few months now, met up a couple of times, and as the weeks went by I started to like him. We would talk to each other almost everyday, and feelings got stronger on my part. Over a week ago, we were both flirting like ...

Can it be stress or is he getting bored with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3926 days ago

26 February 2014 (F) - Is it me being insecure or is he falling out of love? My boyfriend of a year and a half goes through phases where he telling me he loves me everyday and then phases where he doesn't. At the moment he doesn't really say it a lot. He says it if I say...

Why are there times when I'm not attracted to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3926 days ago

25 February 2014 (F) - Why do I go through phases of finding him very attractive, and then not so much so? I love my boyfriend, and generally speaking he is a good looking guy. I find myself wildly attracted to him sometimes...and then other times...not really. I know i...

We've been talking on the phone for 6 months, dating for 5 weeks, we are a perfect match and he has asked me to move in with him!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

25 February 2014 (F) - I was speaking to a guy on the phone for about 6 months, he always asked me out on a date but going from his picture he wasn't my type. Then my car blew up and he said he knew someone who had a golf so 1 afternoon my mum and 1 went up to see it and ...

If she can't take money from me in this crunch, what's the point of me being her fiance and see her struggling?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

25 February 2014 (M) - I have been in love with American woman for two years. I met her when I was visiting US for business purpose. She also came to Pakistan and I also go here and there. I'm 33 , she is 28. We were engaged now and she has ring from my side and I have ...

He doesn't know how to have a conversation with me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

25 February 2014 (F) - I've been seeing a male friend for a few weeks. I think he's a lovely person... he admitted he has feelings for me last weekend and he said he wants to be in a relationship with me in the future. The only problem is, I'm confused as to whether I ...

My boyfriend is going through a tough time at the moment .....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

25 February 2014 (F) - How can I help my depressed boyfriend? It hurts to see him so down So my bf have been really distant lately and we had a big arguements cause I was so frustrated and angry with him. I said he doesn't deserve me. and he was really hurt about th...

I still love him with all my heart but the butterflies have gone.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

25 February 2014 (F) - So.. When my boyfriend and I first started talking I would get butterflies and get really super happy when I talked to him, but now I don't get super happy or butterflies. Is this a sign that we need to take a break or what? I'm so confused on what ...

Why am I kept separate from his friends and family after dating for over a year?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3929 days ago

24 February 2014 (F) - Okay me and my boyfriend have been dating over a year. Ive only met his mom once, 2 of his friends once and that was a year ago when we first started dating. He doesnt take me around anyone for whatever reason because he says im boring. Our ...

How can I trust him to be a nice guy again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3929 days ago

24 February 2014 (F) - Hi everybody there, I have some trust and reliance problems with my boyfriend. We were in a long distance relationship about one year and now he's living at mine. I'm from East Europe and he's from West part and spends his holiday in my country....

Why was my boyfriend more experimental with his ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3929 days ago

24 February 2014 (F) - I know from little conversations we've had here and there that my boyfriend had much more experimental sex with his ex. Questions like: have you done this or that before? To which he might say yes.. We have a great sex life anyway, he tells me I'm ...

My boyfriend thinks I am cheating because I am 'too loose".

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3921 days ago

24 February 2014 (F) - Help, my boyfriend, we've been together for 2 years and he thinks I'm cheating because I feel "loose", and I feel it to. We used to have sex everyday, but it began to lessen. Now we have sex once every two weeks, and even then I still feel loose, I ...

When my girlfriend gets mad, she doesn't scream, she doesn't shout, she just shuts down!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3929 days ago

24 February 2014 (M) - Hey guys. I'll go ahead and jump right in. I'm a 30 year old male. I've been seeing my gf for just over a year now. We have talked about moving in together within the next year or so and marriage, but her behaviors are totally destroying our r...

Now then ...what about sexual fantasies in committed relationships?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

24 February 2014 (M) - Hello, I have a strict question about sexuality/fantasies in relationships. First off, I have come to a point with my girlfriend where I'm pretty certain everything can be put in the open if asked correctly, that is, it works generally with...

After four years of dating he still avoids talking about committment.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3930 days ago

24 February 2014 (F) - Hi cupids, I'm looking for some advice because I'm really upset and I don't know if I'm doing the right thing. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 and a half years, and we've been having some issues lately because he has been avoiding th...

How can I tell if he is addicted to porn?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3929 days ago

23 February 2014 (F) - Ok aunts ... Please help... Is there any way for a woman to know before she gets too deeply involved with a guy whether he has a porn addiction? It is clear that he uses porn regularly but I have come out of a marriage where my husband was very ver...

What is left to do safely without getting HPV?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

23 February 2014 (F) - I am a a 31 year old female recently divorced and now dating again. Recently I got out of an almost year long relationship with a man, and I now test positive for HPV after my Pap Smear. Here is the situation: We did everything right, we both ...

3 month anniversary post on girlfriend's wall. What do I say?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3929 days ago

23 February 2014 (M) - My three month anniversary with my girlfriend is today. She has asked me to post a long post on her wall. We have been through alot together and really are thinking about the future together. What do I say. Please help.. I need help fast I am ...

Boyfriend not responding..does he just not want to see me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3929 days ago

23 February 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm hoping you can help me decide what to do here because I'm really worried but not sure if I should be more mad than upset. My boyfriend of 4.5 years was playing a gig with his band. He is the drummer and has to drive, so he tol...

Boyfriend cannot express his emotional needs and its driving me away!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3929 days ago

23 February 2014 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a few years but have only recently lived together. Up until lately we have been doing very well 99% of the time. We have strong feelings for each other and are an ideal couple. I am 28 and he is a few years youn...

Even if I started something with this co-worker it couldn't last. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3929 days ago

23 February 2014 (F) - Hi, i am so disturbed because I like this guy very much.we started out as friends but he took it to another level by really engaging with me, getting at a very personal level.I have a partner but my relationship with him is not strong.This guy on ...

He keeps cancelling on me at the last minute

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3930 days ago

23 February 2014 (F) - I have been talking to a guy for a few weeks now. I really like him and he says he likes me, too. We have similar interests and career goals (music and art) and we are both kind of socially awkward and creative people; I think we click well (but he ...

We have rekindled our childhood romance.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3929 days ago

23 February 2014 (F) - Hell!!! I've been dating a guy for three months and we both still have feelings for each other from when we were kids. We dated when we were 16 years old and I still feel like a nervous teen since we rekindled the flame. At least twice a week...

Please help me compose an anniversary post!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3930 days ago

23 February 2014 (M) - My three month anniversary with my girlfriend is tomorrow. She has asked me to post a long post on her wall. We have been through alot together and really are thinking about the future together. What do I say. Please help...

I'm pregnant, but who's the daddy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3930 days ago

23 February 2014 (F) - heya, iv just found out im pregant and im not sure who the father is. i found out 4 days ago that i am pregrant and still am not sure if i should keep it or not. there are two possible fathers but there is only 3 days between them, so could n...

Some questions about sex and oral contraceptives.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3930 days ago

22 February 2014 (M) - So recently my girlfriend and i have started using oral contraception in place of condoms after getting checked out, we were loving it and i cumed first, as men usually do and because of a lack of condom it was inside her. After 10 minutes or so we ...

It feels like I am no longer good enough for him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3929 days ago

22 February 2014 (F) - Hello Dear cupid ladies and Gentlemen. I'm in a very confusing situation with my boyfriend of a year. For starters our relationship is going straight to the ground. Since January we've been fighting a lot every single day! And he's been acti...

We were in a rut. But has our break of 5 months gone on too long for us to start again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3930 days ago

22 February 2014 (F) - Hi all, Cut a long story short, me and my ex boyfriend were together for four years. We started arguing all of the time and the relationship became stuck in a rut! We were making each other miserable so we decided to take a break from the re...

Worried that I'm not meeting expectations and worried about having sex again. What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3931 days ago

22 February 2014 (F) - I am so worried that I don't enjoy sex because I'm too worried thinking about whether I'm living up to expectations or being good in bed. I'm 21 and not a virgin but had very little sexual experience all with guys who used me and at the time me b...