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writes:Heya :)Okay, so I'm a socially awkward person, but I'm gradually dealing with it better thanks to this new group of friends I've started hanging around with.I think this could also be the reason I've not had a proper relationship before. The problem is when I feel I'm getting close to someone, i just suddenly feel all awkward and end up pushing them away, and then lose all contact with them. I don't want this and I'm trying to change it.Anyway, theres this guy who I'm friends with who has recently told his friends he's got feelings for me. And its all good since we're in the same group of friends we hang out together a lot of the time. I guess I kind of have feelings for him too, but I'm not too sure yet.Anyway, I'm willing to give it a go except the fact my friends keep telling me that he's 'desperate' and that he goes after all the new girls that come into the group, and apparently i'm just a rebound from the last girl he liked.Now I want to make my own opinion, but now I'm just worried that what their saying is true. I keep thinking about what if we get together and then someone better comes along. I know this is probably silly, but I genuinely don't know what to do :/Anyway i guess my question is:What is your opinion on this? Should I give it a try with this guy or not?Thanks :) Reply to this Question
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reader, PeanutButter  +, writes (28 February 2014):
 You should perhaps see how the friendship goes and if there is anything romantic in it then let it come naturally. You have plenty of time and if nothing comes of it, you'll still have a friend and that is perfectly ok, too! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2014): I think you should wait until you're totally sure that you're interested in him before making a move. and as for the friends. how can you be so sure that they're telling the truth about him going with different girls? to test to see if it's true, keep an eye out for the new girls and see how he reacts. otherwise, go with him. at least then if something bad happens, you can learn a lesson''' good luck x!
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