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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:To make it short there's this boy I met while in a school camp abroad and we both come from different countries.While there he told me he likes me and liked me since he first saw me and after he told me this I told him I feel the same.Then we spent the rest of the days there like a couple more or less by holding hands, embracing, tickling/poking, slowly getting to know each other and coming to the conclusion that we are quite similar in the last day.When I asked him what we'll be of us he told me he doesn't want to decide and it would be better to stay friends since we live in different countries.It's been more than a week since I am back and right now we text every day.I know if I ask him something it will lead to a point where I can tell him about a guy I've told him before and I can tell him how and what he's been flirting again with me recently.My question is, is it ok to talk to a guy you like about other guys who are hitting on you or seem to be interested?Would that be weird or push him away?Or would he think I'm over him and see him as a friend only now?It's not like that at all I still am very fond of him and in love with him.I just have this urge I can't explain.Maybe I want to see if I can get a reaction out of him.We are both 18.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2014): Its unlikely that you fell in love so quickly, I would advise you stay away from that word for now as it could complicate things and you are both still young at the end of the day.
You are entitled to talk to whoever you wish, but if these boys are flirting then I would make your feelings clear to them, especially if you are serious about this boy. Still talk if you want but you are walking on thin ice, be sure you don't hurt anyone.
I personally would stick to the one you like and clear up any uncertainties with the others, playing games with people's hearts will backfire on you. Make sure you know what you're doing and don't flirt back, tell them straight.
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